(2005) Brides of year 2005

morning all..

been real busy so no chance to log in..

winnie - congrats on ur princess! but pls dun call her minnie leh.. sure kena teased by frens.. children nowadays can be v mean!!
 


morn gals!
caitlyn, should be getting better since gg to be hols soon??

these 4 days are like heaven coz i not involved in PSLE marking so juz go to sch and see what they have for mi to do. if not, thk juz sit in office.
 
wah lau, that's sch for u! thk now they dun dare arrow mi coz of mi being preggy. i tot how come so nice no need go out marking. seems like coz got extra teachers so no need put mi in.
 
pierced - yup.. n worst part is i kena arrowed by diff ppl.. so sianz.. coz i just come back so all think i free lor.. worse part is there's this academic prog thing for sec 3s next 2 weeks.. n i have to teach a topic which i dunno hw to do myself!!! wahaha.. plus my skl is one of e FS (u noe wat tt is rite?) so sianz!
 
yuppers, so many new programmes leh, mi sch oso very on. already mi P hint hint say i muz dunno go for this or that when i come back fr ML, i was thking wah, sure kena lots of things when come back. thk i sure wana take NPL oso.
 
pierced - actually after i come bakc to work, i think working is still okies.. better than staying hm all day.. but think skl is really not good.. too busy.. i bring hm marking n even when hm, dun spend tt much time w isaiah.. so maybe will job switch next yr.. see how things go.. as i may be planning for no 2 so just stay on until no 2 is out.. thot of taking half load next yr frm jan then coz now thinking of no 2 so shelve tt plan first..
 
hee, that's what i tot too, maybe doing something else is better than sch coz really too much marking and activities to do. I dun thk i can have the energy and time after sch to look after my kid too. thk i be busy looking at papers and marking every nite.

some tell me too that should wait till no 2 come out then quit so that can make use of the benefits and ML. prob will see how it goes after my bb come out first too like u.
 
newbbi - i teaching sec skl.. now is exam paper marking..then after tt is normal n supplementary lessons.. =) no fixed plans on no 2 but hb n i not taking precautions.. but hardly got time to bond so i doubt will strike too soon also.. =)

pierced - i also thinking of getting no 2 then quit or take half load.. but maybe by then need e $$.. keke.. depends on when u want ur no 2 also i think.. coz of my PCOS i wun wait too long to start trying as i may take a while to strike..
 
caitlyn,
My gyane told me that within 1/2 year after delivery, our hormones in our body are still very high, will strike easily if no precautions .... So jia you bah........

Guess what, everyone (my mum, my CL, my grandma) all told me that my no.2 will be a boy (They know how to see)...so me still wondering if i shld plan for no. 2 boh ???? 2 boys = headache, kee kee
 
morning gals...

caitlyn, so fast tot of planning 2nd 1 liow...if the age too close v diff to take care bo...btw u plan to hv how many kids b4 u decided to close shop??
 
jenn, ya ya heard my fren say so within 1/2 year aft dlvy if no precaution changes v high...my fren kenna 1st 1 by accident even tot her hb wearing "C" so aft the 1st 1 she dun trust "C" anymore but she put something down there so in case she wanna to plan again will go & remove than try f 2nd wan..
 
jam - most likely 2 kids bah.. but open to 3.. financially speaking, i think can max 2 only.. even with one also v chor..


me v excited today!! hb gg to get isaiah e leapfrog exersaucer tonite!! hip hip hooray!!
 
caitlyn, finacially is 1 issue oso hor..now i c my colik all headaches wif their kids school work...also not easy to teach oso...my bro oso hving prob in teaching his son loh...tink yr case will b beter ba since u r a teacher lo!
 
newbbi, i went on Sat nite but nothing much to buy. saw a lot of Hk stuff though but cant spend on that now. heh!

caitlyn, ya, i prob wun wait very long till try for no.2 coz of our condition. mi hb want to immed try for rat bb. *pengz*
supposedly muz wait till body rested first den try but hb eyeing for 4 kids!
 
Jam,
I have 3 friends who kana accident having their no.2 all during their 1/2 yr period and hb oso wear condoms... so i told hb beta dun touch me for the 1/2 yr, i dun want any "human accident" so fast liew
 
pierced, realli yr hb eyeing f 4 kids?? now seldom c ppl hv some many kids liow...my bro onli hv 2 oso every nite da da sa sa liow...
 
Jam,
Ya lah, cos my 1st wan oso accident wan... i cant let myself repeat the mistake...further now staying in pama hse really bu fang bian + tiredness can forget abt what is BDing liew. ha ha ha
 
Jam,
Not v v siong lah, depends on how u look at it and how u spend liew.

Once bb out, no more extra $$ to beautify urself, no more coach bags, beauty stuff lor, cos everything u want to spend is for ur bb only.

Frankly, right now, we didnt spend much on FM, as till now, me only using the 5th tin FM, i have been very hardworking pumping bm. The $$ u have to spend are on jabs, bb clothings, and his diapers liew and daily essentials stuff.

I have not really calculate how much liew, but just to let u know,3 jabs cost $306 liew, u think lei ??? Mum told me last time our vaccine are all FOC from garment wan.
 
hee, jam and jenn, ya lor he want 4 kids! for mi, if i can, will try lor. so far still can manage but of coz if really 4, dun expect a luxurious life liao!
like wad jenn says, depends on how u look at it, last time oso got many kids but depends on what u want in life. i tot 2 kids very lonely sometimes like mi and mi bro only. whereas if more kids, will have more to depend on one another. but most impt muz be closer in age gap.
 
jenn & pierced, hehhee somemore nowadays parents oso quite pampered their kids oso...so young all got so many things to play & wear loh...during our time where got so gd...so my mom can hv 7 kids...keekee...now living standard oso high so cannot compared oso...
 
jenn - hee.. i dunno y but after i gave birth i start to hv a bit of s** drive.. last time is 0! haha.. plus now BD-ing not so painfu liao.. but we at most once a week only lah.. haha..

pierced - isaiah likes his toys so far.. we have e touch pad system.. hee.. but tt one u must be ard lor.. now it's collecting dust coz no time to use it with him.. maybe wait till bb is older.. but alot of my frens comment tt all eir bb do is to grab n tear at e book.. =) i think rat bb is not so good for u lah.. tt wld be within a yr of e birth of no1.. not good for ur body leh!

jam - bb is quite exp coz of e jabs n all.. plus my bb on full FM.. so abt 100+ per mth on FM.. =)
 
Jam,
Really cannot compare now and last time, mum told me last time milk powder can oso be free. Nowadays where got FREE things ???

Really have to depends what kind of lifestyle u want liew, if still want luxury life, going holiday yearly, then better dun have too many kids liew cos is very hard to have much savings.
 
jenn.. here's a pic for u.. =)
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pierced, actually age gap tink shd b ok ba...cos mi & my sis 18 yrs age gap but we still in v gd term can say she treat mi more like her daughter than sis loh....cos my niece juz 8 yrs younger than mi loh...but beter not to hv such a big gap oso...
 
Pierced,
4 kid?wua, thats alot leh...

Jenn,caitlyn,
I also tinking of trying for the no 2 in 2009...hee...dun wan to leave a big gap lor cos since used to nite feeds by then, might as well quickly settle and close shop lor...heehee...

jam,
hi ya....=)... u also jiayou ya =)...
 
jenn, i tink i will missed those yearly holiday then...but tink f hb is ok wan cos b4 we r 2gether he oso seldom travel wan loh...so dat day we juz tok abt travel mayb aft we retired we will travel our own hopefully by then we r still healthy to travel lo!
 
jenn - it's $199 at kiddy palace.. but not all branches carry it.. =) we using e vouchers we got from isaiah's man yue to buy it.. =)
 
caitlyn,
The exersaucer cost wheel below for him to push around wan ???? Oh, $199 dun seem ex bah...
but will be collecting dust once he get sick of it hor....
 
Jam,
For me, i dun expect yang er fang lao lor, after kid grow up, he got his own life and partner, so in the end, only left spouse, so maybe will be more active travelling especially after retirement cos can withdraw CPF too, abit richer mah... ha ha ha..

I dun want to look after bb when i am old, ha ha ha, me gotta be a bad mother-in-law who only love travelling...
 
jenn - no wheels below.. =) my hb doesn't want anything with wheels below coz he scared isaiah bang here, bang there n spoil his furniture.. u wanna buy must buy soon.. like gg OOS like tt.. then robinsons no longer carries it.. but u can prob only put jayden in it when he turns 4 mth.. safer..
 
jenn, hahaha sm tinking aft withdraw cpf got extra of $$ can spent it on travelling no nid to kip for children wan...most impt thing must hv $$ can't rely on children to take care u when u old...
 
morning ladies...

newbbi/ting,
fyi,National library giving out free baby journal + free CD.
this baby journal allows u to record your pregnancy notes, the arrival of the baby, the family tree, the groth of the baby from birth to 5 yrs old. all the precious moments. also contain advice, information on products and services at the back of the book.
Inside the CD are instructmental songs, rythms, story, poems.

since it is free, get your free copy from the library.
 

Caitlyn, that's why i thk too soon too for rat bb! he dun like the nx one which is ox. haha!

for the leapfrog, will look see first. hee...
wah, if tear the book, i 'xin tong' coz i know the book oso quite costly. haha...

we oso plan to spend our own money for retirement. no pt keep all the money for our kids. muz train independence mah. work for own $$

suishi, i got that free journal too from NLB.
 

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