YL> tks so much for the advice…I actually isolated myself for the past wk..refused to reply my hubby’s calls and smses..felt that nobody can help me.. last nite he came to my place in the night,and we had a long talk and I broke down completely.. he gave me a different perspective to things..nvr reali listen to him all the time,bt dunno y tis time I did…and I felt better after tat..
Happiness&bliss>I wish I hv the courage like u to resign bt eventually I din…I don hv to travel like u bt I hv a spine problem and my work need physical strength so it’s quite strenuous,and my work very stressful. So in my field of work, unless I quit totally if nt still will need to exert.
Dor>tks gal..i spoke to hubby already.i guess I hv to adjust myself somehw..cos I tink I m too stressed up already..will nt tender meanwhile and see hw first…cos the $$ is impt..for the studies and flat..if I take unpaid leave,then it will hv a big impact on my work position when I return..my job sucks cos I cant take 1 or 2 days leave as and when we like..we are onli allow to ballot our leave end dec for the following yrs leave,and we hv to take 1 wk(mon-sun) block leave.so it’s quite tedious..
Spoiltbabe>I nt sure if it’s my work tat’s stressed..or wedding or studies..or everyth….i tink I hv overcome my biggest prob after speaking to my hubby last nite…I will see hw it goes..i tink it’s all in my mind…if I reali cant overcome it after my wedding nxt mth then I will reconsider my resignation..bt ur msg reali make me happy.
Rach>=) reali reali sincerely happy to hv u gals here as frens..love u all...haha..mushy ya…will try to come in more often!!will try to steal some time in btwn assignments.!!