(2005) Brides of year 2005

[caitlyn]

so.. who wants my vibrator condom? keke.. i wun be needing it..

 

[jam75]

caitlyn, dat time i miss it to go sex expo loh...so i sua ku dunno got this thing liow..hahha

 

[caitlyn]

actually i have frens who tried it.. they say nothing much leh.. keke

 

[sdblues]

keke caitlyn.. wahhh... hard to find your kind leh now hor.. perhaps every 1 out of 100 can find your kind perhaps u need to see more simulated stimulation.. but dun ask for my sources

 

[sdblues]

wats so nice about that vibrator.. very fake kinda feeling..

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[caitlyn]

sdl - i always tease my hb say i'm "fresh meat".. and a "yu nu".. but i noe sometimes it frustrates him a little tt i totally conservative in bed.. keke.. so embarrassing to be saying all these on a forum.. gosh.. but hope it makes u feel better..

 

[dolphin48]

caitlyn, maybe you try to use it on yourself and then maybe can create more urge and increase the drive?

sdl, how about trying costume play? got excitment rite? or u spring a surprise on JC lah.... create the excitment...

 

[sdblues]

caitlyn, makes me feel better? haha.. no effects lah.. just surprised only lor..

 

[caitlyn]

daphne - i doubt it.. i dunno how to say.. but i dun even dare to wear tampon coz i dunno how to wear and scared pain.. so imagine my extent of "scaredness".. haahhaha

 

[dolphin48]

caitlyn, yeah i know what you meant..... it's like exposing yourself in forum like that.... haha but hor, i got one gf that i share such things with and she does gives me some advices.... haha....

 

[caitlyn]

sdl - aiyah.. then sldn't have said.. just wanted u to feel better.. keke..

 

[dolphin48]

caitlyn, tampon is not a good example lah... i hate tampon too cos feel like got something stuck there and so uncomfy.

 

[caitlyn]

daphne - i share w my close close frens.. i share on TTC forum in singaporemotherhood.. all anonymous mah.. keke.. here i just give a general feel only lah.. so not so bad.. keke

 

[sdblues]

Daphne.. u delving into the forbidden area liao hahaha!!! well, we have not tried that yet.. but will be abit awkward lor.. we have tried many other ways also.. but confined to bedrm, other than that.. might venture out abit but outside sg perhaps.. so next yr in the US will be a great opportunity..

 

[feifei]

SDL,
i agree with caitlyn lor...heard my hb said that too...
tink guys will always wan their wivies to come out with someting hor?like want them to scream loudly,wan them to wear sexy etc..

Daphne,
ya lor, when stressed hor, won't feel like bonding lor..hiaz... but if once a mth, like too little hor ;p.

 

[sdblues]

caitlyn.. dun be like tat lah.. u should feel good about yourself lor! so many ppl bitten the forbidden fruit liao.. but u manage to keep it sacred

 

[dolphin48]

haha....ok stop at that area...... u go plan something so at least got something to look forward to..... so see, no need see doctor liao...save your $$...

 

[jam75]

daphne, u can really tink of so many things...not bad leh...

caitlyn, mi too donno how to wear tampon leh...so still got mi same as u loh...

 

[dolphin48]

jam, no lah.... don't say me until like very expert leh.... all these thanks to my gf... she has loads of ideas! haha...

 

[dolphin48]

i only try tampons once and that's the last time for me too...... don't like the feeling.

 

[sdblues]

newbbi, some guys likes the wives to be in the forefront mah.. so they prefer the domineering type of wife. but as for caitlyn's case, it is mis-matched.. caitlyn, u need to point out to him lor..

 

[jam75]

daphne, but for mi v pai sei to discuss such issue wif my gf....not even to my closed fren loh...actually sometimes is gd to hv some surprise...

 

[caitlyn]

sdl - keke.. thx.. for me i guess upbringing bah.. plus i have always had a very idealised idea of marriage and how it's sthg sacred.. keke..

jam - hi-5!

okies.. me gtg liao. must go for stoopid mtg..

 

[sdblues]

laters caitlyn.. keke..

 

[dolphin48]

jam, depends on your friend i think. initially i also very paiseh one.... but my friend shared with me first and hence i open up to her slowly....

 

[dolphin48]

see ya later caitlyn

 

[caitlyn]

sdl - keke.. no lah.. me n hb tok abt all these before wedding so he oredi mentally prepared.. keke.. we very open w one another so it's okies.. hengz i prepared him before marriage if not he sure pengz.. keke

 

[sdblues]

wei ladies.. then yall not paiseh chatting abt these in front of me meh? PP hahaha!!!

 

[dolphin48]

sdl, so far the sharing are quite general here mah..... my friend one is more detailed....

 

[jam75]

daphne, actually my coll do share her wif mi..but when asked mi some que i juz feel v awkaward loh...

 

[feifei]

cailtyn,
hehee..i read lor =). Actually i find it ok to share it here even though we know each other now lor..cos we are all adults now and can accept all these talks lor ;p...

Daphne,
same here lor, i also share with my good frenz too lor...gues its the kind of experience lor =)...

But hor, ask u all huh, how frequent u all bond? For me hor, these few mths we have been busy, so its once a mth leh!!...can u imagine that....so that day i was telling my hb, now i know y some woman have affair... *wink*...hee..hope this is within this forum only lor...hee...I din tell hb that we talked abt these things here in this forum lor..keke...

 

[dolphin48]

jam, i don't share with coll lah..... so pai seh cos see each other at work leh... my gf is a close fren of more than 20 years liao....

 

[sdblues]

Daphne, detailed? then I guess depends how opened-minded we are lor.. not many are open-minded.. but slowly opening up. my experiences all goes thru as far back my teen times by reading forbidden magz in the states then kekeke..

 

[dolphin48]

newbbi, but i also got my mahjong kakis who are very open one.... and usually we will have this truth and dare sessions last time and we share whether we've done it or not and where and we were all not married then. so far, only me and another gf managed to escape telling anything cos by our turn, they are all too high to insist on asking.... haha....

 

[dolphin48]

haha.... my first knowledge is thru this gf of mine during our college days when she stole her brother's x rated tapes and 4 gals would cuddle together to watch..... and then slowly moved on to those trashy romance novels.....

 

[jam75]

daphne, ya ya i noe yr is not coll...so was thinking y my coll can tell mi...

newbbi, so u think twice/wk cosider ok??

 

[sdblues]

face to face discussion is different lor.. I can't imagine yall playing MJ and talking about that at the same time haha.. will feel abit uncomfy

 

[suishi]

daphne,
it great to have grp of friends/bubby to share....my group all consider conservative. sometime i wish there one to tell & ask

 

[sdblues]

haha.. maybe one day I will ask yall all the questions.. and yall 1 by 1 answer keke..

 

[dolphin48]

sdl, my mj friends can go to which ever level they are comfy with but it's usually among the same pp only.... cos we were friends for almost 13 years liao so i guess it's kindda close enough to share to a certain level. but their usual qns then was if we have done it and where..... so basic level niah..... of cos never delve into details one lah..... basically they just want to know who has eaten the forbidden fruit. and then they will ask what's our fetish. so usually the more general kind of qns.....

 

[sdblues]

hahah Daphne.. I got a guy friend whom I lost contact liao.. knew him since childhood.. we can ask all sorts of outrageous qns..

 

[feifei]

Daphne,
naughtly ger ger hor ;p.

Jam,
tink consider ok and normal for me leh..last time just aft married, twice a wk for us too..slowly becomes once a wk...then once in two wks, then now once a mth..haiz...tink we too busy and tired lor...plus i always go to my mum hse on wkends....hee...

All,
ask u hor, will u gals initiate for bonding? i dun seems to be able to do it leh ;p.

 

[dolphin48]

newbbi, once a month ah? depends on stress or not lah..... if stress, sometimes 0 times a month. haha...

 

[sdblues]

ask yall also ladies.. who dares go to the guy with nice buns and pinch it? haha

 

[sdblues]

2. assuming you are now single, given an opportunity would you seduce a single guy sitting at a bar glancing at you?

 

[feifei]

Daphne,
tink stress matters too lor...

SDL,
i won't dare lor...

 

[jam75]

sdl, ans to both yr 2 que..for mi my ans is NO NO...

 

[suishi]

SDL,
NO NO for mi

 

[janf]

juz finished reading the FRUITy story.. keke.

well, my ans to sdl both qns are NO too..

i tink sporeans generally are too stressed, be it worklife or personal life.. so juz ShunQiZiRan ya.. me same tinking as jam.. sometimes i see kids so notti until i dun feel like having kids.. then my MIL will psycho me say kids are lidat one.. faintz. juz wan me to lay egg so give me all sorta assurance!

 

[jam75]

newbbi, my coll aft give birth she hv stopped to hv sex for half year loh...cos doc tell her hb during dis 6 mth muz b more careful cos chances of getting preggie v high...so in order not to risk her hb don do it loh...my coll always complaint abt it but hb not happi loh always tell my coll ... ya ya i noe i can't satisfy yr needs loh...