ladies, i do not know whether anyone would have a disaster Customary wedding like me but I would really like to share with you all about mine.
First of all, i was "force" to marry within 100 days due to my grandfather pass away and my hubby family wouldn't let me wait for 2 years
I reside in singapore but the big wedding would be held in Indonesia (guy side) and my girl side wedding dinner in Malaysia. So all coordinating was horrible.
my mom is at another place helping my brother with his new born baby so she only came back to our hometown 20 days before the date fixed
within 100 days i had to rush for my photoshoot, continue working, plan for my special day. During photoshot i did fake nails and cause a great injury as the fake nails embedded into my real nail (one toe) and i had to get the doctor to remove the whole toe nail.
I had to do shopping for guo da li, being the middle person (via phone) with the guo da li list. My parents and I flew to indonesia to discuss the guo da li list and it went bad as the pin jin issue.
One week before my Malaysia girl side dinner, i was so worn out and nearly lost my voice on my wedding dinner. Coordinating the hotel accomodation for my in law and doing the seating arrangment. why i didn't delegate the job? because there was no one to delegate to.
etc etc issues occured in malaysia
then 14 days later is my Customary actual day. Tried to recover and flew in. Went all by myself to the BS to get my gowns and suit. Imagining carrying 2 gowns and 1 suit.... and the car park is all the other way. Hubby didn't flew in with me and flew in 2 hours before me.
4 days before my AD, my mensus came and gave the worst cramp. Took 1 whole day to settle in.
3 days before my wedding, is my SONG JIA ZHUANG. so the day before was busy packing and buying last minute things that i missed out
but at night i feel sick. I was vomitting non-stop but there is nothing for me to vomit. they say my stomach got in wind.
the day before my wedding, i settle in more. Afternoon rush for manicure and by 3 pm, my overseas guest from malaysia/signapore arriving. So by 8 pm, still feeling weak but need to get things done. At 11pm at last minute discussion with my Jie Mei and sleep at 2 am
Wedding day - Tonnes of things went wrong...
Plan to have my church wedding in 2008 because i really have no time to go for the EE/MPC course. And then was told i cannot wear white again in church. Mom doesn't seem to be supportive and feel i am trying to show off on a church wedding. ROM is also in 2008 as hubby want to rom in australia.
and now... i totally have no excitement at all for my ROM/Church wedding, and feel like my marriage is going to be like the wedding. Full of hurdles and would be a disappointment.
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