(2005) Brides of year 2005


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Janf~

Hehe.. You wanna borrow Cayden ar? Wait half day u return back to me liao. He already start to recognise face and place liao. If unfamiliar, he will kick a fuss.

Ladies~

Complaining of backaches got got for massage anot? I also did massage when i preggie. Lie on your side...
 
mornin all... monday again! my busy period gonna start liao. sianz ah!

ytd went to attend my cousin's bb boy 1st mth celebration. can see my aunt (bb's grandmother) sooo proud of him, kept kissin n huggin n talkin to the bb. keke.. my cousin was sayin the confinemt period is reali terrible! alot of cannots. n she reali din wash her hair for 1 mth!
 
yupperz.. all must tok more here.. thread geting quieter liao.. cannot allow it to die off.. hee..

ting - wah.. ur cousin very power!! one whole month??? some more weather so freaking hot these days.. eeekkzz.. hee..
 
ting,
1 mth dun wash hair!!!!
my aunty, MIL and coll all tell me that also leh. they also tell me if want to bath can only bath once a week! i was like "HUH", "WHAT"!!!!!
but all of them know i cleanliness freak, so they tell me, hair can wash, but once a week. wanna bath can also, but not everyday. but must bath with herbal. hahahaahah....
 
caitlyn- yalor, she said put powder leh! sm more during the 1st 10 days, she slept w/o fan n aircon so basically was sleepin in sweat! n kept eatin all the confinemt food until scared. tats y she said reali terrible period n sooo happy tat over liao! scary leh...
 
linda- she's reali power lor, adhered to all the rules! but i got hear if can, beta dun wash hair if nt nxt time old le, wil kana aches here n there. tat was wat hapen to my fren's mum. nw only in her 40's but like old lady lidat..
but hor i tink i cannot tahan also leh. 1 day dun wash hair, i alrdy cannot take it!
 
ting, wah your aunt so strict on her confinement?
i told my mum liao, i need to bath daily if not, how to breastfeed? so dirty leh..... but i will buy lots of the herbs to use lor.... and i will wash hair using the herbs too..... my mum knows that i cannot don't wash hair for a day cos my hair is oily kind and esp how preg, worse.
but i may just bath in the evening and use the towel to clean in the morning.... but it all depends lor..... how much i can tahan....
 
ting, my mum allows me to wash hair but i must blow dry immediately lor..... for me, if weather is not too hot, i can tahan to wash every 2 days lah but have to tie up all my hair...
 
daphne- she got her mum who is frm msia to come help her cook n my aunt helps to look after the bb also. tink her mum frm msia n older generation, hence more strict on confinemt stuff.
 
ting,
alot of ppl also tell me that, better tahan otherwise when old all the aches will comes.
but i wash my hair twice a day and if you tell me once a day, i still can take it. 1 mth dun wash i can die leh.
i also dun care, tell all of them that i must at least have a quick bath once a day. have to keep myself clean so that i can feed the bb what!!!! hahaaa... intend to buy lots of herbal to bath leow.
 
linda, all these confinement rules came because of winter period in China. Cold and if wash hair and bath, can easily catch a cold lor..... that's what my granny and my mum told me and they say that it would not apply to our weather here liao... and aug is the hottest period so if don't bath to cool down the temp, we can get sick too...
 
i believe it would be the same in western countries during winter cos u know, for them, they really don't bathe so often during winter cos soooooo cold..... that's what most of my german colleagues told me..... and i was *eeks*....
 
caitlyn, u know the lady whom you got the diaper bag from? her daughter had an operation last week and now the life is hanging by the thread..... each time i see her updates, i would feel so sad for the girl... cos the lady is also my sil's good friend and her daughter is only 18 mths old now..... imagine a toddler having gone through 2 ops already and she might just die anytime.... sigh.... so sad to see this happening...
 
daphne,
ya loh, so hot how to tahan not to bath, not to wash hair.... very stinko one leh.

the other time i attended a talk organised by Yu Ren Seng, the yi shi also said that we must bath everyday, but with boiled water and herbs. my hb also attended so i told him, if my mil were to scold me for bathing everyday, ask him to explain to her. hahahaha....
 
lesson just ended.. very very exhausted man.. so hot in the classrooms..

i dun think i'll be following e confinement rules of not bathing and all.. i think this climate dun bathe, e bb will faint when s/he is near us lor! then how to bf? hahahha..

daphne - i do read her posts once in awhile.. dunno how to reply.. tt day i actually teared.. can just imagine e pain.. n she still actually bother to do e spree until swee swee.. felt so guilty lor
 
caitlyn, ya lor when i read her posts and the updates by my sil - carole, i can feel the tears in my eyes lor.... and i just try to imagine myself in her shoes...... she is really strong.... imagine 18 mths old girl being hooked up on machine and apparently the latest updates is bad again..... BP went down again and doctors are not optimistic.
 
I didn't follow the rule of not bathing and washing of hair. In the middle of the night when everyone sleep already, i secretly bathe and then wash my hair. Den blow dry my hair in the kitchen.

Really cannot tahan getting sweaty. Its makes you more irritable and uncomfortable!
 
caitlyn, ya she is my sil. ya lor, i keep refreshing to see what's the latest updates..... when i read on her case on sat, i literally cannot sleep the whole night and kept thinking about the poor girl...... and first thing i did on sun is to see if she survived or not.... imagine major organs failure.....
 
caitlyn, that's why sometimes i think it's just so ironic.... here is one little girl struggling to stay alive and then there are pp who just want to end their lives.....
 
daphne - guess sometimes we are just unable to see beyond ourselves until sth like this happens.. maybe we sld paste e thread here.. and get e other gals to pray for her too? wat do u think?
 
ya i think good idea...... but which thread? hehe... the one i'm reading is the oct 05 thread but i think the bag thread also got updates? maybe paste the bag thread...
 
daphne,
after seeing and reading what you post abt the little gal... felt so sad... very painful for her too... hope she can survive!!

xiao_mei,
i think i will not follows all those rules also loh... i really cant image not to bath and wash hair leh...
 
sigh, just a little update on the girl..... from the oct thread, the BP is now 0. meaning, she may just go anytime now...... this is so sad...... sigh.....
 
linda - think i'll be heading hm soon.. will jsut rush up to finish my work tmr.. now really cannot focus..

daphne - oh dear.. shootz..
 
Daphne/Caitlyn,
that day i went to si ma lu to look for the shop that sell bb thing.cant find it leh..where is it near? i went opp of guan yin temple.there's selling alot of herbs/tonic..
can advise me near where?
 
daphne,
oh no... hope she can pull thru....

caitlyn,
at least you gg back leow.
me still waiting for time.

ting,
haiz.... sian...
dun really like to go to MIL house loh!
everytime after dinner, just sit there watch TV, wait for time to go back only. go back early like 9.30pm, MIL also said we go once a week and also leave so early! faintz....
 
linda- same! best is hor we hv to sit tog at the dinner table to eat thn my hb wil talk to them while i wil jus sit there, eat n smile! haha.. usu i dun talk much one. thn after dinner read papers or watch tv. we usu wil leave at 845 cos i wana watch the 9pm show! hehe..
 
ting,
we dun sit together to eat... heng ah....
they dun practise to eat together on a table.

at least you can leave early, my MIL expect us to leave ard 10pm. that's y, when we leave ard 9.30pm, she will comment loh.
 
linda- initially i was reali nt used to tat cos in my family, we eat at diff times in front of the tv! but for hb's family, got to wait for everyone thn can eat n tv must be off! til nw, i stil adjustin. felt v weird esp when they started talkin thn i like left alone there =D
 


Morning ladies!

i am back liao..

Daphne,
Oh dear...I hope the little ger survived through this lor...btw,who is this little ger?

All,
How are all of you?
 
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