I am also kinda pissed with my HB. Everything also I go n find out, research and then present to him. He never find out anything except some venues cos he has contacts......
Recently also argue with him, cos we went to a geomancer to get a date last yr end for AD dates but he is not able to provide a timing and guo da li dates as tongshu is not out yet. My mum ask us to go find the master so that we can plan in advance. My hb tell me still got time no need to go so soon, go next yr cos mil say so!
When I told my mum, she got so shocked, say our AD is in early 4th lunar mth, b4 that is chingming, so we better not do anything during that period. Ask me y my inlaws n hb do things always last min. That time also keep asking for estimated number of tables, tell me about 20 tables, expect us go n find a venue without any estimation, tell us no need to find venue so soon! She tinks its easy to find venue, no need to tink abt $, space n negotitate one.