Diane> sometimes when it comes to guys (not all though), u have to be more 'vocal' as in let the know how u feel. If not, they will have to guess. lata guess sala, how? ends up both r unhappy. of cos when we tell them, tell them in a nice way. tell them how we feel, instead of playing guessing game.
Like what Mag said, u'll be a happy bride!
mag> i must agree, when u c the sincerity & effort to make the changes (even the slightest), it's all worth the while. =)