(2004) Brides of year 2004

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wow, so much chit chat here
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doremon and jg im trying to invite you all in but don't know how... cos it very difficult to use... give me some time huh...

by the way what doremon email
 
Thanks Bao Bao,

June Outing
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4th (Fri) - HP
10th (thur) - Brambles; JG
11th (fri) - joelle, HP, baobao, brambles, jeslyn,JG

Are all of u bring FH ?

how are we going to recognise one another ?
hee hee , very exciting.. like match making like that..
 
Hmm, gals..
u all call ur in laws in different way from ur parents rite?

Hi kk,
Wah, got 2 sets of rings ah?
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U all say until Fairy Inc so good, i also tempted to go c c.. but i already bought my ring leh..
 
ok. are we all going for buffet ?
aint we suppose to control our diet as we are all brides-to be ?

are u ladies using ICQ or yahoo mesenger ?
 
Chubbyrain:
Mebbe becoz the designs at Fairy Inc are quite unique now ..
That's why it can easily captivated ppl ..

KK:
Only have one wedding band ..
But got a proposal ring as well ..

Fanyong:
Are u from NUS's engineering fac?
 
hi hi gals...

fanyong, can i see your pics please?
[email protected] (try to copy the link coz the first zero is a number and second o is an alphabet) thanks gal...

I would love two sets of rings too...hor, chubbyrain...? ya... i think i will call my mil 'mother' whereas i call my mum mamee... haha
what about u? hehe

ivory gal... thanks for updating the list... :p I havent gave u my PS date coz scared might change, better confirm then let u know... hehe

i think Eve of Fairy Inc very nice as well... sandra not bad too.


anyway gals... shall update u on the 38 session later... :p
 
Yes coco,
2 sets of rings will b nice.. but my bf would probably tink i m crazy.. :P
hmm, ya, tts wat i m tinkin leh, cos i always call my mum mamee.. n dad papa.. so i should call my in laws mother n father then..
though it dun sound tt close..
 
Coco, Chubbyrain, Unicorn,

Yah, me and hubby very vain one.
One normal set with no diamonds, for daily wear so no point having diamonds.
Another set with diamonds to wear for occassions.

I call mine, mammy, daddy. and his mother, father.
 
lynn
oh dear, blue black ah. better start rubbing it now. use hard boiled egg if u can. but don't rub too hard or the skin will come off.

chubbyrain
nah, i'm not smarter than u, that's why i'm ur kar kia mah
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fanyong
thanks, recevied ur email. agree with the rest of the gals, u look gorgeous
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love ur gown too, very nice
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nope, me still calling my in laws aunty & uncle, my hubby too. we'll only change after the customary.

germ
my PS was fun, just sent u an email
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ur brother really loves australia ah, went back there for his PS
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will u do the same next year? actually, it's alright to start early, especially if u've got a huge guest list and want something different. maybe i'll help u with urs after my AD?
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janet
no worries, have fun tonight
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ivory
thanks for updating the table again
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kk/ c0co/ chubbyrain
me too, i wouldn't mind 2 sets of rings but my hubby won't hear of it, man!
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chubbyrain
agree with u, i'll stick with Mummy & Daddy for my parents and will most likely call my in laws "mother" & "father", either that or "ma" and ""pa" for short hee hee
 
me follow my hubby call my PILs pa n ma... but he din follow me the way i call my parents.. cos i call them mummy n papa.. hahahha... he prefer to call them father n mother
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Ladies, have a touching story to share:

From the very Begining, gal's family objected strongly on her dating this guy, saying that it has got to do with family background, & that the gal will have to suffer for the rest of her life if she were to be with him. Due to family's pressure, the couple quarreled very often. Though the gal love the guy deeply, she always asked him: "How deep is your love for me?"

As the guy is not good with his words, this often caused the gal to be very upset. With that & the family's pressure, the gal often vented her anger on him.

As for him, he only endured it in silence.

After a couple of years, the guy finally graduated & decided to further his studies overseas. Before leaving, he proposed to the gal: "I'm not very good with words. But all I know is that I love you. If you allow me, I will take care of you for the rest of my life. As for your family, I'll try my best to talk them round. Will you marry me?" The gal agreed, & with the guy's determination, the family finally gave in & agreed to let them get married. So before he left, they got engaged.

The gal went out to the working society, whereas the guy was overseas, continuing his studies. They sent their love through emails & phone calls.Though it's hard, but both never thought of giving up. One day, while the gal was on her way to work, she was knocked down by a car that lost control. When she woke up, she saw her parents beside her
bed.She realised that she was badly injured. Seeing her mum crying, she wanted to comfort her. But she realized that all that could come out of her mouth was just a sigh. She has lost her voice....

The doctors said that the impact on her brain has caused her to lose her voice. Listening to her parents' comfort, but with nothing coming out from her, she broke down. During the stay in hospital, besides crying, it's just
her silent cry that accompanied her.

Upon reaching h ome, everything seems to be the same. Except for the ringing tone of the phone. Which pierced her heart everytime it rang. She does not wish to let the guy know & not wanting to be a burden to him, she wrote a letter to him saying that she does not wish to wait any longer. With that,she sent the engagement ring back to him.

In return, the guy sent millions & millions of replies, countless phonecalls, all the gal could do was to cry silently.

The parents decided to move away, hoping that she could eventually forget everything & be happy. With a new environment, the gal learned sign language & started a new life. Telling herself everyday that she must forget the guy.

One day, her friend came & told her that her boyfriend is back. She asked her friend not to let him know what happened to her. Since then, there wasn't any news of him.

A year has passed & her friend came with an envelope containing an invitation for the guy's wedding. The gal was shattered. When she opened the card, she saw her name in it instead. When she was about to ask her friend what's going on, she saw the guy standing in front of her.

He used sign language telling her "I've spent a year's time to learn sign language. Just to let you know that I've not forgotten our promise, let me have the chance to be your voice. I Love You." With that, he slipped the engagement ring back into her finger. The gal finally smiled.

*Treat every relationship as if it's the last one, then you'll know how to give...Treat every moment as is if it's the last day, then you'll know how to treasure*
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Hi Unicorn,

Yap ... I am from NUS engin.... Y leh?

Hee.... I very shy to call them mum and dad... everytime I tried, my tongue very disobedient... tongue-tied ....How??? My FH says i no good...
 
Hi Skylar,

Is your flat a premium one ?? Is the flooring already done?? It's always so nice to see bedroom with wood flooring... more cozy. My HB doesn't want it coz says difficult to maintain ....
 
This story also very nice, I prefer this story.. think it was being mention recently on radio...

Tree
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The reason people call me "Tree" is because I'm good at painting trees.
Overtime I started to use a tree on the right hand corner as a trademark for
all my watercolors painting. I had dated 5 gals when I was in Pre-U. There's
one gal who I love a lot but never dare to go after. She doesn't have a
pretty face, doesn't have a good figure, and doesn't have outstanding charm.
She is just a very ordinary gal.

I like her. I really like her. I like her innocent, like her frankness. I
like her cuteness, I like her intelligence and her fragility. Reason for not
going after her is because I felt somebody so ordinary like her is not a
good match for me. I'm also afraid that after we are together all the good
feelings will vanish. I'm also afraid other's gossips will hurt her. I felt
that if she's my gal, she will be mine ultimately & I don't have to give up
everything just for her. The last reason, made her accompanying me for 3
years. She watched me chase after gals, and I have made her heart cries for
3 years.

She wants to be a good actress and I'm a very demanding director. When I
kissed my 2nd girlfriend, she bumped into us. She was embarrassed but smiled
& say, "Go on!" before running off. The next day, her eyes were swollen like
a walnut. I purposely didn't want to think about what causes her to cry but
laugh at her the whole day. When everybody went back home, she was alone
crying in the classroom. She didn't know that I returned from soccer
training to get something. I watched her cry for an hour or so.

My 4th girlfriend didn't like her. There was once when both of them
quarreled. I know that based on her character she's not the type that will
start off the quarrel. But I still sided with my girlfriend. I shouted at
her and her eyes were filled with shocking sad tears. I didn't care about her
feelings and walked off with my girlfriend. The next day, she still laugh &
joke with me like nothing has ever happened. I know that she's very hurt but
she didn't know that my heartache is as bad as hers. I was hurt too.

When I broke up with my 5th girlfriend, I asked her out. After going out for
a day, I told her that I have something to tell her. She told me that
coincidentally, she has something to tell me too. I told her about my break
up and she told me about her getting together. I know who's the guy. He has
been going after her for quite a while. A very cute guy, full of energy, is
lively and interesting. His pursuit for her has been the talk of the school.

I can't show her my heartache but could only smile & congratulate her. When
I reach home, the heartache is so strong that I can't stand it. It's like a
heavy weighted stone on my chest. I couldn't breath. Wanted to shout but
can't. Tears rolled down & I broke down & cry. How many times have I seen
her cry for the man that doesn't acknowledge her presence too?

During graduation, I read a sms in my hp. It was send 10 days ago when I
broke down and cry. I haven't read it since then. It says, "Leaf departure
is because of Wind pursuit. Or because Tree didn't ask her to stay"


Leaf
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During Pre-U days, I like to collect leaves. Why? Because I felt that for a
leaf to leave the tree she has been relying on for so long it takes a lot of
courage. During the 3 years of Pre-U I was on very close terms with a guy.
Not BGR kind but as buddy kind. But when he had his 1st girlfriend, I learnt
a feeling I never should have learnt - Jealousy. The sourness in the heart
can't be described by using a lemon. It's like 100 rotten sour lemon.
Sourness to the extreme limit. They were only together for 2 months. When
they broke up, I hide my strong sense of happiness. But after a month, he
got together with another gal.

I like him & I know he like me. But why won't he pursue me? Since he loves
me why he doesn't want to make the first move? Whenever he had a new
girlfriend, my heart would hurt. Time after time, my heart was hurt. I begin
to suspect that this is a one sided love. If he doesnt like me, why does he
treat me so well? It's beyond what you will normally do for a friend. Liking
a person is very heart wrenching. I can know his likes, his habits. But his
feelings towards me I can never figure out. You can't expect me a gal to ask
him right?

Despite that, I still want to be by his side. Care for him, accompany him,
and love him. Hoping that one fine day, he will come & love me. It's like
waiting for his phone call every night, wanting him to send me sms. I know
that no matter how busy he is, he will make time for me. Because of this, I
waited for him. The 3 years were the hardest to go through & I really want
to give up. Sometimes, I wonder should I continue waiting. The pain and
hurt, the dilemma accompanied me for 3 years.

Till the end of my 3rd year, a 2nd year junior begins to go after me.
Everyday he pursuit me relentlessly. From outright rejection to a point in
time when I felt that I'm willing to let him have a small footing in my
heart. He's like a warm & gentle wind, trying to blow a leaf away from the
tree. In the end, I realized that I didn't want to give this wind a small
footing in my heart. I know this wind will bring this badly battered leave
far away & better land. Finally I left tree, but the tree only smile &
didn't ask me to stay.

Leaf departure is because of Wind pursuit. Or because Tree didn't ask her to
stay


Wind
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Because I like a gal called leaf. Because she's so dependent on tree so I
have to be a gust wind. A wind that will blow her away. When I first met
her, it was 1 month after I transfer to the new school. I saw a petite
person looking at my seniors & me playing soccer. During ECA time, she will
always be sitting there. Be it alone or with her friends looking at him.
When he talks with gals there's jealousy in her eyes. When he looked at her,
there's a smile in her eyes. Looking at her became my habit. Just like she
likes to look at him.

One day, she didn't appear. I felt something amissed. I can't explain the
feeling except it's a kind of uneasiness. The senior was also not there as
well. I went to their classroom, hid outside and saw my senior scolding her.
Tears were in her eyes while he left. The next day, I saw her at her usual
place, looking at him. I walked over and smiled to her. Took out a note &
gave to her. She was surprised. She looked at me, smiled & accepts the note.
The next day, she appeared & passes me a note and left.

Leaf's heart is too heavy and wind couldn't blow her away It's not that
leaf heart is too heavy. It because leaf never want to leave tree 

I replied her note with this statement and slowly she started to talk to me
& accept my presents & phone calls. I know that the person she loves is not
me. But I have this perseverance that one day I will make her like me.
Within 4 months, I have declared my love for her no less than 20 times.
Every time, she will divert away from the topic. But I never give up. If I
decide I want her to be mine, I will definitely use all means to win her
over. I can't remember how many times I have declared my love to her.
Although I know she will try to divert but I still bear a small ray of hope.
Hoping that she will agree to me my girlfriend. I didn't hear any reply from
her over the phone. I asked, "What are you doing? How come you didn't want
to reply?" She said, "I'm nodding my head". "Ah?" I couldn't believe my
ears. "I'm nodding my head" She replied loudly. I hang up the phone, quickly
changed and took a taxi and rush to her place & press her doorbell. During
the moment when she opens the door, I hugged her tightly.

Leaf departure is because of Wind pursuit. Or because Tree didn't ask her to
stay
 
Yo ladies ....

Anyone free to play mahjong this sunday .... finger itchy ar ....
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Me and one more sgBrides looking for kakis ... even posted at some MJ thread .... see how itchy we are
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HP ...

Where did you get this series of gif from? Me find them v cute ....
 
indeed it's gintonic... pretty hor... then she always says need to tone up... so slender liao... me is the one who need to tone up or maybe slim down... hahaha
 
skylar, according to gintonic's instructions, i know which direction to walk lah... but exactly where must search around....

i will see if there's time for me to go next week... coz PS on 24th May... but time a bit tight... gowns not all ready oso... then still must go for facial, massage, medicure, pedicure, dental, ... so many appt next week...
 



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