Hi XKA
Think 2 reminders are good enough bah, email, save the date and actual invitation seems abit too much. For our relatives, i will leave them to both side parents while we handle the friends, colleagues. Yours is easy to remember as is a wkends.
For my MUA, actually i cannot decide between Elson and Miki, but from the photo album, i prefer elson but for AD, i may like Miki MU as is not so "kua zhua" Anyway, both already have booking on the same day, so i booked Elson.
Went BOWS, nothing much, just tasted 4 pcs of cake from pine garden, thumb up.