yah, jiazhuang is the jewellery etc that the parents prepare for us to bring over. My mil said that my parents have to prepare to show her relatives, kns! They better bring their shades lo. I tink this whole wedding thing is to show off to relatives, my side dun have all these crap, mil keep saying wont my aunts say if we dun give them cakes......
I am so ahead of my plans or on time, but mil has again n again tested my patience. She refused to RSVP, saying that if we invite ppl, they sure to come, we cant go n rsvp by confirming how many in the family coming. They happy n got time they will come, no need to go n ask!!! We shld expect to make a loss. She is behaving like a b*T**. My hb tell me whether I like it or nt, she is going to do this, send the invites out only on gdl! If I am not happy, he will tell her nt to invite anyone, I can choose to hate his mum or go n kill her. All he wants to everyone to be happy.
I told him mil is so selfish, she nvr put herself in our shoes...she goes ard praying hoping that God can help cos she worry we got not enuff $, but she din even do her part to help us minimise losses. Wld God help someone who is obviously lazy? sorry for ranting cos I shld insist that she cant invite anyone in 1st plc, she like it or nt!!!