winnie, ya lor. dun need to bother too much about ILs since u know they are like that. juz as long ur hb understands, itz enuf. if not, will affect ur mood as well as bb's.
of coz, would be nice to have Ils to be concerned about u genuinely.
newbbi, i saw the tai mao bi oso, they have a shop at kk, might consider using them to pick name for mi bb, but dunnno about making the pen coz like jenn said, for remembrance but a bit ex.
hee...