I think as a general rule of thumb, if u are really concerned abt making losses then u ought to look for less pricey/posh venues. Me and wife also put this point into consideration when choosing our venue and we ended up with our hotel which matched the ongoing market rate of APs which most ppl tend to give nowadays. I think it is pretty sad to see a lot of my frens selecting those 5-star hotels just to save 'face' and ended up mired in debts after their wedding. Is it really worth it?
not that we cannot afford it...we just felt that the $$$ lost can be put to better use elsewhere. getting married, everything also needs $$$...and yes, we managed to make a profit after our decision to hold ours at a value-for-money venue
not that we cannot afford it...we just felt that the $$$ lost can be put to better use elsewhere. getting married, everything also needs $$$...and yes, we managed to make a profit after our decision to hold ours at a value-for-money venue