(2005) Brides of year 2005


daphne, but then in the 1st plc yr IL oso v funni loh if wanna to do it at their plc than say so loh...yr hb got pissed off boh?
 
daphne - i have a feeling ur mil must have been influenced by some san gu liu po.. coz usu if there's a change of tone like tt, it's coz of wat others said..
 
caitlyn, sometimes really sian hor everything got to tink of bth parties...scarli separate those relatives might comments y IL not here lah izzit mei lai wan etc etc...always do anything oso got gossips wan loh...
 
caitlyn, sure relatives got alot of comments wan loh...like we bot resale near my mom their relatives oso got comments y so far away fm u'll lah...my IL area beter...
 
caitlyn, tot yr IL here to spot chk u..kkekek..u still can chat here nv go & take care of him infront of them huh...hahahaa
 
jam - i put him to sleep liao.. my laptop next to him.. i dun care one.. she here i also chat.. it's a form of relaxation for me.. my mil always come here then will do hsework also.. i also nvr bther to pretend to do! haha
 
sigh... IL issues never easy....

may i know if you all have any shopping list for BB to share with me? do you know where can i check for the upcoming fair?

i am very lost... now my colleague says cannot wait till 3rd trimester to shop, too tired to go around to buy liao...
 
caitlyn, hahaha..later she complaint to yr hb yr wife no respect to mi...btw u mean yr MIL come yr plc to help u wif hsewk?? u don do yrself she ok to do f u??
 
winnie - it's true tt it's too tiring to shop during 3rd tri.. but dun shop too early also.. maybe during 2nd tri once u noe bb's gender.. =)

jam - i dun carre lor.. i do tok to her n all.. i dun like to do hsework in front of ppl just for show! also i dun hang clothes tt type coz i no strength.. she want to do, she do lor.. she scared later her bao bei er zi must do everything mah..
 
caitlyn, ha u really xin leh...really bo chap at all so tink more conflict wil cum since yr son got to b take care by yr MIL loh...feel dat if we really don like them watever they do u c liow oso bui song loh..
 
jam - actually i okies with her one.. only after wat she did during my bb first mt n everything then i more sianz.. i still got chit chat with her everything but got cracks in e r/ship lor..
 
caitlyn, actuali my SIL oso nv wash or hang clothes so whenever my bro back fm work he got to do all these things...he do complaint to my mom but my mom nv say xin tong lah but juz say is u who spolit yr wife loh...kekekeke...
 
catilyn, really not easy to maintain a gd realtionship wif IL especially when bb issue involve loh...I tink give own mom to take care wil b diff issue..u agree??
 
jam - haha.. my hb nvr even complain to his parents.. he's e one tt doesn't want me to do it! coz he scared i hurt myself.. but he does grumble to me tt i sld do some hsework lah.. now got bb, i noe he tired so i very zi dong.. will sweep floor, pack hse put clothes in washing machine etc.. so he wun be so tired..
 
caitlyn, yr hb finally make noise to u liow huh..kekekeke...of course he won't complaint to his parents loh cos he wouldn't wanna to suffer war between u & his mother abt hsework issue...but zip up his mouth...kekekkee
 
jam - i guess if let own mum take care, surely there'll be conflivt also.. as long as involve bb, sure got differeing opinion.. like tt time my dad tk care some things i also dun agree, but own parents can talk it out.. even if we raise voice, after a while will be forgotten.. but MIL cannot mah.. but just keep quiet and ren
 
caitlyn, ya ya own parent is diff still can talk back MIL than like wat u say ren & juz kip quiet loh...but i will show them my unhapi face cos i don tink i not hapi still give them smiling face bah..
 
yay, back from classes...end of day for mi...looking forward to 1.15!

ting, finish steamboat...so good...yummy...

daphne, now then i know that even bb showers oso got conflict wif ILs. cant even decide on own where to hold.
 
ting - u be my babysitter for tt day can anot? hahaha.. help me feed him n pacify him when he cries? haha.. coz my hb not coming..
 
caitlyn, tink ting & newbbi v happi to b yr bbsitter loh...kekekek..u can count mi out loh...if i c bb cries i dunno wat to do liow...hahhaa...
 
caitlyn- usu lidat leh. my hb was sayin hw nice if there is such an thing where it can interpretes wat bb is tryin to say thru their cryin thn makes things so much easier! haha
 
ting - he wun.. he still too young.. nt at e stage of being able to rec ppl yet.. haha.. but he will look look look at u as tho trying to commit ur face to memory one.. haha.. yah lor, sometiems he cry until so qi liang i also dunno wat to do.. then will try everything lor! haha..

jam - keke.. it's lik tt one lah.. when ur own then u'll learn lor.. i was totally at a lost of how to handle isaiah as he's e first bb i ever carried! n i gt no nieces or nephews so u can imagine lah
 
berry may not be able to make it as she already has some plans for e weekend.. she told me she'll msg me if she can make it.. =)
 
jam- yup i wil. tonite wil put smwhere tat i can see so i wil nt forget!

caitlyn- yalor, bo bian got to do eberythin n anythin to stop him frm cryin. but heard after a while, shd be able to differentiate wat he reali wans? usu bb cry for few reasons rite...
i stil rem when my youngest sis was born, i was only 7 yo n my mum entrusted me to take care of her! feedin, bathin, puttin her to slp, changin her diapers! hahah.. but i'm grateful for the experience. at least i noe wat i'm in for nxt time =D
 
ting - wah, ur mum fang xin let u take care? she very cool mummy hor.. hee.. but agree it's a gd exp.. u wun be so garang gabok like me next time.. i still can't really differentiate his cries coz his hungry + his tired cry sounds e same.. so if it's near feeding time, i just ASSUME he crying coz he's hungry! haha
 
caitlyn- yalor.. hee.. cos she was stil wrkg tat time. but of cos my ah ma was ard lah. i wil help after i cm bk frm sch. when ppl ask abt my childhood, all i can rem is takin care of my sisters! haha... i was like their mummy, goten gv them spellings lah, make sure sch bags r packed, uniforms ironed, wkends bring them to library!
 
ting - actually i very lousy hor.. to me my bb cries all sound e same.. coz they all start with a coughing sound then escalate to screaming! haha
 
paiseh, MIA for a while cos bb just pee and poo and wanna milk..... and my mum is not around.... i panic.....
anyway, back to my issue....
my hb hear already also flare up lor.... but the thing is i asked already where to hold the bb shower and ok if at my place mah and if not comfy should have told me so.... say ok and then change tone again? so i told hb that either do my place or at mil place and not at sil place. if mil place don't want, then i'll go ahead at my place and if they don't want to come, be my guests. i cannot be bothered anyway.... why be so particular about such stuff.... it's just an occasion to celebrate bb's full month that's all... why so particular about face issue?

anyway, me very sian cos my bb jaundice still not down yet.... in fact went up higher when saw the PD yesterday but PD says to monitor and review again on MOn and if still not down, got to hospitalized again..... see, so much issues and i have in laws giving me such shit now.
 
daphne, huh SIL hse?? if mi i oso dun wan to hold bb shower at SIL hse loh...ya loh is ok to hold at MIL plc if yr MIL don wan so like wat u say go ahead to hold it at yr mom plc...where got ppl hold bb shower at SIL hse wan v funni leh..
 
yay, school's over. gg for mi check up now. cya gals again. so sorry wont be catching up with some of u on sun. will update again . tata
 
daphne - did u try sunning andrea? if jaundice v high, must be careful.. if u see she's v yellow, better just go n check e level.. dun be bothered by all these stuff.. no pt.. let ur hb handle it..
 
jam, ya lor..... so i told hb that i will only hold bb shower once..... place either mil or my mum house. choose eiter one. that's it. this time they tested my patience to the limit liao.... it's time i start to stop giving in. i've been giving in all along and i think it's enough.
 
caitlyn, dunno what is high but PD says it's towards the high side but no cause for concern yet leh.... dunno if cause i'm bfeeding her now...
the PD says sunning not really effective cos there are good and bad UV rays and hence, may also damage bb's skin lor.... so now just hope that the jaundice will at least drop lor...
 
daphne - i was told by PD to sun isaiah between 8-9 in e morning, then after 5 in e evening.. tt's when rays are not so harmful.. u doing full BF? when isaiah had jaundice, i was advised to supplemen with FM so tt he can pee n poo more to get rid of some bilrubin or sth
 


caitlyn, u know that all along i wanted to get a geomancer to give my gal a name rite? and i told my mil about this liao each time she asked me if we had a name for her. then sil sms my hb few days ago and said that my side has been too involved in the bb and that we should be sensitive to mil and involve her in the names... but the thing is even my mum has no say in the name cos it's me and hb's idea to get a geomancer to give name and i didn't even consult my mum at all.... so once we get the names from the geomancer, hb just passed the list of names to MIL and let her choose lor...... me and my mum got preference for another name actually but in the end, we go with the name chosen by my MIL. i don't want later end up say we never respect her and never involve her in bb name..... and now this stupid shit. i can already forsee that more problems will come later esp after the full month... like where to put bb most of the time etc..... so i told hb, that's it. let's get own place. actually my in laws never realized that by doing all these, they are actually pushing me away from them and all the more i just want to get out from that house. this time i'm determined to get my own place if not for the high property prices now.... i'll get it asap.
 
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