(2005) Brides of year 2005

HI all,
Only managed to post now cos m orning was in a training...I hv done my oscar test yest =)...Saw bb's legs, hands, head...Bb was sleeping when we do e scanning, then i cough abit, it moves...hehe...bb was sleeping with legs crossed lor, sooooo cute leh... =D...keke...
 


morning all..

need to vent a bit... quite irritated with my mil ytday.. she was telling my hb tt she can take care of e little one n my hb n i take care of isaiah during my confinement period so dun need to engage a CL.. my hb told her cannot coz he will be working n i will prob be v weak and it's nt easy for her to have to do nite feeds and all n how wld i be able to take care of isaiah so he wants to engage CL so tt i can recover properly.. then guess wat her ultimate concern was.. 'zhe yang de hua, di di (as in my BIL) shui na li?"
 
then this morning, i went into my SMO thread where i broke e news of my preg ytday coz i was already chatting in 2008 thread n wld rather tell them then they expose me.. haha.. n guess wat.. some of them started tokking abt how having children too close in age is no good (which i already noe) BUT e best part is went on abt how the 2nd one will be stupid n malnutritioned.. u say i sianz anot???
 
caitlyn,
*sayang*..cheerup ger....Dun care lor, tink its better to get a CL for ur case leh...Cos utimatively, CL will be paid by u and ur hb lor, so whether to engage anot is still up to u all lor..if u both insist, ur mil also can't do anything one leh...

As for e other thread ladies, dun be bothered by wat they say hor...different ple has different tinkings onel or..as long as u know u are doign ur best for ur 2nd bb, its good enough lor...u seeing ur gyane next wk hor? so fast...

All,
Oh ya, forgot to tell u all that TMC called me yest, told me I have Thalessmia alpha, heng my hb dun hv so its safe lor...*phew*...
 
mornin all =)

newbbi- nice to see bb hor =D nw i eagerly waitin for detailed scan nxt mth to see him again! hee

caitlyn- i also feel beta for u to engage a CL since isaiah stil young. anyway only for a mth mah. ur BIL can bunk in w ur PILs for tat mth.
 
newbbi - i also noe is we pay.. but just v sian lor.. just keep thinking abt her younger son.. then i machiam just a bb making machine or sth.. sianz man..

ting - yah lor.. like so xin ku to bunk in just for 1 mth.. siao lor
 
Caitlyn, dun be irritated okie...I agree better to have a CL so that you can have proper rest. not easy to juggle Isaiah and another bb... luckily ur hb is supportive and know that u need a CL. as for ur BIL, can easily make arrangements mah...juz for a mth oso cant sacrifice a bit of space meh?

Also, dun bother abt other thread ppl, dunno why some ppl can come up with silly theories about having kids with close age gap. like that, last time our granny's time oso have lots of kids with close age gap mah, i dun see they turn out any different.
in fact, i thk better even though at the start itz more difficult to handle.
 
newbbi, luckily ur hb is not positive.

i also went for mi check up yest, did mi strep B test plus a VE. ouch~ darn painful super long didnt open up! haha...
anyway, gynae said looks like still on track for mi EDD coz cervix is still very very tight.
 
caityln, cool down... sigh MIL is always tough to deal with. regarding baby2, dont be swayed by others. Have faith in yourself and eat well. My MIL also tried to do something behind our back... we have already arranged for my hubby aunt to come back from US to look after our girl. But MIL went to tell her no need to come back, my parents side will settle ??!!! dont really understand her intention of cooking up such tales and meddling with the childcare issue.

Pierced, may I know what is strep B test plus a VE?

Thanks alot!
 
pierced - i trying not to be affected.. but really quite off putting i guess..

newbbi - my MIL is actually very good.. she does all e housework.. ever since she move in, my hb n i never do any housework u noe.. sometimes feel guilty but she very efficient.. before we can start, she finish.. haha..

winnie - trying to stay srong for bb now lor.. how come ur MIL so strange one? but actually if the US aunt doesnt come, may not be so bad? coz she's quite old n u were worried rite? ooops..
 
winnie - i can help answer ur query.. hee.. strep B is a test where e gynae will do a vaginal swab to check for a bacteria caled strep B which if present, must take antibiotics and precaution when delivering as it may affect bb.. as for VE, it's vaginal examination.. check whether cervix has sofetned
 
phew, today no need go back sch but become washing day. haha...i starting to wash all the bb clothing now since weather looks fine.

hee...winnie, caitlyn answered liao for mi.
ya, how come ur MIL so weird one... do funny things. but like wad caitlyn said, maybe better since she not coming coz u worried abt how she gg to handle the bb rite since she so old? so are u planning to look for alternatives to take care of ur bb?

caitlyn, yup, stay strong for ur bb coz now u cant afford to be affected by other ppl. i know sometimes quite hard esp when ppl are saying things that are not good or true. esp somemore close ones like ur MIL.
heh! so not bad in a way she do all housewk. Im sure ur hb will settle the rest of the issues for u.
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winnie the test normally done 35 wks onwards. for mi gynae he prefer to do on the 37 wk and since yest he do the swab so muz as well do VE to see how the cervix is. gotta be prepared for pain even though he says relax...haha
 
ladies, thanks for the explanation, so the test is only done nearer to the EDD right?

truly speaking, i have no second alternativve to the child care issue already. Despite the fact that I dread that someone is coming in to stay and help... i cant deny that is the best alternative compared to no alternative.... cos my hubby asks me if i need to work late how? if morning rain how? how to bring baby to infant care and fetch on time... all these i have no answers

weird right, i guess ladies are always very mao dun heee.
 
winnie - hw abt looking for a nanny near ur place? for those, timing dun hv to be so exact.. =) plus i find nannies usually very loving coz they adore bb and are more mellow just like bb's grandma.. just a thought lah.. =)

pierced - yup, me not much complaints abt my MIL lor.. even tho i dun agree with certain way she take car of isaiah i also close one eye coz seriously it's not easy to take care of bb whole day.. even i dun take care of isaiah in my ideal way.. u noe wat i mean? just tt i find she really places her youngest son above everything n not even concerned abt how i will recover from my SECOND c-sect lor!
 
winnie, hee...ya lor, thk most likely is to decide aft bb comes out. even now, i oso not sure how the arangements will be like. of coz i got mi mum to fall back on but if so, den i need to get a maid which hb dun really like. so now is to take NPL first and den see how it goes coz i oso dunno whether i got patience to stay at home 24 hrs a day taking care of bb, and no income!

caitlyn, ya lor, thk her bao bei son is the only thing she cares most abt. but did ur BIL say anything or he doesnt know? im sure he should be willing to put up with some inconvenience for 1 mth rite?
 
pierced - my bb not even stable yet so nvr braoch e subject to my bil lah.. i think he wouldn't mind coz by july next yr, he sld be working.. not like now where he's still studying.. if he really mind, i will give him A PIECE OF MY MIND! haha
 
pierced/caityln, yeap i cant think further liao... cos hubby has already asked her when she came to singapore last mth. She has agreed and she tried to assure me that in terms of health, she still can cope... i can only keep my finger crossed.

anyway she already poked me hehehe, ok lah it is because i am petty. she ask me if i want to bf, i said yes, she asked how long, i say if have of course as long as possible. She says ayoh no good for health etc. then end up saying ayah never mind who knows may not have milk too.... PISSED.

Pierced, I thot of NPL too.... but hubby says cannot....
 
mornin gals =) ytd went for my 1st antenatal class. v interesting! learned alot on massagin n overall well-being. mrs wong even passed ard a preg suit for all the hbs to try! hahah... wan them to noe hw we feel durin preg.
 
Ting,
Sounds interesting hor...that day I forgot to go to e counter to check on the antenatal class leh...Can i call them to check e dates? Do u hv e no?

suishi,
hi ya...
 
hi all,

quite sometime never login leow.

ting/newbbi,
hope both of you are coping well with your pregnancy.

winnie/pierced,
dun be too worried. everything will come smooth when bb arrived.
 
Linda,
hi ya...so quiet here these few days lor...

Me huh? still okie lor, that day jsut went for oscar test, everything went on well =D..

how are u?
 
Ting,
I just called them, they say they have this class in Jan, March...starts on 14 Jan wor...hmm...That time u make full payments on ur next visit to Dr Khi?
 
newbbi- u can book 1st thn tell them u go dwn to make pymt at ur nxt visit to see dr khi thn dun hv to purposely go dwn to pay. the ctr is jus nxt to acj clinic.
 
Ting,
I see...ya lor, now still deciding to go wkdays or wkends...wat time wkdays start huh? is it all couples seated together, then listen?
 
newbbi- wkdays start frm 7 to 9pm but her lessons dun end on time de. last nite ended at 930. i chose wkday cos it's cheaper =) yup, each couple wil be given a floor mat, jus sit n listen thn do exercise as she says lor.
 
morning ladies..
so quiet here this few days.

newbbi, y dun u go for the wkend class, at least not so tired and no need to rush. mrs wong's class never ever end on time one..
 
Good Morning, ladies !!!
Me finally back to office after on leave for 5 days ML.... kee kee

Watashi,
I brot jayden for his 1st swim, had download on my blog, maybe u can consider to bring ur ryan here ???
 
mornin all =) finally got ppl chat here liao =D

jenn- shiok hor =D i wish i can stay at home too! haha... when u takin leave again? see when i can drop by ur wrk plc to collect the cds.

pierced- ready to see ur little one? hee...
 
Daphne,
Of cos lor, very shiok to be on leave, can sleep late and spend time with jayden.... is bonding time with bb lor and relieve my mum at least she can take some rest.
 
Pierced,
ha ha, so are u mentally prepared to give birth oleidi ??? So fast, is dec soon.... and hope by then jam oso have some good news for us liew.....
 
morning all.. feeling super duper guilty these 2 days.. not working but not spending much time with isaiah also.. spending more time bonding with my bed and pillows.. just feel too tired to do anything.. sianz
 
jenn - visitng gynae this evening.. no ms yet.. but these 2 days got bland bland taste in my mouth n extreme tiredness.. think isaiah dunno who his mummy is liao lor.. =(
 


ting, hee...dunno leh, thk not ready yet leh, seems so unreal that im due soon! haha...

jenn, where got mentally prepared one...haha... all the horror stories liao... i just have a blank mind now...i thk i sure blur blur over everything, juz wait for time to come. keke...
 
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