(2005) Brides of year 2005


caitlyn,
hee....understand lor...u cfm with me again hor..

Ting,
still haven cfm the timing yet lor...tink shuold be aftrenoon or lunchtime lor... =)
 
ting - for this week, my mil is coming over to my plc.. nxt week onwards will go her place.. meanng we must leave e hse by like 630 latest.. faintz..
 
ting - yuppers.. a whole slew of bb showers! haha. n my cousin due nxt mth.. so exciting.. isaiah has seen so many babies liao! haha
 
ting, ya loh...tink nx mth many bb shower i tell my mom got a shock! kkekeke...so we muz arrange to go 2gether if not we go there diff timing dunno the rest of them...
 
jam - my awake time dictated by my little monster lor!! haha.. i taking care of him alone for half a day before my MIL comes.. quite enjoy it.. but peifu those who take care of bb alone whole day.. no time to do anything one.. nw my boy starting to fuss.. tok later!
 
caitlyn, like wat u say half a day shd b enjoying loh if everyday i tink got to take out white flag liow...my SIL always tell my mom she prefer working than staying at hm & look aft the kids...
 
ting, last nite i show my hb abt daphne bb blog...i read dat that she cried cos of diff opinion given on how to take care of bb...sometimes too many give suggestion oso headache loh...sigh
 
jam - keke.. esp since he's usu in a good mood in e morning.. hee.. taking care of bb really not easy esp at e beginning when u still duinno his pattern n everyone got 101 things to say.. n u're still physically weak from delivery also.. even now everyone will have alot of opinions but u'll noe his pattern coz u main caregiver n can ask them to buzz off! haha.. even now certain things i say my MIL dun believe, insist on doing her own way, isaiah will prove my pt.. but he porr thing lah! daphne's hb very onz in updating e blog hor..my hb no time to update!haha

ting - my mil dun drive so quite inconv for her to come everyday.. plus she's e must cook dinner type so my FIL n BIL comes hre for dinner.. quite mah fan.. coz my hb got to drive them back.. n must get isaiah settled into e routine b4 i go back to work.. but i may suggest only gg her hse 3 times a week for e time being n i take care alone for 2 days a week.. cross fingers i wun ki siao! haha
 
catilyn, sometimes old ppl got their way of taking care of bb...wo chi yan bi ni chi mi quo...so how conflict come out oso start here loh...sigh...
 
caitlyn- ic.. u lookin fwd to work anot? keke... i got a fren who is so used to takin care of her bb n cant bear to leave bb after ML so decided to quit str after ML!
 
jam- tink also cos no one to help her take care lor n she had sm problems w her mil so decided to take care herself. for me, i dun mind stayin at hm to do tat too.. keke
 
newbbi & ting, i tink taking care of bb sure got stress wan...sometimes if IL help u to take care u can even comments so much loh...if our own mom wil b slightly beter loh...
 
ting - intially i wanted to go back to work.. but nw i dun.. hee.. enjoying my time with him more.. but there are days u must take a break lor or will go crazy! hee.. u say u dun mind quitting now.. but when bb comes, may be a bit diff as u suddenly feel very cooped up at hm.. n can't do anything sometimes..

newbbi - yuppers..
 
caitlyn, i do agreed wif u loh...mayb when bb really arrives u might tink differently loh..is really not easy to b a full time to take care bb..
 
if got ppl help me take care, i dun mind lor. but dun hv leh... i got another fren who's takin care of her bb full time for 2 yrs liao. she says it's v fulfillin. to be able to see her girl growin everyday n learnin diff things. the best 2 yrs of her life!
 
ting - keke.. baby very hard to care for alone.. but i think it depends on ur bb also lah.. keke.. v tough for hb to be sole breadwinner also.. u no one can help ah? even if be SAHM, gd to have someone ard once in awhile
 
caitlyn- reali no one leh.. tats a big headache! unless engage maid at hb's grandparents' plc. or i can stay at my mum's plc w the maid lor..
 
jam,
quite true lor...next time got bb liao also duno how..hb was telling me if got bb liao, maybe mil will move to stay with us....then afew yrs time, maybe they rent out their hse and then come to stay with us..OMG...
 
caitlyn- alrdy headache for sm time! haha... stil tinkin hw lor.. but he prefers me takin care lah so i said if he can 'yang' me, i dun mind lor! hahah
 
ting, but even though u really quit job & stay home to take care yr bb...u muz really take care of yr appreance oso leh...scarli u bcome huang lian po yr hb don like u anymore loh...seriously f woman even give birth still muz concern their appearance to keep their hb heart...kekekeke
 
Ting,
good hor, being hse wife was my dream last time during my schdays...hee...now i realised bery difficult if only one person working lor...
 
ting, scarli u quit & bcome full time hsewife tend to nag alot than yr hb buai tahan ask u to go back to work...i dunno read fm where hsewife tend to b more naggie since whole day stay at hm so when hb back will tend to nag alot on the kids & hsework etc...dunno ture or not loh..
 
jam- definitely! my tat fren hor, so slim leh. she got take care of her appearance n stil look v pretty! so i believe stil can be pretty hsewife =D as i said, if got ppl take care i dun mind lor but there is no one to help me. but i wil wan to go bk to work once bb is old enough to go childcare. only for that initial yrs..
 
ting, so u do believe appearance to keep yr hb heart izzit?? my fren aft give birth still can't slim down her hb always ask her to do something abt it but hor she simply bo chap...aiyo nu ren zhen ku men...got to suffer labour pain & oso physical appearance changes....i so scared if aft birth i v boi i tell my hb asked him to pay f mi to go slim down...kekeke
 
ting, i oso tell my fren is impt to keep yr appearance gd so dat yr hb will not sick of u...she say bcos of having his bb so hb can't blame mi dat my figure go out of shape...sometimes hb will say bu jie yi...but do they really bu jie yi??
 
jam,
heehee...ta ban meimei..heehee...

Ting,
will u tot of getting a nanny to look aft ur kids? Then when they are older put them at childcare?
 
ting, i got ask my hb whether he mind or not loh...u noe wat he say u yrself so mind u put on weight so he beileve i won't let myself to grow fat until certain extend loh...so the ans is he do mind mi bcome fat...
 
newbbi- i wld prefer to take care myself durin the initial yrs thn put in childcare lor.

jam- they sure mind one lor. my hb says i maintain my wt nw can liao, dun grow any fatter liao! maybe cos he also put on nw, cannot 'xian' me too much. hahah
 

Ting,
true lor, but hor, can learn alot frm childcare centers leh...

Ting,jam,
Hb always say dun mind if i put on alot of weight, but hor, its best that we mantain so that we will not have inferior feeling lor.. =)
 
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