thomas > Cos her parents wanted to meet up with mine. So i asked her to sound out how many tables they wanted, so dun quarrel during the meeting. I can imagine the conversation went something like this ...
Geri > Mummy, how many tables are you asking for ?
Mum > 10. cos all her cousins got 10.
Geri > but you know we are paying for this wedding. We don't want darrel's parents to fork out any money.
Mum > Where got like that one. Traditionally, the guys side pay for everything.
Geri > But we dun want them to pay for anything. Since they are already retired and not working. So from our budget, we can only give 6
Mum > But all your cousins got 10 tables.
Geri > cannot compare like that one marr.. Our table is 1288++ and table of 12
Mum > Who ask u to pick conrad ...
Geri > *speechless* (want face value, now want more tables). But you cannot compare like that. My good friend's (also the bride) parents offered to pay for the wedding. Since u want to compare, lets do that
Mum > ...
Geri > since we're comparing, her good friends parents also bought their daughter a diamond bracelet. So can i expect an expensive present from you ?
Mum > ...
Geri > * ultimate trump card * Anyway since we are on this topic, I dun want to plan for kids until I have my Europe honeymoon...
Mum > Dun need to go europe one lar ... blah blah blah.
Actually my wife is quite pissed over this.
But conclusion, we are giving her 8 tables and a roast pig.
Thats a immediate 12K loss.