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Thank you sunboi80, Yes I agreed with you, its sad to know that one who said take care of me, love me.. can change so fast. Its faster than turning a page of a book. And I also must agree with you that once he said it means nothing can turn back his decision. For what we had and what i have...

If you have doubt about marriage, maybe you are not ready into one, but if you decide to have I would suggest both to go thru the course on preparing yourself into a marriage life. No one know what marriage life is all about, when we are single all the way, but marriage require both hard work to...

I have the same situation as yours. My initial plan was not having a big banquet, but a little close friends/relatives and family dinner after solemnisation. However, he wanted a normal wedding banquet which require alot of preparation and money. At the start, he said he will help up with the...

Hi, I know its painful to let go when we get use to rely on someone and loving someone too much. I have the similar situation like yours, telling him that all he need is to give me support, love and care. It will at the beginning, but will not at the end. Eventually when we keep asking, it...

ayaya, No, its not, in fact.. many had said, for his appearance, no one will fall in love with him.. lol.. His mum said and swear to me he did not. And before his sudden change, he had no time for another at all. He works 7days week and his action is work and home, he is those kind of man who...

Hi Korilakkuma, Replied on ur email already. To say this to let everyone knows... If he wants the annulment, he shd engage the lawyer and pay for it. Its painful to see the "untruthful statement" he draft. But it doesnt matter, he already hurt the worst of us.. So whatever he can get us out...

Yes... I agree with it. And I am growing stronger everyday. He is not worth taking me down. If he wants to live a life with "happy married, not happy divorce" than be it. I am out of it. I also believe in karma and I know it will happen one day.

HI Italianosportivo, Yes u can see that one is refusing to settle the issue like a man and handle the situation as for us. I have no choice but to face the reality to know that this man I married to was born without balls. His best solution is to make himself happy and dont bother about...

Korilakkuma, your husband sounds like mine, its an excuses not a reason he is giving. I did have the same issue as u, my ex hubby always listen to his family, and when they treated me badly and I told him, he said I am the one who is hving problem, he dont believe his family would do that...

Hi worriedsick, If both parties cherish each other and still wanting to stay together, of cos, find a way to work things out. For my case. He told me I am wasting his time whether I want to talk things out. His head is all about his work, his family and I am always the problem maker... And...

sharingNcaring... I agree with u totally. I do write too... write down what makes him do this and also write down why should I just let it go. After completing 5 points of good things about letting it go, I actually feel that the marriage is a mistake at the beginning. honestly, I was very...

If both still love each other and communicate work, its good for heart to heart talk, see a counsellor... sometime its good to get a total stranger to understand how he/she thinks about us... you may be surprise how he/she sees us. Dont ever spilt for the seek of "face" or anger... not worth it...

Miloice, I agreed totally with what u said, thats why I told him we need to talk heart to heart and figure out what happen. Everytime he use meant words on me, I will definately not be happy, however, rather than screaming and shouting, I always keep myself quiet and told him I am angry and...

Hi sharingNcaring10, I also understand the part whereby communication is important. However, he didnt want to communicate. I try my best to save the marriage. I talk to him personally asking the problem between us, asking him to tell me the issue that bothers him. But what he told me was those...

Hi... This is the first time I have to post this on a "wedding forum". It suppose to be a forum that people share on their happiness on preparation on the new journey in life. But I realise not all. The "matter to heart" is most of us belong. My ex and I ROM in March 28. It was a short...

Hi breadpitz. I am not sure how complicated it is. But I feel that my case are not. We married for 4mths only and he decide to annulment the marriage due to an unknown future. He felt that we wont be happy in future and bring back all the past of unhappiness we had. he feel stress and drain by...

Hi all, seeing the story makes me very sad as well. My ex husband discuss to end our marriage after 4mths of ROM, reason was due to an unknown future he doesnt have fate to it. He bringing in all the past we have disagreement before as an excuse. And saying its stress and it draining him on the...

Thanks breadpitz, I got a call from his lawyer, I was told he dont need to sign the paper at all and only me who needed to sign, is it true? I am not very sure about the procedures... He wants me to admit that I refuse to consummate with him after marriage I agree althg he is the one who is...

Hi, Can I know that for annulment is it true that only the defendent need to sign? My ex is a asshole, who tells me happy married and not happy divorce, he goes on with the annulment, but the lawyer call me and say he dont need to sign, but only me.. is it right?

Hi all, I was waiting for my ex to do the annulment, he was a childish idiot, when he is happy, do every possible way to get me into signing the Paper and thg marriage was a happy ever after fairytales. And now he is not happy, he ask for annulment to go for separate way. I dont see the need...