(2005) Brides of year 2005

newbbi,
maybe you can find a job that is nearer to sk, or say in town area?

maybe can consider inez school!!! hee...

crystal,
oic...
so isaiah is the quite and homely type, cait is the rugged and outdoor type.
totally diff charactor hor!
 


Newbbi,
Good lah, can be a SAHM.....
So u really decide to quit job? Or u change job which is near to SK and u are able to fetch Char home from ccc before 7.00pm wan......

At least still hv income on your side.
 
newbbi,
hahah... i actually referring to puting char at inez cc then you find a job near to sk or in town.
but also, singapore is always in need of teachers, so maybe you can try to apply too.
no harm trying but i suppose the pay will be a lot lesser than what you gettign now.
 
jenn,
we still desicing leh...SK huh? hmm..duno if i can find a job there anot lor..Hows J?

Linda,
oic..keke... True lor , teachers pay quite low and very stressful with kids these days...
 
newbbi,
ya loh...
i am considering to go into childcare education when inez goes to primary school. hee...
that's provided my hb can afford me to get a lower pay. i love working with children.
 
newbbi,
my sister still barking me to do that. so that they can leave their children with me.
they can tell me, with me ard, all the kids will have good meals, well taken care, homework also no worries..... diaoz...
i still leave this option open.
hee..
 
Linda,
hehe..can consider hor =)..

just spoke to char on e phone, realyl melts my heart when she calls me mummy and ask me where is daddy..hiaz..miss her so much but 4 more days to go b4 can see her...hiaz..
 
linda - just yday my hb was asking how come both kids same factory but can be so different.. really amazing lor.. haha.. caitlyn is more confident n willing to try new things.. gor gor lack self confidence.. in a way i think wld be better if they swap characters! haha

newbbi - if can afford to be sahm just do it lah! hee.. y must wait til nect yr? hee.. or u can look ard for jobs tt can let u be home in time to fetch char from cc like e others say..

cindy - wanted to bring the kids down today.. but rain! aiyoz! haha..
 
Hi gals.. Me on cc leave these 2 days. Avril hvg cough n runny nose. Needs to be on inhaler as gt phlegm in airway. If worsen wil be bronchities
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hopefully she recovers fast. Today at least can slp well aft medi. She was waking up crying so often at nite cos nose blocked n kept coughing. Sighz
 
morning all...

ting - hope avril's better now.. poor gal.. 6 days of cc leave is never enuff lor.. once kids sick usually will need min 2 days..
 
Good morning, all
I am on leave again....simply just rot at home and do nothing..... ha ha ha, cos die die hv to clear my leave

Crystal
Where do you want to hold the gathering?
 
Crystal,
ha ha ha, yap is really very shiok, cos I need not face that temp boy in the office.... and i can also chat here with you all.........

Tomor going out with my parents cos is my dad's birthday.
 
jenn - hee.. can just shake leg today! enjoy it!!! i miss those days tt i can just rot at home lor! nowadays i on leave or holiday also just have to deal with 2 screaming n fighting kids! haha..
 
morning all,
ting,
hope avril can recover fast.

inez also start to cough. self medic for 1 week still not improvement. tml gg to bring her go see doc.

crystal,
i think in a family, there is no 2 same charactor one. hee..

jenn,
sometimes is good to rot at home.
take it a chance to rest loh.

crystal,
my oct free dates are: 6, 9, 12, 18, 21 and 27
newbbi class is tue and wed is it? if so, i need to take out some of the dates.
 
jenn/crystal,
i can rot at home when i haven had inez.
otherwise, when i on leave is at home, do housework so that weekends i have lesser to do and have more time to rest when inez rest.
my leave is very precious, 22 annual leave + 2 days leave in lieu + 6 ccl = 30 days.
but this year before june i already used up 20 days. cos of inez chicken pox and fall sick also need to clear my 5 days compulsory block leave
now i left with only 5.5 days, want to take also dare not take. need it for unforseen days.and worst is not able to carry fwd to the following year.
 
linda - u sld take 1 day out of e 5.5 to just rest and relax.. go date with hb!
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actually 30 days quite good already i guess? nowadays leave cut till abt 18 days only rite?
 
Crystal,
Me only on leave today and tomorrow lah, thurs hv to be back cos of the closing lei....... how I wish i can take longer leave ..... ha ha ha

Yap meh, just rotting at home is shiok meh.
 
crystal,
ya, actually if i got help, 30 days is actually quite a lot.
but like my situation now, no help wehn inez fall sick or school close, 30 days is maybe just enuf only if my hb and myself take turn to take leave.
my hb leave also 1st half of the year left half only.
that's how badly we need to have more leave and pray everyday that inez is healthy.
cos when i just started work here, only 14 days, then when i into my 6 years, our leave will be increase another 7 days for clerk. so i got 22 days. then if any PH falls on Sat, we have 1 day in lieu.
 
linda - tt's true also.. but in event of emergency, ur aunt can still help? once in a while ask ur aunt for help then can paktor? hee.. i v bad mummy hor.. but i feel i need some pte time if not i get v cranky at the kids.. maybe coz mine are also v notti lah.. sighz..
 
jenn - last time i on hols i also will just sit in front of tv whole day or i will bury myself in books.. really miss those days man!!!
 
Crystal,
ha ha, later i am going out, then i will read the twinlight text on my mp4 player...... when stay at home, i will on my pc and watch online loh, after all is FOC lei.
 
crystal,
i also gotta depends, she actually dun like this kind of last min arrangement. she like to go out shopping or got appt. then also if my hb working, its not possible for me to bring inez early in the morning to tampines then to work.

also we never leave inez with my aunty or mil just to go pator, we dun feel good that we go enjoy and let them take care of inez.
we wont enjoy one. only enjoy and relax if inez is in school then i take leave on my hb 2nd off day.
also last time when inez still with my aunty care, i on leave, i also need to pretend to wear nice nice like gg to work then go fetch her at the usual time. cos my aunty will nag non-stop for days just because we take 1 day of leave to go relax.
even if take leave, never bring inez to her house, she will also scold us said we anyhow take leave ....blar blar blar..... its non stop one.
 
linda - oic.. we always take leave to paktor.. no choice leh.. used to feel bad lah but now dun liao.. bad hor.. but i guess my mil also quite nice n understandg tt we need a break too.. coz when we ar home we will look after n weekends also look after so maybe she feels once in a while is ok since it's usually her taking care anyway
 
Linda,
Same same as u lah, me and hb never go pator.... and will never leave j in my mum's hand while we go out and relax/or enjoy pator..... cos they will sure nag.... and in order to prevent all these... = must pretend.... ha ha ha ha
 
crystal,
actually my mil also dun mind lah, since inez goes to her place only once a week and for that 3 hours. she did mentioned that we can leave inez at her house anytime if we need to do things. cos one thing also inez got toys, colouring stuff, she can entertain herself leow.
and my mil is quite free also if my sil kids are not schooling.
so once in awhile if we need to go do things or buy groceries, we will ask mil to help.
but we feel bad also lah, maybe its us lah.
after finished our things we will rush back.
 
linda - keke.. think maybe my kids too noisy..just need a break frm them! haha.. my mil always say they more guai when hb n i are not home! haha.. so maybe tt's y she dun mind? haha
 
crystal,
my mil took care of inez when we got things to do, she also told us the same thing.
said that when we not ard she is very guai.
actually inez quite a easy child when she got enuf sleep. if at home, when i do my housework, she will just ask me to on her show then give her a bottle of water, she will rest/ sit and relax on her own sofa and watch her show quietly. when she is bored, either she come and hug me from behind or ask me to carry her awhile, then she will go either to continue her show or take out her puzzel or books to colour or scribble.
if she is tired, then everything is not right and she will fuss like nobody busy, thus will sometime make you angry.
 
Newbbi,
I watched from tudou, qire123.com or tv848... but u need to download software inorder to watch... is FOC wan.... ha ha ha
 
Good Morning!!!!!

talking about patoh? so far i am still ok lah..... now me and hubby will catch movie in the evening when the kids having their dinner so we will sneak out and be back by 10 so that I can latch Alyssa to sleep..... dinner usually the maid will handle cos Alyssa don't let me feed her.... when she hungry and see me, she only want to latch.... so that's a good excuse for me to get out for a short while.. hee....
 
linda, envy you that inez is such a good girl.... for me, i'm practically scolding andrea everyday cos she is too active and likes to disturb other people.... she hates to be left alone and so must have someone to talk to or play with..... esp when i'm latching mei mei, she will insists that i do writing / coloring with her or read to her..... attention seeker....
 
for the gathering..... let me know if the dates are fixed? for me, 1st week oct is out cos hubby is travelling the whole week.... then Andrea is going for her ops on 20th so 19th - 21st Oct is also out for me.... then 28th is Alyssa's 1st birthday so also out for me.... other than that, i should be ok for the rest of the dates...
 
daphne,
i think because andrea is seeking for attention cos she scare all attention given to mei mei.

for inez, there are good and bad days.
when hb not ard, she can behave and left alone for awhile.
but with my hb ard, she is a totally diff person. become more attention seeking, fuss and misbehave.
 
Jenn,
tks ger...mayb i can go download lor but wonder use iphone can watch anot..hehe..

Daphne,
hihi...ya lor, must hv some private time with hb lor, if not, he feels so neglected hor..

Linda,
ya lor, so envy leh, for char, she will wan us play with her, pei her de...
 



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