Thanx Kellyj,
My parents already got a tea set and my parents in law will be bringing another tea set, so will I still need to bring over? another thing is, I dun have kua to change. My mother in law made a lot of cheongsams for me. Can I just wear one of those?
and who makes the tea? On my hubby's end, its just his parents who are coming over. On my end I've got my aunties and my cousins. So who makes the tea and who carries the tray on my end? My mother doesn't quite care about my wedding. everytime I ask her, she'll say she don't know. But in fact, during her wedding, she had an elaborate ceremony and a few years back, she was the "matchmaker" for my cousin's wedding. So she should know, but she just doesn't care for my wedding.