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(2005) Brides of year 2005
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Jam,
Ya lor, for me is not possible (my mum actually ask me to consider to quit and let my hb pay for everything), but is not possible lor...further i oso prefer to work.... so far, i enjoy looking after jayden on every sat and sun, but not from monday - sunday bah... think i oso need some break lor....
Ya lor, for me is not possible (my mum actually ask me to consider to quit and let my hb pay for everything), but is not possible lor...further i oso prefer to work.... so far, i enjoy looking after jayden on every sat and sun, but not from monday - sunday bah... think i oso need some break lor....
jenn- he's actuali payin everything nw lor. i may help him on sm admin stuff in his car biz n maybe he gv me sm allowance lor. hehe...
jam- i got tell her tat i may quit. she noes tat no one can help me take care. nw i alrdy writing up my 'mi ji'. haha... in case i'm nt ard, she can refer to it n wil noe wat to do..
jam- i got tell her tat i may quit. she noes tat no one can help me take care. nw i alrdy writing up my 'mi ji'. haha... in case i'm nt ard, she can refer to it n wil noe wat to do..
ting, can tell dat u realli love bb alot loh..but i won't hv the courage to be full time take care of bb...even sometimes my hb wanna to bring my niece out i tell him u got to take care of her..i dun dunno loh...he plan to bring her to swimming coming sat...no sure can cope wif it or not!
ting, wat car biz your hb doing?
i also wanted to be full time mum but then after 2 mths staying at home and looking after andrea, i'm glad to be a working mum.... haha.... cos facing bb 24x7 can drive you up the walls...... like my mum so happily agreed to go on cruise with her sisters and gave me only 3 days notice to take leave.... haha..... but of cos still will miss bb but will need time away lor...
i also wanted to be full time mum but then after 2 mths staying at home and looking after andrea, i'm glad to be a working mum.... haha.... cos facing bb 24x7 can drive you up the walls...... like my mum so happily agreed to go on cruise with her sisters and gave me only 3 days notice to take leave.... haha..... but of cos still will miss bb but will need time away lor...
my hb wil be helpin his fren in the import/export of car parts. his fren alrdy in the biz liao so jus need my hb to assist him.
daphne- tats wat everyone says lor. can go crazy facin bb 24 hrs a day. but i wun noe until i try lah. at least u got ur mum to help take care. i may not quit if got sm one to help me. dun trust bb sitters n maids.
daphne- tats wat everyone says lor. can go crazy facin bb 24 hrs a day. but i wun noe until i try lah. at least u got ur mum to help take care. i may not quit if got sm one to help me. dun trust bb sitters n maids.
Jam,
Ya, although no more installment but i am adding on the allowance to my pama for taking care of jayden is actually $400 more, so back to the square wan liew.
of coz have lah, but i ignore him cos no licence yet, i am not the driver mah, further he is the one who use the car most of the time.... ha ha ha
Ya, although no more installment but i am adding on the allowance to my pama for taking care of jayden is actually $400 more, so back to the square wan liew.
of coz have lah, but i ignore him cos no licence yet, i am not the driver mah, further he is the one who use the car most of the time.... ha ha ha
jenn- ya my parents wil continue the instalmts. their old car cannot make it liao, keep hvg to repair, v shiong! the civic is 80k!
jam- my hb wil quit his teachin job to concentrate on tat. if nt reali no time at all. he got tell his parents lor. he also bu she de to sell his car cos did so much things liao. so at least pass to my parents, he stil can see his car if he wan to!
daphne- yup he's quittin.
jam- my hb wil quit his teachin job to concentrate on tat. if nt reali no time at all. he got tell his parents lor. he also bu she de to sell his car cos did so much things liao. so at least pass to my parents, he stil can see his car if he wan to!
daphne- yup he's quittin.
jenn, now then u tried? i tried long ago liao cos that time must know how warm is the milk after putting in a glass of hot water.... so i tasted each time lor..... haha.... my hb also tried before... he said vanilla taste but very diluted kind.... i find it kindda sweet but also very diluted like glucose kind...
Ting,
Wa, civic - $80K and u are quitting ur job and ur hb gotta to pay for the installments by himself, he can really afford meh !!!!
Daphne,
Jayden like ppl to talk to him, if no talking , he will "shout" for attention... last sat, i brot him to my grandma hse, and he keep smiling and taking to my grandma, very happy ...
Wa, civic - $80K and u are quitting ur job and ur hb gotta to pay for the installments by himself, he can really afford meh !!!!
Daphne,
Jayden like ppl to talk to him, if no talking , he will "shout" for attention... last sat, i brot him to my grandma hse, and he keep smiling and taking to my grandma, very happy ...
Daphne,
Actually, ha ha, all the while i dun really dare to try lei.... i only enjoy the pumping... i know our ebm is sweet sweet once, cos at times, when jayden puke out with phelgm, the milk oso came out and spilled on the floor, the ants will come if we didnt clean properly.
Actually, ha ha, all the while i dun really dare to try lei.... i only enjoy the pumping... i know our ebm is sweet sweet once, cos at times, when jayden puke out with phelgm, the milk oso came out and spilled on the floor, the ants will come if we didnt clean properly.
ting, wah...but the friend's biz now doing ok or not?
btw, yesterday i went to collect my blue label bag liao so hb saw it liao... haha... heng he never say anything..... maybe cos he is too deep in thoughts about his work (which now he thinking whether to quit or not). my mil was with me and asked me how much the bag..... her eyes so big when i told her.... hehe she must be thinking why this dil buy so exp bags...
btw, yesterday i went to collect my blue label bag liao so hb saw it liao... haha... heng he never say anything..... maybe cos he is too deep in thoughts about his work (which now he thinking whether to quit or not). my mil was with me and asked me how much the bag..... her eyes so big when i told her.... hehe she must be thinking why this dil buy so exp bags...
jenn- he says he can afford. thn ok lor. his tuition assignmt can get him 1k plus liao. n he wil be doin property too.
daphne- yup. hence his fren kept askin my hb to join him quick cos he cannot handle alone liao. gd thing is biz alrdy up n my hb dun hv to put in any cash lor. but wil hv to discuss if my hb gonna draw any salary or solely on commission base.
ur hb got other lobangs after quitting?
daphne- yup. hence his fren kept askin my hb to join him quick cos he cannot handle alone liao. gd thing is biz alrdy up n my hb dun hv to put in any cash lor. but wil hv to discuss if my hb gonna draw any salary or solely on commission base.
ur hb got other lobangs after quitting?
jenn, ya lor but i leave it to him lah... cos with his new role, also dunno if will get the same kind of bonus as previously or not.... he got another offer which is giving him higher pay as basic... even higher than what he is getting now and still got comm and over-riding as he will be overseeing a team..... think he quite keen to go over to this role but he is hesitating cos of me i guess.... cos this new role is with a small local company but owned by his friend and he thought i wanted him to remain in big MNCs.... but i told him at the end of the day, if the small company can pay him better than what the big company can, then just go..... even big MNCs will also kenna retrenched and not necessarily that they will pay better anyway...
ting, if your hb really going into property, can link him with my hb cos the new role my hb is thinking of going is related to property.... mortgage loans and reno loans.... his friend's company is linked to all the banks for loans and going thru the company is much faster for customers and they may get the banks with better interest rates rather than going on their own... then they also got tie up with property agents so agents get referral fees for every case closed by the bank thru the company.... i think the referral fees quite good.... my hb's friend also cannot cope liao so when he knew my hb wanted to quit, asked him to join him and willing to even match and up his pay from his current one.... for my hb, he will be drawing a fixed pay + comm lah.... cos i told him i'm not ocmfy with just pure comm.. but dunno if hb will join or not cos he also got a few interviews lined up the next few weeks...
jam- tats the thing lor. he wil concentrate more on watever is more lucrative. tuition stil ok cos is flexi n he can get higher rates.
daphne- he shd be takin up the property course beginnin nxt yr n maybe partnerin w our tenant who is doin property nw. tats the reason he wanted to change car cos wanted a more executive look. i can anticipate lots of changes nxt yr. but since he's doin wat he likes finally, thn wil of cos support him all the way.
daphne- he shd be takin up the property course beginnin nxt yr n maybe partnerin w our tenant who is doin property nw. tats the reason he wanted to change car cos wanted a more executive look. i can anticipate lots of changes nxt yr. but since he's doin wat he likes finally, thn wil of cos support him all the way.
now eating lunch at my desk so can finally login for a while.
newbbi, yeap actually around 15 to 20 weeks can see gender.
I have thot about taking NPL to look after baby. but sigh, thot only.... hubby says it will be too taxing esp giving up the bonus etc....
Mums out there, may i know for your babies chinese names, do you think of something you like before you go and calculate? or you leave it totally to the person to suggest?
Thanks!
newbbi, yeap actually around 15 to 20 weeks can see gender.
I have thot about taking NPL to look after baby. but sigh, thot only.... hubby says it will be too taxing esp giving up the bonus etc....
Mums out there, may i know for your babies chinese names, do you think of something you like before you go and calculate? or you leave it totally to the person to suggest?
Thanks!
ting, now your hb change to a more executive look car.... once bb out, he may change to a more family car liao.... haha.... cos my hb actually asked me if we should change to a family car.... like those MPV or similar.... but i bu she de sell my subaru lor..... cos it's my very first car leh...