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    Advice on verbally abusive boyfriend and impending BTO completion (2 years left or so)

    Thanks!!! I hope you find your happiness in your life soon too:)
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    Advice on verbally abusive boyfriend and impending BTO completion (2 years left or so)

    Hi chocogal Thanks for the long reply. I think u seem to understand the situation completely, especially about the part abt being reasonable. An unreasonable person trying to quarrel his way through to seem like he is reasonable, there is a term for it. And its called gaslighting. After some...
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    Advice on verbally abusive boyfriend and impending BTO completion (2 years left or so)

    Right now we have cancelled the bto.... I felt i couldnt have a happy relationship long term with him.... :( He really has alot of personality issues.. So i decided to end it after 3 years and all those planning we have for the future.... How do i move on from this... :(
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    Advice on verbally abusive boyfriend and impending BTO completion (2 years left or so)

    He has always said he will change throughout the years, occasionally shouting at me (learnt from his father) when i am not in the wrong. But i shout back (as im not a docile woman) and my character is quite strong i should say. I made us go to the counselling as i realise there is something...
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    Advice on verbally abusive boyfriend and impending BTO completion (2 years left or so)

    How to resolve issues when the issue is that he is emotionally abusing me. Which he learnt from his parents from young. I love him but how can i take it for the long term. Its not easy to change a person's personality as a whole. He said he is willing to take counselling to solve the issue...
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    Advice on verbally abusive boyfriend and impending BTO completion (2 years left or so)

    I am not sure why you should think that its a small issue for someone to criticize your family. He actually did it before and i forgave him. But this time he seem to not understand my point of view and insist of saying that my sister deserved the hospital bills of baby incubation . Which is...
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    Advice on verbally abusive boyfriend and impending BTO completion (2 years left or so)

    Recently, my grandfather passed away and sister had a premature baby birth. During this period, me and SO had a big fight. 1) I had to visit the funeral everyday (5 days) to pay my respects to my grandfather but SO keeps questioning me to WHY i visit him so many days 2) I had to stayover one...

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