(2005) Brides of year 2005


ting, we oso pay by instalment loh...we will split amt sometimes if i pay more f our package he will pay f expenses loh...actually we depend if whoever hv more $$ we pay more using our own saving the rest we will use our joint a/c loh!
 
newbbi, heard the hailong bay (someting like dat) scenery v nice loh!

ting, turkey oso not a bad plc to visit loh...thot quite ex to go there loh!
 
bluegenie,
din see snowy leh...

Jenn,
u packed our hospital bag yet?

Ask u hor, is there any diff for the bb blanket or the blanket which wraps around bb when discharge frm hospital?cos my fren preggi and then she asked me...hahaa...

how many clothes does newborns need?or how many set did u all prepare leh cos my fren ask me...
 
jenn, actually now every mth both hb & myself got to pay instalment f our home appliances & our holiday trip...kekekke
 
newbbi- no lah, i nt referin to ma mu on no one here. i meant ma mu on seein my menses come every mth! haha

jenn- most instalmts wil finish end of this yr. the tv we pay 3 yrs so abt $60 niah. thn we use the rent to pay for the korea instalmt!

jam- usu my hb pays usin his card thn i wil transfer $ to him every mth. tat time went korea, all exps paid by him, i spend until so shiok! hahah.. he was like wah, shiok rite, nt own money, no nid tink so much, jus buy! lol
 
ting, hahaha...yr hb muz b heart v pain...kekee..f my case even if hb pay expense i will still consider wan loh too ex oso dun buy but my hb if like he will go ahead 1..
 
ting, actually $500 f bth still consider ok..last year we went BKK we oso change $800 spent almost all...my fren when jpn onli change 600 f bth still can buy 1 blue label bag...imagine mi & hb spent almost 1.8k so change less oso gd spent less!
 
jam- ya true. tats y we din wan to change too much cos end up sure spend all! wah u spend $900 each in japan? bot alot of things there? but japan things n food r ex rite
 
Newbbi,
The blanket which hospital wrap for bb is call receiving blanket which have a hook to cover bb's head.... that is the different..

As for newborn clothings, i prepare less than 10 sets, cos bb outgrown fast...most of my clothings are 3-6mths old wan.... tell ur friend not to buy too much NB clothings...btw, when is ur friend's EDD ??? Cos my CL told me that she got jobs on oct and next year jan'08, so i am wondering if ur frenz got engage my CL boh ????
 
Jam,
huh...u spent almost 1.8K ??? That is alot lei, the 1st time when i go to japan, me and my brother spend less than 1K and this year mar, i spend less than $300.00 but no blug label bag lah....
 
Ting,
My installment will oso end this year oct, then after tt, will have to increase allow to my mum cos she help me take care of bb.....so back to the square wan, cant save !!!! kee
 
Ting,
wa, u plan to go to turkey huh...think less than $2K can go lah...i have ask abt the package before..... kee kee...

So envy that u are planning for holiday !!!!!
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jenn & ting,

cos mi bot 1 blue label bag & hb bot black label shirt & PSP all my bag costs 310, his shirt 100+ & psp close to 300 liow and things there oso quite ex!
 
Ting,
Aiyo, u know hor, once preggie cannot travel liew....this is the sacrifice !!!!!

Planning to give extra $300 more..u think enough boh...cos still have to pay for other loans and installment liew..my renov loan is 4 years... this yr only 2nd year !!! sigh !
 
jenn- the sacrifice wil be all worth it =) at least u r spared of tryin n tryin n seein red every mth, can get reali depressing one...
shd be enough bah.. i nt sure also..
u took alot for ur renov loan? we borrowed frm MIL, alrdy finish payin, one load off our mind!
 
jenn, worth it or not huh...actually dunno loh cos he now like addicted to his psp games...kkeke..i tink my blue label more worth it ...hahhaah
 
Ting,
Dun be so depress, jia you.... and bond as an enjoyment.....

We took up $20,000 from SCB... till Oct07, only pay for 2 years...so by the time we finish the loan is time for jayden can go to pre-nursery liew...so all OUT, nothing IN lah....
 
Ting,
Dun need to wait for bb to be out...once u preggie, those package, test and etc is enough for u to spend liew...

Yap, shld tell ur hb to start saving ASAP !!!!
 
jam- my hb wan to change car liao. aiyooo.... the car he's lookin at is so ex! mthly instalmt slightly more thn 1k! thn he says can take up more tuition mah.. blah blah... buey tahan lor!
 
ting, if got car than is gd enough loh no nid to buy those ex wan loh...my fren oso hv some arguement wif her hb regarding $$..is v siong to own a car leh...apart fm mthly instalement u got to tink of car ins, petrol, parking etc etc...
 
Ting,
huh..confirm ur hb want to change huh.....but per mth installment more than $1K is exp lei, that is besides the petrol, insurance, road tax, maintenance and season parking !!!!!
 
exactly!! i alrdy told him liao, nt worth to pay so much. sm more he jus re-sprayed his car n look like new one nw! the main reason he wana sell is cos his car can fetch a gd price nw, if wait again, may drop liao.
 
Jam,
i agreed with u lor..have a car is good enough liew...we oso dun dare to change our picanto cos of the financial committment... just drive first and see how...cos car is only for transport from A to B !!!!!
 
Dear all,
Can i ask whether ur mum got ask if ur hb give u monthly allow boh ????

For my mum who is more conservative in some ways, think is a MUST for man to give allow to wife...and wife shouldnt be paying anything for the hb, hb shld pay for all...sometimes i tend to quarrel over this thingee with her !!!! sigh !!!!
 
jenn, my hb nv give me allowance. in some aspect i wish he give but then he oso not really earn big bucks and i also working so better to share the hsehold thingy if not, v. difficult on him.

how abt u?
 
Jenn,
tks for the infor...will let me fren know..Oh ya, she din engage your CL cos she couldn't get through her line...so she took another CL frm one of her forum frenz lor...

The receiving blanket is given by the hospital?

Ting,
dun be disappointed lor...Me also abit disappointed or happy? when my AF came last mth...thats y i was telling u all, duno to be happy or sad..haiz...

Its really bery stressful during TTC lor...

U know hor, yest hb was telling me that bonding cannot be for the sake of TTC lor...Cannot stressed too much on TTC lor...Then i told him, we only fertile for that few days in a mth, if miss the period of fertitily, thats it liao...

Talking abt Inst, now we have instal for the notebook wich we bot last mth lor...ard $300 per mth for 5mths....Then every mth will hv to return MIL the reno loan lor..cos we loan $30K for her...Got to pay her back ard $1K per mth ...well, that day she was saying the loan will be paid up soon =)...
 
Blue genie,
My hb oso not earning tt much, we are abt on par, so he oso never give me allw....... but my mum just dun understand tt lor.... sigh !!!!
 
jenn- tink my mum same thinkin as ur mum! but she nvr mention abt the allowance thingy. she also says tat guys shd pay for everythin in the hsehold, even tat time weddin she also feels the same. n when i told her, i got pay for sm things, she was not reali happy lor. but i feel we shd share the load mah, nt as if we not wrkg n our hbs r earnin big bucks every mth!

newbbi- yes, cannot be too stressful. i alrdy 'kan kai' liao. my hb also says tat i was so obsessed w bb makin beginnin of the yr n he cld feel it. nw much beta liao.. most imptly to enjoy the BD session! hee
 
Jam,
no leh...my hb dun give me any allowances lor..But he is paying for the utilies bill,broadband bill,scv bills,grocceries etc lor...Sometimes I pay for the marketing and grocceries...My mum used to tink like your mum too, but as long as both hb and I are happy, can liao lor =).
 
ting/newbbi - gd, sort of giving allowance to u to manage the hsehold..for me, hb & i share half each for our hsehold apart frm our allowance to our parents.
 
ting,
true lor... really must kan kai...tink i also got to tink this way lor, if not both of us stressed..somemore u know we seldom bond one lor..haiz... leave it to fate lor..

my mum also said everything shd be paid by guys lor, cannot paid by gers..If not like we bery eager to get married off etc...haiz
 
toking abt allowance my male coll oso got ask mi whehter my hb got give mi allowance...i tell them we all working y still got allowance wan meh!!
 
my mil asked hb whether i got share wif our hse payment...eg utilities bills,etc...i tell my hb all my bro pay all this so is man responsibility..
 
newbbi- ya hv to lor. if nt too stressed no gd also. tink our mums' generation lidat one. my mum sm times wil also comment on the allowance i gv her mthly. says last time she used to gv as much as 80% to her mum! i told her cannot lidat compare lor, nw everything also so ex!
 


Jam,
Ya meh..now my papa expect my brother to pay for all the household exp once he found a job...... he said is a MAN responsilibity !!!!!
 

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