Some master also told me the same thing, saying that the tong shu 2009 is not release yet... therefore, unable to check for me & my FH...
I was thinking, cannot be what... if that is really the case, what happen to those who intending to get marry between Jan - Mar... Right?
I believe, if the master is pro enough, they can actually refer to another thicker version of tong shu which is like a 10 years series... it is very difficult to understand unless the master is pro enough...
Anyway, whatever the advice that the master is giving... the decision lies on the couple itself... it is your wedding... And whether the marriage works or not, depends on both of us... If both are not working hand in hand to make the marriage works, no matter how good the date is, it is totally useless...
Sorry if anyone of you feel offended by what i have said... it is just my 2 cents of advice...
I am also a BTB in March 2009. And i have chosen a date with is meaningful for me & my FH, which is our 8th year anniversary...
Lastly, it is gonna be our big day... So other than ensuring that both parties parents are happy... Make sure that you & your FH are happier...
Cheers