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Thanks!!! I hope you find your happiness in your life soon too:)

Hi chocogal Thanks for the long reply. I think u seem to understand the situation completely, especially about the part abt being reasonable. An unreasonable person trying to quarrel his way through to seem like he is reasonable, there is a term for it. And its called gaslighting. After some...

Right now we have cancelled the bto.... I felt i couldnt have a happy relationship long term with him.... :( He really has alot of personality issues.. So i decided to end it after 3 years and all those planning we have for the future.... How do i move on from this... :(

He has always said he will change throughout the years, occasionally shouting at me (learnt from his father) when i am not in the wrong. But i shout back (as im not a docile woman) and my character is quite strong i should say. I made us go to the counselling as i realise there is something...

How to resolve issues when the issue is that he is emotionally abusing me. Which he learnt from his parents from young. I love him but how can i take it for the long term. Its not easy to change a person's personality as a whole. He said he is willing to take counselling to solve the issue...

I am not sure why you should think that its a small issue for someone to criticize your family. He actually did it before and i forgave him. But this time he seem to not understand my point of view and insist of saying that my sister deserved the hospital bills of baby incubation . Which is...

Recently, my grandfather passed away and sister had a premature baby birth. During this period, me and SO had a big fight. 1) I had to visit the funeral everyday (5 days) to pay my respects to my grandfather but SO keeps questioning me to WHY i visit him so many days 2) I had to stayover one...