Hmmm, yah kaye, as what the rest said, it’s better that u casually let ur IL know. My parent is very easy people, when come to our wedding, they are very bo chap with the tradition... but when little prince was born, they choose his name very carefully. My BIL got a feng shui master to list out chinese characters based on his ba zhi (a list for his 1st and a list for 2nd name and match to his name now Wei Fong). my dad said, no same chinese character as my dad generation and above (even uncle, grand-uncle they all if they can still rem their name) and the generation of my sister means our cousins other than their children. So left with no much character left
