strawberries>i feel the same as u at first thinking they got the invitation card and no new mean good new,last night after i had send out a reminder sms,it wasn't the case,one ex colleague after receive my sms,can act blur until pretend i was her branch colleague,said i see her everyday at branch ,y i still send this type of sms to her.i reply and tell her who i m,did i get the correct person,is she so and so....then finally she reply ya she is ,then tell me she cannot attend my wedding cause that day is her cousin weddding also.i straight away told her i m sad n diappointed ,that those i treat as frend,promise me to come and yet last minute tuan me tat way.if i did not send a reminder msg so she will no show,i dont understand these ppl lor if dun want go when ask them through ph two mths back,they can tell us straight,no hard feeling,rather then promise already,said no problem then when the date coming near ,seat reservce for them already,then all sort of paterns will come out.