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Che, Divorce is never easy to grasp esp if one is sentimental. May I ask, in your case, who is the "guilty party"? It might help if your ex hb is the guilty one and you used it as a form of telling yourself that he is not worth to keep. You program your mind. It is very noraml to feel sad...

Milo, I suppose the first post is target at TS. It is obvious with words like extreme. My situation is different. I weight the pros and cons of going out with the gals. Meaning, if I insist in going out, is it worth the hassle after the outing. I dont know whether its tantamount to conforming...

powder, You hit the nail, I believe human mind can be programme. If we continued giving in, one will take for granted. The only problem with me is I dislike ma fun, having to explain the situation and sometimes engaged in emotional war. Hence, most time I weigh the pros and cons. It is...

Doubtguy, You enjoy this arrangement with your spouse? Does your job requires entertainment, frquent travel etc. How do you overcome this?

I cant unwind now, as things told to her is before and during our exclusive relationship. It is also difficult to change my open style in a relationship. If I try to change now, she will noticed the difference. My gf is not low esteem, she had many relationship in the past. She is also not...

I appreciate your kind comments. Doubtguy, The answer to all the things u list is NO. I just find that she is unreasonable, we try to rationalise but is getting nowhere. To avoid ma fun (trouble), I just stop seeing them. Deep in my heart, I just dont feel right. BTW, I am divorced. Her...

Doubtguy, Interesting, I wonder are you okay with this arrangement. I have a situation not somewhat similar but also like to hear from forummers. I am attached with my current gf after going thr seperation and divorce recently. During my legal seperation, I get to know some gals and hv...

I guess you are one lucky dude that has a reasonable wife. Take the children aside, if your wife ask for 80% of the matrimonial asset? will you still give in? I wonder.....

You dont need to make false declaration to the court, unreasonable behaviour is very wide, even simple things like not talking to each other and having your own life can be classified as unreasonable behaviour to the other party in a marriage. Anyway, in the exchange of (statement of...

This is not hearsay, divorce 101 is the normal criteria that allows divorce to take place. Some kiasu lawyer might used this text book answer. However, some experienced matrimonial lawyer is able to advise that if 2 parties is agreeable to the divorce, the quickest way is to use "unreasonable...

Hi Angel, It is possible, on ground on unreasonable behaviour. This is broad. Important thing is both plaintiff and defendant do not want to contest the divorce, obviously, someone hv to be the fall guy. since divorce is what they want, then the reason for divorce is immaterial. Hope that helps.

I might not have the time to visit this forum regularly but somehow do selective reading on subject that interest me. I do believe there is some truth that Powerful tone is harsh and at times offensive. Perhaps for regulars that have been reading all his post could be more forgiving. Anyway...

Hi there, appreciate all your feedback and advice. It was a very difficult decision to make as it going to affect me for the rest of my life whichever path I take. To add more, when I found out her adultry, she did not turn back but instead move out and stay with that man. I would have...

I would like to seek some advice, I am at a crossroad where my decision will probably impact me for the rest of my life. Here you go......Was separted due to wife adultary sometime last year after married for a long time with 2 kids. After seperation, lead my own life and along the way met a...