(2005) Brides of year 2005

[jendome]

Blue genie,
Actually not that i want to quarrel with her, but era have changed and situation are not the same as before liew....

If she want me to marry a son-in-law who is earning big bucks and willingly to pay for everything, then is very difficult...maybe till now, i am still left on the shelf liew.

 

[snowy_casper]

bluegenie,

My order is as follows :-
1)BKS002 - $22.30
http://www.babysoft.com.sg/babysoft_toy_store/cloth_books_index.htm

2)Soft Busy Blocks CUB002 - $15.10
http://www.babysoft.com.sg/babysoft_toy_store/puzzle_cubes_index.htm

 

[snowy_casper]

Hi all,
wah hsehold pyt, allowance... seem every of us in same shoe leh...
mum give pressure... nv tell mum the truth hehe

 

[lingling2]

Jenn,
ask u hor, when u book movie tickets online using credit card, when we go to the cinema counter to collect our tickets, will they ask u to sign on the receipt or just show them the card will do?

 

[lingling2]

snowy,
true lor..hee...white lie lor ...heehee...

Ting,

 

[jam75]

gals, than i'm more lucky cos my mom nv pressure mi abt whether my hb got give mi allowance...in another way my mom feel dat my hb is luck to marry mi cos my mom got give us some cash f our hse reno & dinner oso eat at my mom plc...so save a lots....all my bro got ba mi at 200 t0 300 f mi f new hse...my PIL & SIL onli give us 60 NTUC voucher niah!

 

[blue_genie]

rehi ladies,back frm lunch...u all eaten?

snowy: got ur orders. dun mind u pm me ur mobile no. so that i can sms u to arrange collection once order is delivered to my pl. thks.

 

[panggou]

sorry just got back to office after site visit, dont really feel good standing the whole morning...

my EDD is estimated end feb or early march...

Cotton, no MC leh, so continue to work.

for the allowance, we just pool our $$ all together leh, never bother who pay wat... so there is one time my hubby draw out the weekly allowance, and give it to me in front of his mum, his mum eyes so big as if i am living on him heeee

 

[panggou]

ting, with regard to the car, admit that we just bought our vios last jan, but we sold liao this year, just change to Mit car 2 months back, or 3 months.... cos hor, my hubby also says now the vios can fetch high price might as well let go, cos he fall in love with another one.

 

[jendome]

Winnie,
Wa, a vios in last near jan..and this year change to Mitsubishi car, how much u have to top up huh ?????

 

[ting0502]

bk frm lunch =D

winnie- wat car u drivin nw? my hb's vios alrdy 3 yrs old this nov so he wana sell liao since can fetch high price. but the problem is the car he wana buy is so ex! every mth instalment almost double lor!

 

[snowy_casper]

winnie,
EDD end feb or early march is gd

after CNY ... even u find CL is cheaper oso.

 

[snowy_casper]

blue_genie
I hv juz PM u my HP no.

 

[jendome]

Ting,
What car ur hb is keening to buy huh ???? WRX huh ???

 

[panggou]

hee snowy, i never thot of your point leh hehee.

may i know if it is too early to get prepared? should wait till more stable in the preg then get ready all the things right?

jenn, ting, we sold our vios around 40k plus when we bought at 50k.... 1.5 years old... now change to mitsubishi colt plus turbo.... he says he like... i thot it is cheaper that way cos he is also spending a lump on moding..... so he change car liao he promise no more mod, so ting, you can try to get your hubby to promise that

 

[ting0502]

jenn- either honda civic type R or euro R. both at least 100k!

 

[ting0502]

winnie- tats wat my hb told me! he wil nt mod if he gets the new car but i feel way too ex liao.
ur hb stops modin the car nw?

 

[panggou]

ting, yeap now stop moding.

 

[caitlyn]

hi all.. MIA for quite awhile as busy.. n tired.. how's everyone?

 

[ting0502]

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[ting0502]

winnie- wah tats good. i hope my hb keeps his promise!

hey caitlyn! hw u been? adjusted to motherhood?

 

[caitlyn]

ting - been okies lah.. tired lor.. hee.. luckily my dad comes over everyday so i can nap in e day to recharge.. i need tons of sleep type lor

 

[snowy_casper]

Winnie,
shd wait for more stable than get prepare.
i oso got prepare recently only

 

[lingling2]

caitlyn,
how are u? still coping well with bb? who is helping u to take care of bb now?

 

[jendome]

Winnie,
So u plan to get a CL boh ?????

Snowy casper,
How abt u ? Ur engage a CL ????

 

[jendome]

Caitlyn,
Glad that ur daddy come over daily so that u can take a nap !!!! So ur hb ta-bao for u daily huh ????

When is ur maternity gotta to end ????

 

[ting0502]

caitlyn- me same like u. keke... can sleep like a bb lidat =D at least ur dad helps u to look after isaiah =)

 

[caitlyn]

newbbi - am coping better with bb daily.. the past few days were very trying coz he kept crying n crying.. n he's e type to scream until he got no voice.. so very stressful lor.. at e moment my dad is helping me.. after this mth, will be my MIL.. long story

 

[caitlyn]

jenn - yup, hb will ta bao lor.. very grateful to my dad.. he comes at 7+ in e morning all e way till hb comes back lor.. my maternity ending ard aug.. but i may take 1 mth no pay leave

ting - keke.. when bb comes.. hahaha

 

[ting0502]

caitlyn- har? ur dad nt helpin u to take care?
i can imagine all the sleepness nites, bb's cryin n all! jus enjoy couplehood nw 1st. hee

 

[jendome]

caitlyn,
sigh, own dad is always the best...no complains and will helps daughter all the way out wan...... so ur MIL will be moving in to stay with u huh ????

 

[jendome]

caitlyn,
Ur school will allow u to take 1 mth no pay leave huh ????

 

[panggou]

jenn, i not sure leh, in fact who to take care of BB is not settle haha, i am taking one step at a time.

truly spoeaking, i know deep down in my heart, we got no choice but to invite his aunt to come back from US to stay with us and look after BB, she brought my hubby up when my IL is working. but it is raelly a big commitment, cos once you ask her to come back, she stays with you, you know, the conflicts start..... so i dont know how to think about it. but my mum told me give and take, cos let own people look after is better....but my freedom.... all gone... but i guess the good thing is i can focus on my career to know that BB is in good hands.

 

[caitlyn]

ting - hiyah.. long story lah.. my irritating ILs lor.. they keep worrying tt bb will be closer to my parents! siao.. last time when i preggers, i asked them if they wanted to help care for bb, they said no.. so i asked my dad lor.. had to persuade him to.. after they noe it's my dad, they sudenly say want to take care.. but coz will be more stressful on our finances n we already asked me dad, so we say no lor.. then we explain to them, they also accept.. but somehow at e full mth celebration, my MIL got angry n just went hm w/out saying bye to my parents.. so my parents suspected sth wrong, ask us to chekc with them.. turns out they angry tt we like dun let them carry isaiah.. (crazy.. just tt on tt day, isaiah was v v cranky so my parents carried him coz they were there earlier n when PILs came n asked to carry, they also pas to them)imagine it's a full mth CELEBRATION lor.. make until everyon super unhappy e next day.. long story lah.. this is only 1/3.. but basically keep having unhappiness, created alot of stress for me until i keep crying everyday.. then decided if they are so selfish n cannot see beyond their own fear tt isaiah wun be close to them, then let them take care.. jsut tt hb n i will be v v financially strained.. dun understand y they can't spare a thot for their own son lor..

 

[caitlyn]

jenn - hv to apply but sld be okies.. =) nope, ILs not moving in.. i die die also dun want.. will bring isaiah to their place daily.. really dun understand y they must make things so diff!! i still angry.. coz for us to bring to my dad's plc, is so much nearer!!

 

[panggou]

caityln, just listen to your 1/3 story i think i can link liao.... cos i think it may turn out similar like mine.... but i told my hubby, BB got to stay with aunt at our place, not at his parents place... cos his parents place got 3 dogs, the fur is every where.... and then they urine and pooh around hte house, eat on the floor, ayoh really dirty....

 

[caitlyn]

winnie - sianz lor.. imagine we actually asked them FIRST n they are e ones who said they didn;t want.. e best part is now tt tell them let them take care, so of coz is faster start bb on e routine so we ask MIL to quit her job n give one week notice (she working as helper at those small snack shop).. she say dun need so fast lah, paiseh to tell her boss.. then like dat fair to my dad meh? like anytime she want to take over then can.. imagine she got angry at my hb when he told her by next week she quit her job, she said 'then i cannot help u liao'.. wah.. i really PISSED boy.. then gotta tok to her again.. so conclusion is by end of this mth she quit.. so irritted!!!

 

[ting0502]

caitlyn- huh!!! must be reali stressed on u n ur hb. y wana make things difficult for both of u. so u goten gv ur mil more mthly allowance i guess.. sm times we jus simply dun understd wat they r tinkin!

 

[lingling2]

caitlyn,
ic...thats good lor, slowly u will get the hang on it liao =)...But your dad is bery good lor, come over help u...

SO u wake up at nite to feed him?

Ask u hor, CL is it only cook for you and take care of bb? so hsework still done by hb one?

 

[panggou]

caityln, sigh conflicts so fast right..... esp on BB matter when you go thru the difficult confinement period. in your heart do you resent letting MIL to look after BB?

for me, i am very very glad, my MIL herself says she wont look after BB, cos in the past his aunt is the one who look after his sisters and him, my MIl is working. so now she is not interested to look after and her health is not so good. but of course who know they may roti prata the words in the end.

 

[ting0502]

caitlyn- cant u insist tat ur dad takes care? tink if i were u, i reali heck care liao, i mean in the 1st plc, u the one who said dun wan to take care, nw say u wan. alrdy made all the arrangements liao. nt fair to ur dad lor. hw does ur parents feel?

 

[blue_genie]

ger2/snowy: once babysoft confirm our orders,i.e. confirm there's stock for us, dun mind u transfer money to me for payment, can?

fyi, our order exceeds $100 and we are eligible to another 5% discount if we participate in their BP in SMO, so i will let you know the final price ok...thks!!!

 

[lingling2]

caitlyn,
ahyo, can imagine the stress u and your hb is getting...poor you...haiz...

But your inlaw like that not reasonable lor..hiaz... where ur inlaw staying? cos if bring to and fro everyday, bery tired for you both and bb one lor...Its not good to bring bb everywhere when they are still so young lor...

 

[ting0502]

winnie- my mil also says she dun wan to take care of my bb nxt time. but i hope she dun take bk her words! if nt, a long string of conflict wil def follow!

 

[caitlyn]

ting - tt time my hb was v stressed.. coz he was tired out frm caring for bb + i wa crying crying away.. like gg crazy type.. must give her min 500 on top of wat we giving her which i believe later they'll say not enuff coz as it is tey always say they not enuff money n eating into their savings.. plus buy all e bb stuff lor..

newbbi - my CL helped to sweep + mop floor daily.. when CL is here, CL did nite feeds.. now hb n i take turns..

winnie - hiyah.. tt time my wedding they also super roti prata.. imagine my PILs during my confinemt told me hb 'dun do all e hsework, must ask her to do also' wah.. tt was last straw for me man.. even my frens who came visit commented on how pale n weak i looked lor.. they no eyes to see ah? plus i had bad post natal blues, so eyes also puffy from all e crying

 

[jendome]

caitlyn,
Can understand ur woes, really must sayang u.... hope my MIL wouldnt roti prata words as well !!!! cos now she is working ,i dun expect her to quit her job too... she better stay working and i will put jayden @ my pama's hse.

 

[caitlyn]

ting - i was very weak emotinonally then lah.. actually hb wanted to insist on my dad taking care.. but i cldn't tahan the stress we were getting from his parents.. who were kinda like 'cold warring' with us.. n making it seem like everything was my fault.. n they said things like 'y ur mum stand in front of e fan when bb is crying (cause bb is hot tt's y cryign?!).. becoz of tt, bb got alot of wind tt's y cry! then say things like 'actually MIL is e most experienced in taking care of bb, y must we tell her wat to do?? becoz every freaking bb is different n we care for isaiah on a DAILY basis so we know his pattern so just tell her lor.. sorry.. i can go on n on n on coz i still a bit angry.. my parents are okies lah.. they say bb will be close to whoever treats them well.. n they have more freedom also.. but of coz they a bit angry at my ILs lah..

 

[lingling2]

bluegenie,
no problem ger =)...i can pass you the money tmr when we meet up lor... =)...or u wan me meet up when the bb items are here?

 

[blue_genie]

ger2, but i haven't calculate the final pricing cos i just call them and chk out a few things...

we can still meet up tmr if u want and meet again when the bb items are here...we are sooo near to each other leh *lol*

 

[ting0502]

caitlyn- wah piang. mus gv min $500?! since they keep insistin, thn bo bian. lucky ur parents r the understandin type =)
no problem man, jus vent watever u wan here! we can all be ur listenin ears =)