(2005) Brides of year 2005


Caitlyn,
hehee..u so funny lor =)...keekee..

your boy sleeping now? Yup, we are going to Jam's place after watashi bb showers lor..

Jam,
rite hor? ;p
 
morning ladies...

i think i have made up my mind to take my friend's confinement lady at 1800. hopefully everything goes fine.

i am bringing forward my appt to tonight as i have a bit of yellowish discharge...
 
caitlyn, i tink yr boy noe u 2dae taking care of him all by yrself so he sleep longer so dat mummy can relax abit mah...gd boy...

winnie, so aft yr appt update us loh...everything shd b fine loh.

pierced, so when will u noe yr bb gender huh??
 
newbbi, linda's one should be able to, but i havent seen her before lei, funny not? how many of u gals gg tog?

winnie, act yellowish discharge is normal as long as it is not blood stains, we tend to have more discharge when preggy. if it doesnt itch or have funny odour, itz alrite.

jam, gender arh, thk should be today coz they doing a full scan for bb's organs etc. should be able to tell what's the gender. that time mi bb shy, turn away during normal scan. hee...everyone seem more kan cheong than mi. everyday mi colleagues will ask, so how, know gender liao not? but they all guess gal from the shape of mi tummy.
 
pierced - so today is ur detailed scan? it's a very amazing scan.. can actually see heart, stomach etc one.. =)

newbbi - think most1st time mummies will be like tt bah? n my boy really seems to sleep too many hrs for his age!

jam - haha.. now he fussing but i ignore him.. evil mummy! hee.. must train him to sleep on his own.. he used to ppl carrying him or patting him or holding his pacifier for him liao.. haha

wat time will u gals be staying at jam's plc till? my hb says he'll drive us there n fetch us hm.. coz he got some work to clear..
 
hee, caitlyn, ya lor looking forward to it coz like so long never see bb in scan. plus can know how it is coz like so weird sometimes feeling movement but sometimes not so u worry if everything is ok. keke...

itz good that ur bb sleep more than wake lei. mi mum says last time i used to sleep alot too, in fact can miss feed one. so ur boy boy like a piglet really. hee...
 
pierced - his total no of hrs is alto.. but his sleep is quite fitful.. like sleep 15 min, wakr up cry for 5 min then sleep 15 min... this can repeat itself throughout e 3 hrs.. it's very tirig on my part lor.. not sure y.. n now he already 2 mths old but nvr sleep longer for 3 hrs str.. even in e nite.. in fact only at nite he sleep for 2-3hrs str.. in e day never.. sad sad
 
caitlyn, my mom don allow us to carry or pat or swing ya lan when bb sleep loh...she say later bb will b used to all dis than can sleep so say like dat mk her bo eng so all my nieces & nephews take care by my mom no nid to anything wan juz put inside ya lan than auto sleep liow...
 
caitlyn, so getting more stress in taking care bb??

btw tink newbbi & ting hb drive rite? so u can actualli lobang their car to my plc & when they r abt to leave than ask yr hb to fetch loh since yr plc & my plc rather near...tink like dat beter loh so yr hb no nid to drive u tru & fro loh...

but not sure ting's hb drive car or bike loh..
 
pierced, so u looking forward f yr bb gender boh?? actualli u prefer gal or boy?? believe yr IL more gan cheong to noe yr bb gender bah...
 
caitlyn, itz all different for every bb hor... dunno next time mine how. when u planning to go back to wk? i dunno how long i will take mi NPL. i afraid also mi hb might gonna be posted overseas early next yr. how to bring bb over there?
 
jam - i getting less stressed as i have learnt to ignore his cries.. sometimes i just let him cry it out.. it's a good way for bb to release their tensio also.. haha. console myself lah.. also his pattern slightly more predictable.. i dun put isaiah in yao lan.. i give him pacifier.. nw he playig by himself on e bouncer.. hee..
 
jam, for mi no pref la, act i not very kancheong over the gender. hee... ya lor, IL more kan cheong than mi own parents. heng got mi hb so they dun really dare to say muz be boy or gal. haha...
 
pierced - yuppers.. so i just gotta accept tt i have a high needs baby! haha.. good way for me to lose my tummy? hiak hiak.. but i must say now he's better than when he was younger.. tt one i really can cry! i gg back on 1 oct.. u can afford to quit n be SAHM! haha. but i think i can't be one.. feel v out of touch n suddenly will lose identity. like ytday when i went out i felt so bad.. then realised must nt be like tt..

winnie - i heard tt too.. but it must be qlty sleep which is def not wat my bb is getting! haha
 
caitlyn, so u se de to let yr boy cry huh?? tink some of my colik especailli their 1st one v bao bei loh...cry a bit than faster carry & hoax them liow loh...
 
caitlyn, hee...i oso want but depends on the situation la, prob maybe take longer leave but go back wk later. i afraid i become yellow faced housewife if i SAHM. haha...
for mi confinement, most likely mi mum since she not working liao. but if i go back to work, still a headache over it. unless hire maid and get mi mum to oversee. if not, next best choice, is really for mi to take care. i dun want to leave with mi MIL even if she offer. hee... so mean hor.
 
caitlyn, my SIL v bo bei her girl...even now pri 1 liow lah..if she studying or taking a nap we even if we watch TV she will tune to the volume i hardly can hear so i don really like to go IL plc loh...my PIL is oso v strict to wat things the kids eat loh..unlike my mom...even my nieces or nehphew sleeping TV on until v loud oso ok, eat wat oso ok...my mom say muz trained them to si yin dis kind of environment...
 
pierced, actualli is a gd idea to hire a maid as yr mom not working so can help u to overc the maid loh...like dat u will feel more safe rather leave yr bb wif the maid alone loh..actualli i oso dun like my IL to take care bb...
 
mornin gals.. me out frm meetin. later got steamboat brunch in ofce. keke...

jam- i hvnt told my hb abt goin ur plc. he lost his hp so wasnt reali in a mood ytd... haiz.. xin tong all the contacts tat r gone! sm more his hp barely a yr...
 
ting, is ok loh..understand loh cos dat time my hb 4got to bring hp out he tot lost he oso sibei angry & not in a gd mood...somemore we oso don hv the habits to hv back up details f hp no leh..

yr hb drop or kenna stolen by someone??
 
bluegenie,
ya lor...hee..thts y i told u maybe the draw will finished yest...hee

Jam,caitly,
my hb driving MIL' van lor =)...

Pierced,
so now ur tummy show yet?
 
jam- tink he dropped in sch. realise his hp missin on wed nite when he was on the way to his tuition's kid's plc. tot he left in sch lor but cldnt find ytd mornin so cfm lost liao. haiz... tink mus hv the habit of backin up all the contacts. his hp got lots of photos also. all gone
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jam - i she de.. but will feel guilty.. somtimes after he stop crying, i will cry coz i feel guilty! haha.. but i feel it's better for him to learn how to calm himself down.. cannot let him get used to us pacifying him all e time.. sometimes i carry him up then put him fdown again once he calms down.. he will fuss again then i will jsut tell him, now is time for u to sleep, mummy wun carry u liao.. then just pat him while he's screaming away.. i also dun make e env quiet when he's sleeping.. i guess tt's y he doesn't sleep tt well, but i pref for him to get used to it.. =)

pierced - if u SAHM, sld have ppl to help u also.. so tt u can take a break if necc.. i find it quite scary tt i seem to be losing my own identity.. haha..
 
ting, i oso rely all my ctc on my hp so if really gone all my ctc will b gone 2...got tot of having backup but always lazy to do so loh...
 
caitlyn, ya i agreed is juz matter dat he will get used to it loh...if u too pamper them later suffer will b the parents loh..everything got to pleased them in order to stop them fm crying..
 
caityln, wah nice to read how you are training your little boy boy...

pierced, i got no preference too... but i know my MIL is very anxious... she keeps hinting me whether i like sweet or sour stuff hee, i purposely told her i take everyting and i fancy hot spicy stuff heee... i know they want a boy.... but come on lah, you think this can be controlled meh????

even dogs give birth also cannot choose gender hehhee,
 
caitlyn, u noe my bro he snored super loud leh...even sometimes he lock his rm door i stil can hear v clearly but bth his boy & girl still can sleep v well...my other bro say his boy & girl if nv listening to his dad music can't sleep well cos used to the snoring sound...hahhaaha
 
jam, my girl now sleeping so i can come in here lor......
but i wanna vent my frustration too cos i'm so bloody pissed off with my in laws!
 
jam, no leh, i think my girl is used to sleeping in noisy environment cos everyday, i got visitors - as in my relatives or my mum's friends and they will gather in the room and talk and talk and talk.... haha....
 
was just enjoying my time alone w my boi.. but apparently my MIL is not convinced of my skills in taking care of my boy n she's here.. super SIANZ..

daphne - wat happened?
 
sigh.... cos of the bb shower thingy lor....
initially asked my mil where to do and she said up to us and we asked if my mum's place condo function room can or not and she said ok.... then last nite change tone again. now said if at my mum's place will be inconvenient to some pp and who are the some pp i don't know and even said that their side of relatives may not come.... i hear already damn bloody hot....
 
daphne - bb shower is like tt one lah.. tt time my ILs also unhappy at e bb shower.. maybe try to arrange for 2 showers? separate ur mum's side relatives n their side..
 


daphne, but i tink if do it at yr mom plc hor tink yr IL & yr IL's relatives oso will gossip loh...dat dae wanna to ask u dis que but tot u will sure go yr IL plc f bb shower loh...mostly ppl do it in IL plc if they don hv their own plc...
 

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