(2005) Brides of year 2005
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snowy_casper
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ger,
#2??? i want leh.. but my hubby said financially cannot afford.. so ask me to close shop
but me still hoping to hv accident lor... if by this yr still dun hv.. mayb i will close shop liao..
oic.. HK = hello kitty.. hahaha
forgot your are "her" fans
ting,
oic.. than wait for aldan to turn 1yr lah..
you still young!
#2??? i want leh.. but my hubby said financially cannot afford.. so ask me to close shop
but me still hoping to hv accident lor... if by this yr still dun hv.. mayb i will close shop liao..
oic.. HK = hello kitty.. hahaha
forgot your are "her" fans
ting,
oic.. than wait for aldan to turn 1yr lah..
you still young!
snowy_casper
New Member
ger,
i feel that oso.. so lonely...
dun use protection??? provided my hubby agree lah...
tik difficult for me to hv accident....
i feel that oso.. so lonely...
dun use protection??? provided my hubby agree lah...
tik difficult for me to hv accident....
hi ladies,
long time no login leow.
haha...seem like most of you thinking of having no 2.
for me, most propably stopping at 1. cos finacially very tight is one of the issue.
initially hb still say, see how 1st. but now, he kinda agree with me to stop at one leow.
hahaha..
i know i a bit selfish lah.cos inez will be very lonely. but cos we dun want to put too much strain on our financial to just provide for the 2nd one. hee..
long time no login leow.
haha...seem like most of you thinking of having no 2.
for me, most propably stopping at 1. cos finacially very tight is one of the issue.
initially hb still say, see how 1st. but now, he kinda agree with me to stop at one leow.
hahaha..
i know i a bit selfish lah.cos inez will be very lonely. but cos we dun want to put too much strain on our financial to just provide for the 2nd one. hee..
looks like most of u stopping at #2... actually i want either 3 -4 kids but now looks like even #2 oso so difficult and will be too old to try liao later... i hope that it's not just 1 kiddo so that it's not so lonely next time. hee....
ting, haha, so should congrat u that ur 'aunty' came??
ya, if can ttc earlier oso gd, never to early to try.
tht day when we went for a wedding dinner, mi hb's fren was telling us that he had testicle cancer and had to go for surgery. then his wife got pregnant in dec and lost the baby 5 days later. naturally didnt survive. so sad hor... they wanted a kid badly.
ting, haha, so should congrat u that ur 'aunty' came??
ya, if can ttc earlier oso gd, never to early to try.
tht day when we went for a wedding dinner, mi hb's fren was telling us that he had testicle cancer and had to go for surgery. then his wife got pregnant in dec and lost the baby 5 days later. naturally didnt survive. so sad hor... they wanted a kid badly.
newbbi, no prob regarding the HK stuff, u let me know when u see it when u go shopping hor...oh ya, can help me look out for HK weighing scale, those small digital kind, i want it for the kitchen. heh!
lloks like i might need to get more HK storage fr u if u still have them.
lloks like i might need to get more HK storage fr u if u still have them.
Morning ladies,
Pierced,
Dun worry ger, #2 is on the way ya..jiayou k..dun be too stressed up, rem, u will strike when you least expected it to be =).
ahyo, so scary leh..hiaz...i hv 2 frenz who had chemical pregnancy also lor, end up lost their #1, now both of then hv a 6mth boy and a 7mth old ger liao =).
Can lor..yours is the peeler, measuring jar hor? U want those small weighing scale huh? Can lor, if have I call u ya =). Next wk i going shopping to relief my stress so will keep a lookout for you..Mayb will help u order from kk lor, then i can go help u get..easier hor..So u wan me to trf the payment bk to you 1st cos i just got my refund yest =)..Or u wan me to deduct watever I bot for you? I have afew more BN one lor, let me know if you want ya =)...Those storage boxes + 2-tier drawers lor =).
Pierced,
Dun worry ger, #2 is on the way ya..jiayou k..dun be too stressed up, rem, u will strike when you least expected it to be =).
ahyo, so scary leh..hiaz...i hv 2 frenz who had chemical pregnancy also lor, end up lost their #1, now both of then hv a 6mth boy and a 7mth old ger liao =).
Can lor..yours is the peeler, measuring jar hor? U want those small weighing scale huh? Can lor, if have I call u ya =). Next wk i going shopping to relief my stress so will keep a lookout for you..Mayb will help u order from kk lor, then i can go help u get..easier hor..So u wan me to trf the payment bk to you 1st cos i just got my refund yest =)..Or u wan me to deduct watever I bot for you? I have afew more BN one lor, let me know if you want ya =)...Those storage boxes + 2-tier drawers lor =).
mornin all =)
linda- no. 2 gt 4k cash n govt match up to 6k in cda acct. tat can help relieve u financially in sm ways mah =)
pierced- hahah... i was relieved cos nt prepared to hv another one so soon leh. but thn on 2nd tot, realise it may take sm time for me to conceive so ytd my hb said can start aft my af ends. haha
so sad leh. i hv heard of so many ppl who wanted kids so badly but cldnt conceive n yet there r those who gt preg so easily n dun wan the kid.
linda- no. 2 gt 4k cash n govt match up to 6k in cda acct. tat can help relieve u financially in sm ways mah =)
pierced- hahah... i was relieved cos nt prepared to hv another one so soon leh. but thn on 2nd tot, realise it may take sm time for me to conceive so ytd my hb said can start aft my af ends. haha
so sad leh. i hv heard of so many ppl who wanted kids so badly but cldnt conceive n yet there r those who gt preg so easily n dun wan the kid.
blue_genie
Active Member
morning ladies..
mronign all...
hee.. abt #3, i haven't really decided lah.. coz mei mei is already quite neglected.. more like grandparents' child.. coz my ils spend more time with her than us as isaiah needs a lot of attn at this age.. so i dunno also.. may wait for both kids to be bigger than decide..
ting - just a word of advice lah.. my own opinion.. u must think caredully abt cc plans before having #2.. if u dunhave help at nites, it can be quite difficult.. like for us, lucky got ils ard..coz mei mei n isaiah dun sleep at e same time, when 1 cry, e other also cry.. so end up mei mei gotta be put to sleep outside then my mil will carry her in after isaiah sleeps.. so u must plan properly if u really end up having 2 kids tt close in age lor.. hee.. coz #1 wun understand lor..
hee.. abt #3, i haven't really decided lah.. coz mei mei is already quite neglected.. more like grandparents' child.. coz my ils spend more time with her than us as isaiah needs a lot of attn at this age.. so i dunno also.. may wait for both kids to be bigger than decide..
ting - just a word of advice lah.. my own opinion.. u must think caredully abt cc plans before having #2.. if u dunhave help at nites, it can be quite difficult.. like for us, lucky got ils ard..coz mei mei n isaiah dun sleep at e same time, when 1 cry, e other also cry.. so end up mei mei gotta be put to sleep outside then my mil will carry her in after isaiah sleeps.. so u must plan properly if u really end up having 2 kids tt close in age lor.. hee.. coz #1 wun understand lor..
newbbi - i think if #1 is older or more 'dong shi' it's easier.. isaiah not dong shi.. will beat and bite mei mei sometimes.. but he also will sayang her and share toys.. so depends on his mood.. then he still v dependent on us so it's v tiring lor.. i always feel v guilty towarsd mei mei
Crystal- ya intend to cont. wrk thn put aldan in childcare since gt the staff discount =) thn no. 2 can also put in infant care here. It’s the nite tat I headache lor. So shall c hw…. My cycle haywired again so duno hw long its gonna take for me to get preg again…. Dun wan the age gap to be too huge too…
newbbi - yup.. but i think cannot continue PT for too long coz not enuff $$.. unless i stop sending them for classes or sell e car.. but i dun wanna stop their classes as they realy enjoy it esp caitlyn.. n it's kinda like a sacred time where i get to spend 100% attn on her for tt 1 hr or so..
ting - how's ur finances now ah?? can ask ur hb if he got any good tuition agency or lobang to rec to me? hee.. need to supplement income.. dun worry.. tt time i also strike v fast despite having PCOS n told by 4 drs i cannot conceive lor.. think dun stress urself is most impt!!
ting - how's ur finances now ah?? can ask ur hb if he got any good tuition agency or lobang to rec to me? hee.. need to supplement income.. dun worry.. tt time i also strike v fast despite having PCOS n told by 4 drs i cannot conceive lor.. think dun stress urself is most impt!!
newbbi, i c tot simi ring...hahaha! oh ya regarding no. 1 gal hor...cos i saw my mom neighbour oso no. 1 is girl she got help her mom to take care of di di leh...i c my niece here oso got help my mom lo onli my nephew nv help leh...but again is depend on indiviudal wan lo...tink some boy oso quite dong shi & can help wan de!
crystal- finances stil ok =) my hb got abt 10 students n plus his adjunct teachin income, we stil comfortable. Jus tat sch hols more cham lor cos is no wrk no pay for him. so gt to save up for sch hols. I told my hb abt u convertin to part time, he say nt worth leh. Cos like same amt of wrk but so much lesser pay rite! Rather u go bk FT teaching n get more money lor. I can ask him for the agency contact.
Meimei join wat class? This sun, I bringin aldan for kindermusic trial. Finally managed to convince my hb to go for it. haha
Meimei join wat class? This sun, I bringin aldan for kindermusic trial. Finally managed to convince my hb to go for it. haha
ting - hee.. he got TEN students? n he adjunct teaching? meaning he earn like double of wat he learn last time??? like tt def conmfy liao!!! can save money also lor!! hee.. so he teach everyday also? then aftns and evenings give tut?? i thnking of quitting then doing adjunct.. but must find skl first.. see how things go next yr.. coz last yr i got D grade so no skl will want me bah!! haha
morning...
crystal, what is adjunct teaching?
last night hb was telling me that if i preg this cycle, then can close shop and he will co-sponsor me to marie france.... then i told him let's go for #3, he initially say no and no and no.... but after my constant "whining" and "asking", he finally say let's leave it to fate...... if really accident then bo pian lor... hahaha...
crystal, what is adjunct teaching?
last night hb was telling me that if i preg this cycle, then can close shop and he will co-sponsor me to marie france.... then i told him let's go for #3, he initially say no and no and no.... but after my constant "whining" and "asking", he finally say let's leave it to fate...... if really accident then bo pian lor... hahaha...
Daphne, u realli like kids alot huh?? tink no is juz nice ba?? when they enter pri sch quite headache leh...yr hb so gd wanna to sponsor u to go slimming center aft u close shop...my hb say the same thing b4 i pregnant but now i pregnant i ask him r u serious to pay f slimming he say wat for waste $$!
Crystal- yup! He teach every wk day afternoon n wk day nites (rest on tue n thu nites) n also sat mornin. Adjunct is gd leh, no need to report at 7.15am every mornin, jus hv to be there b4 class starts. but hv to clock certain no. of hrs everyday. Nt reali double lah, but bit more =) but as wat I said, sch hols no income lor n no bonus! So is shiong durin those mhts cos the car exp is 1k plus!
Nw tat u PT teachin, no need to go sch evryday? N can go bk str aft sch? But stil need to attend meetings all tat?
Newbbi- I hope so… heee…but its at noon leh n tats usu his naptime so I tinkin hw to make him slp earlier!
Jam- yalor…. I so hope tat my no. 2 wil be a gal leh. I read sm where hor there’s this company tat helps to predict the gender of baby n cost $800. if wrong, they refund u bk the money!
Nw tat u PT teachin, no need to go sch evryday? N can go bk str aft sch? But stil need to attend meetings all tat?
Newbbi- I hope so… heee…but its at noon leh n tats usu his naptime so I tinkin hw to make him slp earlier!
Jam- yalor…. I so hope tat my no. 2 wil be a gal leh. I read sm where hor there’s this company tat helps to predict the gender of baby n cost $800. if wrong, they refund u bk the money!
crystal, ya i find that it's worth it lor..... i bought that time 1k worth of vouchers but used up quite a bit for CNY.... and then still can get link points too if u got the ntuc member....
haha dunno why this time me more stressed up leh... like can't wait to get preg....
haha dunno why this time me more stressed up leh... like can't wait to get preg....
