jazol, mei, kaye, i don't like him to be in police force coz if he works night shift and i work in the day or he went for training, isn't it that im not seeing him. Ever since we met in Day 1, he was serving NS and we can only meet from sat noon to sun evening time for the 1st 2 years we were together. Sometime he will go oversea for training, cant see him for 3 weeks. finally he ORD, and he went into University and again we seldom meet. Now finally he graduated 9 months ago, we are married and he has a stable job at his fam biz, and he's still thinking of police force. his mum doesn't agree too lor. So called im unfair, but i just want a simple life with him. And what if we are starting BB plan and during fertile time, where am i suppose to find him? what if i have a child and he join police force and mother & child need him? And also how abt his parent who are still passing over the biz to him and once he's ready to take over, its time for his parent to retire, and then he left the co? If the biz is earning money, i still feel he should continue unless from the start, he shouldn't have accepted this job