Hi Celestine,
Worse than i expected. That means to say the sister hb also agree on it. And why your MIL? She is not the owner of the house and they go consult her. Damn mad for you. How can?
If in the near future, if you all ever quarrel over it. Put your situation out and ask them to step in your shoes. (The asking of MIL while you're the owner, the quickie reno they are pushing while you guys are still saving and the fact that yourself as a owner also haven't chu chia from the new house) I believe nobody in the right mind will agree to it. Tell them dun convenience themself at the expenses of others.
Where have all their manners gone to? Does your hb have a set of keys or its just that set you kept. If still got spare, i suggest you keep all. I not sure with all the psycho from 3 person will make your hb soft hearted. Hopefully not.
To all: I hope you girls won't feel that i'm teaching bad things to Celestine. One must know their own right and know how to fight for it. If not, everyone will start to step on the head. Will only have a lifetime to regret.
I think their motive is more like make use of your new house to let everyone see she chu chia from a new house and not a shabby one. For face.
Even got money, where got the time? Where is their common sense?
Think i understand why your hb won't wanna tell you. Scare get pressure from you if you object or afriad that yu might get all upset over it. (Which i see you did) But must tell him nicely, now that you guys are already married. Burden are equally shared and hapiness are doubled. Hve to talk things out one.
Since they can use your new house to chu chia, why not from the grandmotehr in law house. Also not their house what. I dun understand. Can elborate more?
Angeline
Worse than i expected. That means to say the sister hb also agree on it. And why your MIL? She is not the owner of the house and they go consult her. Damn mad for you. How can?
If in the near future, if you all ever quarrel over it. Put your situation out and ask them to step in your shoes. (The asking of MIL while you're the owner, the quickie reno they are pushing while you guys are still saving and the fact that yourself as a owner also haven't chu chia from the new house) I believe nobody in the right mind will agree to it. Tell them dun convenience themself at the expenses of others.
Where have all their manners gone to? Does your hb have a set of keys or its just that set you kept. If still got spare, i suggest you keep all. I not sure with all the psycho from 3 person will make your hb soft hearted. Hopefully not.
To all: I hope you girls won't feel that i'm teaching bad things to Celestine. One must know their own right and know how to fight for it. If not, everyone will start to step on the head. Will only have a lifetime to regret.
I think their motive is more like make use of your new house to let everyone see she chu chia from a new house and not a shabby one. For face.
Even got money, where got the time? Where is their common sense?
Think i understand why your hb won't wanna tell you. Scare get pressure from you if you object or afriad that yu might get all upset over it. (Which i see you did) But must tell him nicely, now that you guys are already married. Burden are equally shared and hapiness are doubled. Hve to talk things out one.
Since they can use your new house to chu chia, why not from the grandmotehr in law house. Also not their house what. I dun understand. Can elborate more?
Angeline
