snowy_casper.... bo pian one lah..... cos my job is either I travel or if not, i got late concalls so at least 2x a week, when i got home, she is zzz already.... and when i woke up, if i'm lucky, she is awake and i will just spend 5 - 10 mins with her... so i try to make up on fri and sat night when bb zzz with me and on weekends when i go back to in laws place, i will try to org activities to go out so that i get to spend time with bb too cos wtih my mil around, she will hog the bb as in carry her all the time.... so actually is not very close to me..... closer to my mum lor.... so i treasure all the leave i took cos when i'm on leave and at home, my mum will leave andrea with me and she will take a break....