(2005) Brides of year 2005
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jam,
my hb will also be like that one lor...so at the end, men do mind...i will also mind if my hb become like sumo like that lor...hee
Ya lor, this is sometime similar to my plan..Our plan is my inlaw willt ake care of bb on wkdays, then aft work we will go bk to inlaw hse hv dinner and play with bb, then fri nite then bring home and we take care during the wkends lor..All the way until 2-3yrs old can go childcare lor...at least they can learn things there...
But one bad point is, they might learn the bad things as well...
my hb will also be like that one lor...so at the end, men do mind...i will also mind if my hb become like sumo like that lor...hee
Ya lor, this is sometime similar to my plan..Our plan is my inlaw willt ake care of bb on wkdays, then aft work we will go bk to inlaw hse hv dinner and play with bb, then fri nite then bring home and we take care during the wkends lor..All the way until 2-3yrs old can go childcare lor...at least they can learn things there...
But one bad point is, they might learn the bad things as well...
ting, i tink my mom is ok to take care f mi...juz dat my IL might oso wan to take care too..tink my hb metioned nx time got bb...his parents can take care so we onli bring back on fri nite...but i prefer my mom to take care loh...since i not prggie yet so nv discuss anymore...
take it frm me.. ur ILs may nt say they want to take care yet.. btu when e grandchild is born.. things may change.. esp if it's a grandSON~
jam - not preggers yet must discuss.. coz u dun want to be sianz abt all this during ur pregnancy.. so if planning to get preggy, best to check with parents n ILs on wat;s their view
jam - not preggers yet must discuss.. coz u dun want to be sianz abt all this during ur pregnancy.. so if planning to get preggy, best to check with parents n ILs on wat;s their view
caitlyn- at least i am comforted by the fact tat mil is stil wrkg to support the condo so chances of her quittin is v slim.
jam- ok lah. we go bk once a wk for dinner. but i stil dun feel v comfy w them lor. usu durin dinner, they wil be talkin n i wil jus nod n smile! hahah... my hb alwz say i am so diff in frnt of his parents n mine. of cos mah, in frnt of own parents can say anythin i wan! keke
jam- ok lah. we go bk once a wk for dinner. but i stil dun feel v comfy w them lor. usu durin dinner, they wil be talkin n i wil jus nod n smile! hahah... my hb alwz say i am so diff in frnt of his parents n mine. of cos mah, in frnt of own parents can say anythin i wan! keke
caitlyn, my mom got say can help mi to take care loh...if my SIL no preggie bah...now my mom got to take care both my nephew & nieces...age 6 & 2 loh...but my sis tink my IL will wanna to take care since her niece now already 8 years old & tinking is grandchildren sure they wanna to take care loh..
hallo ladies.. i'm here to chat!
just finished feeding ryan and put him to sleep. maid went out to settle her permit thingy at the immigration so i got to do everthing myself.
jam & ting, good to sort out the baby-sitting thingy before preggy, dun be like me last time.. suddenly preggy w/o such planning... so much headache over it till the final few mth than decide on getting maid to help.
just finished feeding ryan and put him to sleep. maid went out to settle her permit thingy at the immigration so i got to do everthing myself.
jam & ting, good to sort out the baby-sitting thingy before preggy, dun be like me last time.. suddenly preggy w/o such planning... so much headache over it till the final few mth than decide on getting maid to help.
ting, agreed mi oso go back 1 a wk to hv dinner but dinner time is onli mi & hb eat 2gether so not so stress...juz feel dat not dat comfy at my IL plc cos seldom tok like go there eat liow & i watch tv or read newspaper than go back...i at my mom plc so diff i everyday go back oso hv things to tok to my mom wan...
newbbi & watashi, hmm my hb say wanna to let his parents take care but mi prefer my mom so everytime talk half way din continue loh...mi oso got to subject whether my mom can take care so many kids boh & IL got more time to take care since my SIL girl already pri 2 liow...
jam, noted.. see u this sunday!
caitlyn, how often does isaiah poo poo huh?
ryan seem to be constipated leh.. always can see he trying to 'gek sai' till the face red red.
last fri brought him to pd to insert the fleet..then he din poo again yesterday, so today brought him to gp downstairs to insert again..
.. haiz.. never poo we worried, poo too many times a day also worried...
caitlyn, how often does isaiah poo poo huh?
ryan seem to be constipated leh.. always can see he trying to 'gek sai' till the face red red.
last fri brought him to pd to insert the fleet..then he din poo again yesterday, so today brought him to gp downstairs to insert again..
.. haiz.. never poo we worried, poo too many times a day also worried...
caitlyn, i was tinking if IL wanna to take care oso a bit difficult to reject loh...so might juz let them take care until the age can go childcare & bring back bah...but they might not agreed tot...actualli if taking care by IL my FIL can guide along the school work loh which is now he is helping my SIL to teach her daughter loh..dis is y my hb prefer to let his parents to take care...
watashi - isaiah also will gek sai till face red red.. guess poo-ing is a very personal thing.. according to my MIL, my hb also like tt when he's a bb.. isaiah seems to poo evry alternate day.. he doesn't poo everyday.. my mil keeps saying 'bb must poo everyday', then my hb shoot back, 'ok, nxt time he dun poo, i insert my hand in to dig it out!' frm wat i noe, it's ok for bb not to poo everyday but not for more than 4 days in a row..
jam - today only 2nd day.. no obvious conflict yet.. but of coz got diff in opinions.. i just let her do wat she wants.. sometimes certain things she'll ask me first.. ten when i say sth, she'll be a bit not happy like tt, but certain things i just insist.. one thing i dislike is she likes to carry isaiah to sleep.. told her to carry when he's drowsy put him down but she dun want.. coz sometimes he'll cyr.. but it's ok coz he'll sleep soon after.. n she'll say things like dun give pacifier.. but when he cries, then she'll say, he's tired, give him e pacifier! haha
btw, my mum today just tell me my confinement is 40days!.. must eat those confinement food and bath everyday only after 40days... OMG! still tot my sufferig will end tis wkend.
caitlyn, my mum is ard to help out. recently ryan's more cranky at nite, prob due to his poo-ing problem, stomach uncomfy so refusing to sleep.
caitlyn, my mum is ard to help out. recently ryan's more cranky at nite, prob due to his poo-ing problem, stomach uncomfy so refusing to sleep.
jam- at least u dun hv to sit n eat w them! we hv to lor. sm more goten wait til his parents sit dwn liao thn can start eating. at my mum's plc, i can eat anytime i wan! thn after tat, i goten wash dishes =| wan to go bk early, i also paiseh to say in frnt of them. smtimes even sms my hb tat it's time to go home! hahah
watashi- ur mum helpin u w ryan rite? at least got sm one ard w the maid...
watashi- ur mum helpin u w ryan rite? at least got sm one ard w the maid...
watashi - after ryan turns one mth, u can give him gripe water after every bath.. may help prevent colic.. coz we feed from bottle.. isaiah super alot of wind one.. even if burp n all.. i now give him gripe water after every bath + massage his tummy twice a day.. he cries less liao
jam - yup, i'll tell hb.. but i tell hb not to tell his mum until he sees her doing it.. if not he wu yuan wu gu tell her things she'll think i badmuth her mah! haha..
watashi - poor thing.. nvr mind, this weekend u can sneak some food! hee.. sometimes bb cranky at nite coz over tired..isaiah also.. wat we do now is carry him n try to burp him, sometimes he'll let out a huge burp n be better.. hee.. if not we just put him on bed n hold pacifier in his mouth.. if he's crying coz of tiredness, he'll sleep within 3 min or so.. if he continues, then we just pick him up to soothe him.. n apparently if bb is cranky at e same timing every evening/nite, it's most prob colic..
watashi - poor thing.. nvr mind, this weekend u can sneak some food! hee.. sometimes bb cranky at nite coz over tired..isaiah also.. wat we do now is carry him n try to burp him, sometimes he'll let out a huge burp n be better.. hee.. if not we just put him on bed n hold pacifier in his mouth.. if he's crying coz of tiredness, he'll sleep within 3 min or so.. if he continues, then we just pick him up to soothe him.. n apparently if bb is cranky at e same timing every evening/nite, it's most prob colic..
ting, wow yr IL super traditional huh...muz wait f them to sit 1st than can start eating...u oso super cute sms yr hb is time to go back...kekekek...f mi i oso pai sei to say wanna to go back but lucky my hb wanna to go back early so everytime he will ask mi wanna to go back...i super happi...kekeke
caitlyn, ya PD also so if never poo for more than 3 days then must call police to 'clear the traffic' liao.. keke..
my mum also same as ur mil, believe tat bb must poo everyday, tats y today insist i bring him see doc to insert e fleet. say bb stomach so small nvr very xinku one.
ting, ya my mum will be wif the maid after i go back to work. now she also stay over at my house, sleep wif maid and ryan. my mum will wake up and watch my maid feed ryan in the nite, she say cannot leave the maid alone to do feeding coz she will doze off while feeding, very scared ryan will slipped and drop.
my mum also same as ur mil, believe tat bb must poo everyday, tats y today insist i bring him see doc to insert e fleet. say bb stomach so small nvr very xinku one.
ting, ya my mum will be wif the maid after i go back to work. now she also stay over at my house, sleep wif maid and ryan. my mum will wake up and watch my maid feed ryan in the nite, she say cannot leave the maid alone to do feeding coz she will doze off while feeding, very scared ryan will slipped and drop.
watashi - keke.. but sometimes really no choice.. veyr traumatic for bb to always insert e fleet leh i feel.. but isaiah's poo is green green one.. u went back to dr chia ah? i dunno leh, i wld advise u to change PD.. when we saw her for isaiah's cold, she really v rough w him.. n never really check like tt.. also just keep brushing off our qns.. imagine isaiah was so cute laffing n cooing away, she just coldly went abt her things.. dun give me a good feeling.. PDs sld be attentive to bb lor!
ting, u ILs so traditonal ah? after they sit down u still must address them to eat then u can eat isit?.. must be very stressful eating wif them.
caitlyn, my mum resorts to putting ryan in the sarong (yao lan) and he will calm down immediately and doze off after awhile. then will put him back to his cot.
caitlyn, my mum resorts to putting ryan in the sarong (yao lan) and he will calm down immediately and doze off after awhile. then will put him back to his cot.
jam- sianz rite. i tryin to get used to tat! at home, i can even sit in frnt of tv n eat lor! but it's so diff there. my hb smtimes forget abt the time, happily talkin to his parents or readin the papers so i got to remind him mah! hehe.. but paiseh to say in frnt of his parents lor so i sms discretly =D hahha
watashi- means u cant bathe for 40days? oh man... ur mum reali strict on confinemt?
watashi- means u cant bathe for 40days? oh man... ur mum reali strict on confinemt?
watashi- no need to address them. the feelin of being hungry n food in frnt of u, yet cant eat is terrible! keke... but smtimes FIL hungry wil start his 1st mouth so i jus follow lor =D i usu dun talk much when eatin so feel awkward also. smtimes wil jus excuse myself n go watch tv. hehe
caitlyn, still seeing dr chia. agree that she rather cold towards baby.. but so far she address all e questions we raised and since she knows of ryan's medical history(his breathing & cord not fully drop off)so shall stick to her till ryan is slightly older.
ting, so far i only bathed once.. can imagaine how sticky and stinky i am. will bath again tmr and once a wk till 40days.she's quite strict on confinment food.. i'm ok wif tat since its suppose to be for the good of my health.
ting, so far i only bathed once.. can imagaine how sticky and stinky i am. will bath again tmr and once a wk till 40days.she's quite strict on confinment food.. i'm ok wif tat since its suppose to be for the good of my health.
watashi - but his med history will be in health booklet rite? i dunno leh.. she not v thorough.. her med for isaiah's cold also not working.. feel ryan sld be in better hands! keke.. but if u're comfy it's okie.. my hb super dislike her.. coz every qn she ask, to her it's like silly.. but we first time parents wat.. then we noticed isaiah's eyes seem a bit crossed so we just asked her if tt's e case, WITHOUT looking at isaiah she says, no.. hmm..
we both so happy for yall.. but haiz.. we still awaiting our success stories
