(2005) Brides of year 2005
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morning all...
haha..... linda and ting, that's cos u all don't stay with in laws so when meet up with in laws then to have nothing to talk about.... i was like you all last time before i stayed with in laws and each family gathering, i felt like outsider... but now as i'm staying with MIL, things actually improved (although i would still prefer to stay on my own cos still got some issues with staying together lah), we tend to have more topics to talk and now when hb is not at home, i'm also ok with just being alone with her.... usually we will talk about my hb lor..... common topic to gossip and complain about... haha...
haha..... linda and ting, that's cos u all don't stay with in laws so when meet up with in laws then to have nothing to talk about.... i was like you all last time before i stayed with in laws and each family gathering, i felt like outsider... but now as i'm staying with MIL, things actually improved (although i would still prefer to stay on my own cos still got some issues with staying together lah), we tend to have more topics to talk and now when hb is not at home, i'm also ok with just being alone with her.... usually we will talk about my hb lor..... common topic to gossip and complain about... haha...
morning all.. =)
so far i think i tok more to my ILs then my hb.. so no problem there.. but i starting to feel more easily irritable by them.. coz they think i more 'hao shang liang' then my hb so everything they want to push for, they come to me.. quite irritating esp when i also dun want certain things but i cannot say.. haha..
so far i think i tok more to my ILs then my hb.. so no problem there.. but i starting to feel more easily irritable by them.. coz they think i more 'hao shang liang' then my hb so everything they want to push for, they come to me.. quite irritating esp when i also dun want certain things but i cannot say.. haha..
daphne,
maybe you are right! cos we not staying with in-laws so not much to talk and no common topic bah.
caitlyn,
my mil also same, also come to me 1st then i also arrow her to my hb and let my hb do the decision. otherwise, hb will also tell me off if i agree and he is not! just to play safe! hee..
maybe you are right! cos we not staying with in-laws so not much to talk and no common topic bah.
caitlyn,
my mil also same, also come to me 1st then i also arrow her to my hb and let my hb do the decision. otherwise, hb will also tell me off if i agree and he is not! just to play safe! hee..
daphne - no use one! they'll keep trying their luck.. then ask me to tok to him!! hahaha.. but now i firmer then last time.. i will just say better not to lor.. haha.. then they'll bug n bug.. then i'll jsut 'orrr' then say i discuss with hb n hope they forget.. but i realise they're more pushy nowadays.. last time they not so pushy.. guess more familiar with me?
linda - can understand.. hee..
actually i think my recent irritation with ILs is also a bit of preg hormones? hee.. just tend to feel more irritable easily..
linda - can understand.. hee..
actually i think my recent irritation with ILs is also a bit of preg hormones? hee.. just tend to feel more irritable easily..
ting,
for us, between my hb and myself its me who wants to have our own house. then mil then say when married, better to have own house. hahahaha... heng ah...
i told my hb that i am very particular abt cleanliness and my mil is not that particular, therefore, if stay together, i will sure not be comfortable one. and now when my mil bring my sil children to my house, she will make sure that they dun mess up my house! cos she know that i cant stand dirtiness. hahahhaha...
for us, between my hb and myself its me who wants to have our own house. then mil then say when married, better to have own house. hahahaha... heng ah...
i told my hb that i am very particular abt cleanliness and my mil is not that particular, therefore, if stay together, i will sure not be comfortable one. and now when my mil bring my sil children to my house, she will make sure that they dun mess up my house! cos she know that i cant stand dirtiness. hahahhaha...
morning gals!
no govt today coz boss not ard.. newbbi bot lotsa stuffs?
yup, me same as daphne.. actually staying wif ILs not tat bad.. i used to tink jialat liao but now ok aft staying wif them for a yr.. sometimes dun feel like talking, juz stay in the room watch tv or do my own thgs lor..
caitlyn - tink u gotta RenYiRen ur ILs since ur MIL will be the one taking care of ur kiddo.. and sure bound to hv small differences when dun see eye to eye on the taking care part bah..
no govt today coz boss not ard.. newbbi bot lotsa stuffs?
yup, me same as daphne.. actually staying wif ILs not tat bad.. i used to tink jialat liao but now ok aft staying wif them for a yr.. sometimes dun feel like talking, juz stay in the room watch tv or do my own thgs lor..
caitlyn - tink u gotta RenYiRen ur ILs since ur MIL will be the one taking care of ur kiddo.. and sure bound to hv small differences when dun see eye to eye on the taking care part bah..
just share w u gals on thing tt really irritated me.. hee..
recently my PILs have been like thinkin of downgrading to a 3rm flat coz they 'pay for hse until scared'.. they use cash coz no CPF n money is tight.. hb n i give them ard 500 a mth n tt money is basicaly used for e hse instalments.. but in e first place, their present 4-rm flat is only 5-6 yrs old still with an outstanding loan amt.. even if they sell n buy a 3-rm flat, they'll still hv to start refinancing all over again.. not to mention e cash they need for e reno?? we told them alot of times already but they still can't see e pt.. it's very bad planning lor..
then recently e twist came.. his mother told him (at least she got e sense this one cannot tell me directly) tt his dad was saying tt since pay for e hse until so sian then just sell e hse, and move in with us?!!! altho i noe tt eventually we most likely will stay with them, but at tis pt, when stil can afford, i wld like my own hse.. wat's more we only just got our plc.. let us enjoy it awhile.. ALSO, it means his bro also move in? then means wat? one room for us, one room for his bro, n one room for them??? then my isaiah how? sighz..
guess some of u may feel i a bit selfish, but i really prefer to stay on my own.. i mean xiang jian rong yi, xoang chu nan lor.. and i guess i din like e way they just assume we will let them move in with us?
recently my PILs have been like thinkin of downgrading to a 3rm flat coz they 'pay for hse until scared'.. they use cash coz no CPF n money is tight.. hb n i give them ard 500 a mth n tt money is basicaly used for e hse instalments.. but in e first place, their present 4-rm flat is only 5-6 yrs old still with an outstanding loan amt.. even if they sell n buy a 3-rm flat, they'll still hv to start refinancing all over again.. not to mention e cash they need for e reno?? we told them alot of times already but they still can't see e pt.. it's very bad planning lor..
then recently e twist came.. his mother told him (at least she got e sense this one cannot tell me directly) tt his dad was saying tt since pay for e hse until so sian then just sell e hse, and move in with us?!!! altho i noe tt eventually we most likely will stay with them, but at tis pt, when stil can afford, i wld like my own hse.. wat's more we only just got our plc.. let us enjoy it awhile.. ALSO, it means his bro also move in? then means wat? one room for us, one room for his bro, n one room for them??? then my isaiah how? sighz..
guess some of u may feel i a bit selfish, but i really prefer to stay on my own.. i mean xiang jian rong yi, xoang chu nan lor.. and i guess i din like e way they just assume we will let them move in with us?
oic caitlyn!, tot its ur MIL taking care.. keke paiseh paiseh..
ur ma is working rite? then ur pa how? he can handle?
my pa best.. tat day come tell me "if u got kid good lah.. i can retire early and help take care.." i was like !!!!!!, such a line come out from the mouth of a bochap man?! haha.
ur ma is working rite? then ur pa how? he can handle?
my pa best.. tat day come tell me "if u got kid good lah.. i can retire early and help take care.." i was like !!!!!!, such a line come out from the mouth of a bochap man?! haha.
janf - we bot 5 rm.. coz we knew tt there wld be a possibility his parents will move in with us.. anyway, hb also prefers to stay on our own a far as possible.. so he tld them if can still afford we stay in our own hses.. think wat i really dun like is e assumptions they keep making? i also dunno.. this is not e only incident.. got a few more.. and i think it seriously all started frm e wedding preps when i kept giving in.. and anyway i already painted isaiah's rm nice nice and bot a pooh wall border.. hahaha
linda- my mil is the one who is v particular abt cleanliness n insists on hsewk being done in HER WAY! even hb n his bro buey tahan her lor. so i cannot imagine if we all stay tog, sure fight one! hahah
caitlyn- i dun tink u r selfish lor. cannot assume tat u both ok for them to move in mah.. if i were u, also not happy one. hw does ur hb react to all these?
caitlyn- i dun tink u r selfish lor. cannot assume tat u both ok for them to move in mah.. if i were u, also not happy one. hw does ur hb react to all these?
janf - i dunno if my dad can handle.. he seems to think it's quite easy.. where he can still cook dinner for e whole family everyday! hahaha.. guess he'll learn frm e confinement lady.. if he really can't handle then will consider asking MIL lor.. but she has some weird beliefs.. hee
hehe janf, ur dad hinted liao!! mine hvnt. tink the day he does i wil faintz! hahaha
caitlyn- wah, ur dad nt bad leh, can take care of ur bb. got 1 time i joked w my dad, said i gv birth lah, thn he help take care. his immediate reaction was 'nooo!! pls spare me, i had enough w the 3 of u liao, dun wan to go thru sleepless nites again!' hahhahah
caitlyn- wah, ur dad nt bad leh, can take care of ur bb. got 1 time i joked w my dad, said i gv birth lah, thn he help take care. his immediate reaction was 'nooo!! pls spare me, i had enough w the 3 of u liao, dun wan to go thru sleepless nites again!' hahhahah
ting - my hb also feels not ready for them to stay with us.. tell u another incident.. apparently in tt same conversation, his mum was like make sure there's a queen size bed in e spare room so tt they can stay over if they come n visit e bb and it's too late to go hm.. aiyo.. i tell u not tt i was not intending to hv one.. but i very chou kuan type.. tell me liao i all e more dun want.. n i feel they're not understanding at all.. at tis pt, my hb n i seriously cannot afford to spend tt money lor.. our bank accounts all down to zero.. sighz.. as for my dad.. he likes chn but he no exp with tking care of bb, but hopefully it'l be fine.. but i noe my hb will find my dad not "clean" enuff!! hahaha.. guy mah!
janf - actually we hoping tt they'll move in w his bro!! hahaha.. coz his bro closer to them.. n his bro did say tt 'next time stay with me lor'.. but tt one gotta depend on his wife i guess.. my hb always say 'not every wife like u' then i'll be like, but i also dun want to stay with them if possible mah! hahaha.. but he noes ultimately i'll be okies.. and he always say tt i actually brought his r/ship with them closer coz i make effort to communicate.. hahaha.. trying to curry favour me! hahahaha
caitlyn,
i dun think that you are selfish lah. who dun want to have their own house when they can aford?
janf,
your father take ction leow!!! hahahah... cannot wait anymore longer to have grandchild leow!!
all,
tell you gals something, over the weekend, i had a dream, haa... i dreamt that i am in labour and waiting to give birth!! then woke up and find myself still in my bed... told my hb and faimly members, and they were like ..."HUH, you too stress leow lah"!!!
i think i kinda still to worry leow!!!
i dun think that you are selfish lah. who dun want to have their own house when they can aford?
janf,
your father take ction leow!!! hahahah... cannot wait anymore longer to have grandchild leow!!
all,
tell you gals something, over the weekend, i had a dream, haa... i dreamt that i am in labour and waiting to give birth!! then woke up and find myself still in my bed... told my hb and faimly members, and they were like ..."HUH, you too stress leow lah"!!!
i think i kinda still to worry leow!!!
linda - i also have dreams of gg into labour.. in fact i was in labour.. and i even had one really detailed dream where isaiah was already born and sleeping btwn hb n i n how i carried him up and on n on.. haha
janf - haha.. i think ur hb really sneeze until kuku! hee., such a cute dream
janf - haha.. i think ur hb really sneeze until kuku! hee., such a cute dream
ting,Linda,
Ya lor, bot lots of HK things bk for my biz and for myself...keke =)...Did get abit wet on the last day cos it was their watersplashing festival lor, quite fun..keke...U see everyone carrying a BIG water gun..
Janf,
ya, lots of hk stuff...hows your trip to Japan? bot alot of burberrys bag?
Caitlyn,
if your bb really pop on 18th May, then same bd as my hb...keekee =)...
One mor emth hor...so excited for you leh...
Ya lor, bot lots of HK things bk for my biz and for myself...keke =)...Did get abit wet on the last day cos it was their watersplashing festival lor, quite fun..keke...U see everyone carrying a BIG water gun..
Janf,
ya, lots of hk stuff...hows your trip to Japan? bot alot of burberrys bag?
Caitlyn,
if your bb really pop on 18th May, then same bd as my hb...keekee =)...
One mor emth hor...so excited for you leh...
Dear all,
Good Afternoon, today reported to work only at 10am !!!! kee kee
Ytday reached abt spore abt 1am... home at 1.30am... bot lots of yummy goodies... luckily my brother applied off from his camp to come to airport to fetch me, if not cannot imagine how heavy i have to carry back to my mum's plc in SK.
Daphne,
Oh dear, pray tt the little girl will pull thru.. as she is only 18mths, a long path for her to walk ya..
And yes, the shop opp guan yin temple... is the 1st shop which is next to the rochor hawker centre. U wouldnt miss it wan
Oso, i had emailed u regards the package for taking preggie woman @ The Studioloft. Do check ur email.
Caitlyn,
Wa, next mth, u gotta to delivery ?? Tt is fast !!! My tummy finally got some show up liew and i am starting to wear my maternity liew... kee kee
Newbbi,
I had bot your HK stuff from snario outlet, do let me know how u gotta to meet me... as i am now staying in SK, very near to rumbia LRT !!! However, the bowl design i bot for u is the latest wan, the pic which u emailed me is out-dated wan... so i just bot lor. U okie hor ????
Janf
Janf, i didnt went to the aveon street market, however, our tour guide got lobang for the scallops thingg from hokkiado, so i just bot lor... but i bot lots of the "WHITE LOVER CHOCOLATE from Narita Airport... kee kee....
And i just spend all my 25,000 JYEN = SGD 325 in Japan, 1 bah jia in Japan...
Good Afternoon, today reported to work only at 10am !!!! kee kee
Ytday reached abt spore abt 1am... home at 1.30am... bot lots of yummy goodies... luckily my brother applied off from his camp to come to airport to fetch me, if not cannot imagine how heavy i have to carry back to my mum's plc in SK.
Daphne,
Oh dear, pray tt the little girl will pull thru.. as she is only 18mths, a long path for her to walk ya..
And yes, the shop opp guan yin temple... is the 1st shop which is next to the rochor hawker centre. U wouldnt miss it wan
Oso, i had emailed u regards the package for taking preggie woman @ The Studioloft. Do check ur email.
Caitlyn,
Wa, next mth, u gotta to delivery ?? Tt is fast !!! My tummy finally got some show up liew and i am starting to wear my maternity liew... kee kee
Newbbi,
I had bot your HK stuff from snario outlet, do let me know how u gotta to meet me... as i am now staying in SK, very near to rumbia LRT !!! However, the bowl design i bot for u is the latest wan, the pic which u emailed me is out-dated wan... so i just bot lor. U okie hor ????
Janf
Janf, i didnt went to the aveon street market, however, our tour guide got lobang for the scallops thingg from hokkiado, so i just bot lor... but i bot lots of the "WHITE LOVER CHOCOLATE from Narita Airport... kee kee....
And i just spend all my 25,000 JYEN = SGD 325 in Japan, 1 bah jia in Japan...
Daphne,
Is the famous hokkiado Bai She Lian Ren Chocolate ...... only available in either hokkiado or 2-hard-to find narita airport outlets
http://www.shiroikoibito.ishiya.co.jp/english/index.html
U got craving for sweet stuff ??? kee kee
Is the famous hokkiado Bai She Lian Ren Chocolate ...... only available in either hokkiado or 2-hard-to find narita airport outlets
http://www.shiroikoibito.ishiya.co.jp/english/index.html
U got craving for sweet stuff ??? kee kee
Daphne,
doing online lor..will be at a flea market next mth lor... =)..Will let u all know the place and time so that u all might wan to dropby =)...hee
U take care ya...
Jenn,
me okie one lor...tks for getting it for me..keke...so how much I own u leh? like that huh? ...hmm...Rubia bery near to Linda's hse...
Wkends will u be at your mum's hse? maybe I popby on wkends?
Wo u like the suishi there?
doing online lor..will be at a flea market next mth lor... =)..Will let u all know the place and time so that u all might wan to dropby =)...hee
U take care ya...
Jenn,
me okie one lor...tks for getting it for me..keke...so how much I own u leh? like that huh? ...hmm...Rubia bery near to Linda's hse...
Wkends will u be at your mum's hse? maybe I popby on wkends?
Wo u like the suishi there?
daphne - i got e cassidy pink.. most of us who got it agree design is nice but material may not be tt lasting esp if u intend to put heavy stuff.. but i guess for e price we're paying, it's still worth it.. =)
jenn - wah.. everyone say e biscuit very nice.. i want to eat can??? hee
jenn - wah.. everyone say e biscuit very nice.. i want to eat can??? hee
Newbbi,
If u want to meet me during weekday oso can, cos me will stay @ my mum's plc until may 6 when my hb come back from reservist. One bowl cost ¥630 = SGD 8.00, so u owe me $16.00 lah... kee kee.
I cant eat any raw suishi, so i gave all raw suishi to my colleague, they said very NICE....
Janf,
Yah, i saw sakura @ Osaka only, Tokyo all drop liew. As for the scallops, i bot ¥1500 for the big wan. So u didnt buy the bai she lian ren biscuit in narita airport ?? We search high and low for tt biscuits, i bot 3 boxes home... kee kee
Caitlyn,
Sure, no problem, so when do u want to meet ? I can pass u 1 or 2 pkt.....
If u want to meet me during weekday oso can, cos me will stay @ my mum's plc until may 6 when my hb come back from reservist. One bowl cost ¥630 = SGD 8.00, so u owe me $16.00 lah... kee kee.
I cant eat any raw suishi, so i gave all raw suishi to my colleague, they said very NICE....
Janf,
Yah, i saw sakura @ Osaka only, Tokyo all drop liew. As for the scallops, i bot ¥1500 for the big wan. So u didnt buy the bai she lian ren biscuit in narita airport ?? We search high and low for tt biscuits, i bot 3 boxes home... kee kee
Caitlyn,
Sure, no problem, so when do u want to meet ? I can pass u 1 or 2 pkt.....