(2005) Brides of year 2005

linda, very xingku for him. i heartpain when hear him cough so hard. the prob is he dunno how to spit out the phelgm. was hoping he will vomit so that the phelgm will come out also..
 


newbbi,
for me, the other time when inez was constantly coughing and flu and fever for the 5 mths when she just started ccc, we also went to both western and TCM doc.
then din really recover fully.
so my hb said, let inez fully recover, meaning at least recover for 3 weeks, then go to see tcm.
cos he said that take western and chinese, you also dunno which one actually helps. scali both "fight" inside the immuse system, then still never recover.
this is my hb logic lah.
so at that time, we let inez kinda free from western medicine for 3 weeks, then we go for TCM to let inez take 2 weeks of chinese medicine.

ting,
i think MCs and unpaid leaves affect performence and bouns or increments a lot.

like for my hb case, if one is free of MC for that year, they are entitled to $200 cash vouchers the following year.
if any time of the year take mc, then no more incentive leow.
also it affect their year end bonus and increment also.
my office also the same, MCs are taken into account. even how much we spent on medical and how many visits to the doc, every year my GM will ask the insurance company to send a full details to let him review. that's y, sometime i rather pay my medical fee myself then gg to our pental of doctors.

cindy,
understand.
hearing them cough with phlegm and cant throw or spit out feel very uncomfortable.
 
ting.. agree wif Linda that MCs do affect perf. thats the harsh reality of the biz world. my prev company alsi take into consideration urgent leave & punctuality durinf appraisal. my boss will jot in her diary who is late each day.. machiam schl kids..
 
cindy- i noe hw tat feels. aldan's cough alwz accomapanied w cough too n he nvr seemed to fully recover. jus beta or worse only.

linda- i noe but the leave n unpd leave i took was cos i needed to take care of aldan. no choice one leh. i rather him be healthy thn i dun hv to keep absentin myself frm wrk. jus too bad tat i dun hv help
 
cindy,
my office still not so strict on puntunality.
cos our office most staff are never come on the dot one. hahhah...
but MC and no of visits and total cost spent yearly is strictly taken into account and email will be sent to those who are on the top 10 listing.

ting,
understand.
me too, 90% of my mc and urgent/annual leave are for inez.
same loh, me also no help given.
so just have to take take this reality.
sometime, i took too many leave or mc just to take care of inez, i so paisay, i ask my hb to take.
in fact, both our annual leave, cc leave and mc all for inez and almost 50% used up just in the mth of march since she goes to ccc.
 
Ting,
*hugz*...know how u are feeling lor...Poor ger...hiaz..somemore ur workplace, always late in giving out ur pay also hor...

hiaz..

cindy,
he has alot of phelgm?
 
linda- sighz... lidat i goten pray hard everyday tat both my kids dun fall sick... but thn again, such things hard to say one.
at least ur hb can take leave. mine no wrk = no pay.

newbbi- for once this mth i got my pay on time!! at least one consolation lor
 
ting,
cheer up, look at the positive side.
actually, every year, my urgent leave and mc also affect my increament.
to be frack, every year for the pass 3 years, my increasement is as low as $50 only.
disappointed loh. and the amount of work i do, credit goes to my boss.
but my hb also tell me, in your rules of employment, there is not a clause that tell you, management must give you increament. so you shd be glad that your boss still give you a bit and you still get to keep your job.
so i also keep this in mind, then i wont feel so miserable.
 
ting,
i totally agree and understand how you feel, cos i also every day pray and to the extend that every night, before sleep, i touch her forehead, 1st thing in the morning also touch her forehead to see if she ok a not.
then the slightest cough and flu, i immediately give the EYS powder to prevent.
but like you said, these thing very hard to say one.
that's y, when inez not well only, i super sian.
 
Ting,
hugz lor...i can understand...finally u get ur pay on time! =)..

Linda,
true lor, not a must to give increment hor..Hiaz, urs bery good liao, my lowest increment is $30 onli nia..
 
newbbi,
only a handful of us got this miserable increasment.
the those at trade side, even junior clerk, i think can get at least $200 increament loh.
one of the staff at that dept, she is a muslim and work also not bad lah, in 2 years she is promoted from a clerk to an officer now.
she is only with the bank coming 4 years.
 
morning ladies,

cindy,
how's ryan and how did you spent your long weekends.

today is 1st day of 7th mth, sure rain one.
last day will also rain de. hee..
 
hi linda..

brot ryan to yu guo to see the yi shi & tui na on sat cos still coughing very badly & lots of phelgm. he's cough is so much better now.. but still hv abit of phelgm.. will bring him back again this sat for another rd of tui na and medication..

went changi beach club for a gathering wif ex-colick on sat evening.. its a very nice place..yesterday went airport for dim sum bkfast wif my fren & shop ard the airport, ryan took the motorbike & the big float ride..

how u spent yr wkend?
 
cindy,
at least cough better. that's good.

din go anywhere or do anything.
cos friday hb work, sat morning return.
sat evening, my friend's son bday party at downtown east. then sunday hb work, monday morning return. then ytd, evening went compasspoint for dinner then try our luck to see if got fireworks. and yes there is, so let inez have a 1st time so upclose firework display to watch.
that's all for my long weekends.
when there is long weekends, hb working or 1st off, usually is do nothing de. cos when he come back, he will sleep till evening 5pm then wake up. so nothing much that we can do also.
 
linda.. ya, at last now he dun cough at nite alr, and daytime also cough 1 or 2 x only.. very glad tat he can take the chinese med very well also..was so afraid he will rej the med cos of the smell..

this yr's firework very nice hor.. inez enjoyed?. Ryan is scared of fireworks.. we went for the ndp preview 2 wks back, he was enjoying the thru out but when the fireworks, he got scared of the loud bang and started crying & wanna go home.. so in the end i get to finish the whole parade..
 
mornin all =) we went marina ytd. ma chiam like watchin the real ndp cos cld see the airplanes n firewks up close. enjoyed ourselves alot! even avril was enjoyin the firewrks. haha
sun afternn we went to istana open hse. wanted to bring aldan there to the open fields to run but he was aslp by thn. we went inside the hse n was reali amazed, super big n nice!!

cindy- same here. aldan wil cry at loud noise. ytd when the airplanes flew past, he was enjoyin but as the noise got louder, he started cryin n hung on to my mum for dear life. n he refused to look at the firewrks, kept sayin dun wan, scared. my mum said nxt time bring ear plugs for him. haha
talkin abt cough, avril stil coughin n gt lots of phlegm too.. the cough medi like nt wrkg for her. sigh
 
ting.. haha, ear plug is a good idea.
u may consider bringing avril for tui na at yu guo for her cough? saw lots of small babies doing tat..
 
cindy,
erm... at 1st, she enjoyed, then after awhile when the fireworks goes on she started to tell me too loud, she dun want to watch already, want to go home. can see her tears rolling down leow.
but we coax her and help her cover her ears, although she is already covering since the 1st shoot of the fireworks.

ting,
poor avril.
hope she can recover fast and dun spread to aldan, otherwise is one after another and will be very tiring for you.
 
cindy- is the q v long? tui na meanin massagin the bb? i may bring her bk to the same doc. doc did say if avril stil coughin, hv to get neubliser for her.

linda- my mum said aldan reali like timid mouse. haha... cos he literally screamed n cried so loud. durin firewrks, we did cover his ears but he was cryin thru out too. aft it was finished, he was bk to his normal self, happily dancin to the songs. hahahha
 
Regards NDP, I actually have free preview tickets for 24th July but J is also very timid, whenever flights up @ sky, he will cover his ear first.... so I gave up my ticket to my colleagues and no goodies bag as well
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Ytday NDP, we watched at Sk, cos hb was at PM shift.... J sang the national song, and also the pledge... me managed to take pix and video... ha ha ha, later will put on the blog.
 
ting,
aldan is so cute...
inez also afraid of loud noise.
which we already knew, cos when we go to Yu Rong Zi to calculate her "ba zhi". he already told y hb that inez is afraid of loud noise, charactor very strong and stubborn, have to discipline her since young.
 
Aiyo, come in here, see that kiddo are sick, do take good care of yourself and the kiddo.

Hope all kiddos recovery fsst fast !!!!!

Last thurs, me bring J for his 2-3 years assessment, well... he is underweight.... sigh, dunno why he is so SMALL SIZED compared to me and my hb's size...did I carry the wrong baby home? ha ha ha ha
 
jenn,
you were at sk to watch the NDP?
me only knew that SK have NDP celebration when i on tv to watch the NDP at padang.
so when inez woke up from nap, we went for dinner at compasspoint and then went to catch the fireworks and the mobile column display.
we din know if there is fireworks, just trying our luck. inez also sing the National anthem and said the pledge. so cute hor, all kiddos so young know how to sing the national anthem and say the pledge.
i think i only learn how to sing and say pledge when i am in Pri 1 leh. hahhaha...
 
jenn,
oh ya hor, almost forgot to bring inez.
you went to Dr fong? need to make appt or just go as per usual.
me also gg to dr fong since inez speech is not as bad as i tot few mths ago.
 
jenn- J underwt by hw much? maybe cos he's active so din put on much wt..

linda- aldan nw v set in his own ways. must do things according to wat he wan! if nt he wil throw temper. nw wan to put on his own socks/shoes, choose his clothes, open the door himself, walk dwn the stairs. if we try to help, he wil get angry
 
Linda,
Ya, me was in SK but at my mum house, was watching NDP together w my parents and brother...

Yap, was realy cute when they said the pledge and cross their arm on their chest....

Regards Assessment, yap, we went to Dr Fong, need not make appt, just take queue number as per normal. As I bring J to see Dr Fong regards his blocked nose, so the assessment fee $10 was inclusive of the consultation fee $20, so is it worthwhile lei? ha ha ha
 
Ting,
J is underweight about 800 gram... his weight is 13.80kg and his ideal weight is 14.50kg ...... and he is only 95cm "tall".....
 
jenn,
i think inez also underweight.
how heavy is Jayden?
inez last weight is only 12.5kg leh.

ting,
aldan is a big boy now.
actually inez also the same.
but i will see the situation.
i dun allow her to throw tantrum just because she want to do it. hee...
but with my hb ard, she not afraid of me de.
only when hb not ard, then she will listen to me.
or i will just use my aunty name. hahahha...
 
jenn,
huh.. jayden already over 13kg mark, my inez haven even hit 13kg leh.
and for a gal i think she is at the taller side bah.
her ht last measure was 94cm.

oh, then i will have to pay $10 for the assessment bah. hee..
 
hi all, logging in from Turkey now. how was ur national day?

weather is so hot. i think megan çhao ta already.

place and people very nice and megan is enjoying herself. she seems to draw lots of attention from everyone here, tourists and locals. her cheeks kenna pinched, kissed,and hugged dunno how many times.
 
linda- ya he's reali like big boy nw n finally i dun hv to play hide n seek w him in the sch nw. he's ok when he sees me n wil say bye n blow kiss n stil can tell the teacher mummy go ofce wrk! haha.. so glad he had finally passed this hurdle!
aldan is those kind hv to talk to him nicely thn he wil listen. hv to use the soft approach. at least inez is scared of ur aunt! lidat her name v useful le! inez scared of the daddy?

jenn- ok lah, 800g niah! hee

hihi pierced! so hw's turkey so far? keke.. tink the tourists cannot resist megan's chubby cheeks.
 
ting,
yeah... that's great.
hahaha... inez is not afraid of her daddy.
cos daddy only raise his voice when he supper angry with inez.
other than that, i will be the mad woman scream and shout at inez...
my aunt name very useful one. mentioned her name only, 90% works. hahaha...
she is the one who took care of inez when she is still a baby.
but my this aunty is also inez favourite no 1 yi po... hahha...
 
jenn, ideal weight is around 14.5kg?! so megan is overweight?? she's 19 plus leh, and i last measured probably ard 95 or more. haha!

ting, yup turkey's great despite the weather. is hot hot hot! coz we went to Cappadocia and there are no trees...only rocks!
ya i think so,see her round round de. plus they seldom see asian kids, they keep thinking we are koreans or japs. so we get free things like fruits, bread...
 
Hi morning,
so quiet today?

oh must do assessment liao ah.. i had totally forgot abt it.. ;p
tik my gal also under weight.. she nv pass 13kg mark after cough n flu..

pierced,
wah turkey.. enjoy your trip.
 
TGIF
Pierced,
Greeting from Spore - Today is friday, 13th + 7th lunar month ... hmm... better be careful

Yap J is 13.80kg and is about 49% percentile.... Definitely Megan is an adorable girl with good cheek to sayang !!!! kee kee. When will you be back ? Take more PHOTO and posted on FB lei ! Enjoy
 
morning ladies,

jenn,
thread have been very quiet for the past few days.

ytd bot inez go dr fong there for assessment leow.
koaz.. inez is only 12.9kg, somemore is after dinner and diaper half full loh. height is 94cm (dr fong ask inez to laid on the bed and he used his measuring tape to measure when i commented that dun think inez is that tall), and you know what the nurse measured inez was 98cm using her eyes. 4 cm diff loh.
inez also underweight, slightly below 50 percentile and height also at 50 percentile
 
Linda,
Ya i also realise the thread is rather quiet during my absence... ha ha ha

Me also cant help it lei, cos tues came a new young boy temp and he is a fresh grad, me need alot of time to coach....
 
Linda,
Aiyo, J and I are really a couple lah, both are underweight.... so what suggestion did Mr fong tell you? Give more calories,cabo food to Inez, right??? Now Jayden will eat one slice of cheese before he go to ccc.....

How come the measurement of height so 4cm different? Is consider a bit gap lei, did Dr Fong measured correctly boh? kee kee
 
Sigh, tell u gals one happending thing - Remember I told you that my HR's boy passed away due to leukemania?

Well, my company engaged a PI and found that all are lies.......her boy is well and alive and going to school daily loh...

The HR lied to us, to the company, to the management and keep absence from work and get our åŒæƒ… but all are lies........

Just dun understand, how can a mummy Lied that her son is dead ? and she can still sms my supervisor that she is in Mandai there "accompany her son daily"..... Faintz meh
 
jenn,
all along, inez is underweight.
no leh, he din suggest anything. but he did mentioned that inez is a healthy gal.*touch wood*

its the nurse who din measure properly. dr fong make inez lay on the bed and he use his measuring tape to measure her.
cos i know inez is not that tall.
i did measure her at home also. she is abt 94 to 95 only. even my hb also complaint that the nurse anyhow measure since they started to take weight and ht for kids before seeing dr fong.

aiyo... how come your HR like dat.
she really into serious depression loh. curse her own child. but hor how come suddenly your engage PI to check?
 
Linda,
Cos there are many reason that she appear to be lieing.... she is still very active on FB depsite the "death" and she told us there was no funeral.... need not give bai jin and etc...

On FB, none of her friends console her... think the small little things make my boss become suspcious and we hire a PI to check on her... and the results was really very shocking to all of us loh... and now we had issued a lawyer letter to her to demand her to give us a reason and also the salary refund... we paid her since Jan 10 and she keep absent from work.
 
Hi gals..finally.. after few days of quietness
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ger,
my gal hv recurring cough n flu..
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luckily i gave her chlorophyll if not might have fever also.. cos doc. said her throat very red.. & he was surprise she hv not fever!! so i tik the chlorophyll works for her..

hws all children here?
gets well liao?

Jenn,
wah HR leh.. can like tat meh?
she hv depression? or she hv 2 sons?
and 1 died?
 
jenn,
oic...
or she is just skiving.
dun want to work yet want to take salary?

snowy,
i think flu and cough is very common.
for inez, she have it almost every mth.
so i have all the medicine in my fridge. usually i self medic, if 1 week still not any better, then will go doc.

now what i do is if a single cough or sneeze, i will give her 3-5 days of Po Ying Dan from EYS.
so far, touch wood, this mth she still "healthy" hee...
also i start again to give her Yu Gan You every night.
she dun like, but i coax her to eat. hahahah...
 
hi hi...

jenn, how come yr HR can do such thing?.. curse own son? tell this kind of lie.. sooner or later sure will hv ppl find out de mah..

newbbi, u still going to yu guo?.. i bringing ryan there again tmr. he's 90% recovered, but still hv some phlegm so will bring him back for ano rd of tui na & medication. after this will continue him with cordyceps wkly.
 


Snowy,
Nope, she only have one son, she lied to us that she is getting divorce,
Apply leave to go court (Absent from work)

Have sold her woodland house
But our RA letter can reach her @ woodland house

She got cancer, need to go for ops
Absent from work

She fainted at home @ night prior the day she is supposed to report to work

Commit sucided.... my colleagues want to visit her @ hospital but she replied she is getting discharged on the same day

Upon PI investigation, there was no record that she stayed in the hospital at all.... and her SON is ALIVE.....
 

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