Cherly,
Check with my hubby, actually he got no preference, boy or girl is the same since it's the first one. Of course, the second one would prefer to be the opposite sex. He is happy anyway on becoming a father soon. How happy he is I don't know, he seldom express his feeling outwardly...
As for PIL, I think they are as well. They have made the effort to go and pick the shell from the bean sprouts, sun them real dry, to make the baby pillows. It was tiring to having to pick out the shell, I had a go last week and was hard work...
Hmm... in that case, maybe I will try Bintan then as an alternative...
Angelia,
Thanks. I believe you that your PIL and hubby will be happy if your first child is a boy.
I really envy you, been to lots of honeymoon...
I have some sort of 'house-warming' a week before going for honeymoon last year. Just invite friends and colleagues over for a gathering, got caterer to prepare the food. This is more for those helpers who helped us on our wedding day and also muslim colleagues.
Agreed with Jen, so when's the next outing. Have not been able to join in for the past outings you have.