Intimacy

[belinda87]

Hi. Nothing to hide, i admit i do have slight high sex drive. But, sadly, HTB more to the lower slight. Anyone can teach me what to do? :/ realli feeling frustrated.

 

[adamantine]

tried talking? I am in your position, but roles reversed.

Talking and being able to compromise helps.

 

[veryhappyfeet]

invest in a toy my dear. but don't use it in his presence (guys are egoistic creatures)

 

[adamantine]

invest in a toy my dear. but don't use it in his presence (guys are egoistic creatures)

wow what a sweeping statement. She has a toy and I love to see her use it, especially when she enjoys it.

 

[belinda87]

Big sighs. Everytime i try to initiate it, he will just "aiya, u know i dun like." Zz. Win liao.

 

[dreylan]

Big sighs. Everytime i try to initiate it, he will just "aiya, u know i dun like." Zz. Win liao.

Wah seriously. Hmmm, maybe u appear disinterested also?

 

[Ling.Memento]

that's nice. I'm on the other side of fence...super low drive almost none

 

[lovelybaby]

hi im having the same situation but due to our LDR whenever im bk in sg. my HTB will always tell me that he is too tired for that if not he will be like half dead in the middle of it. maybe you can try to arouse him.. know his "weakness" all that?!

 

[adelene]

Hi,

Age and stress could be the reason.
Have a talk with him.

 

[uglydude]

Maybe you are not attractive to him anymore....would be good if u do something to your appearance before he starts to stray outside...

 

[audi]

Saw on YouTube, I bought a powerful & small vibrator from Japan that claim to make a women reach orgasm within minutes. Tried on wife. Works wonder!! Maybe that can help u to relieve some stress ...

 

[sadman2009]

Actually I find it difficult to understand or to agree with the fact that man doesn't want to have sex...
Unless he is on medication....
We men can get arouse easy everyday.... Unless you are talking about have 3 times in one go .... Then that may be a bit difficult.
So, if you ask for it every alternate day I feel that it should be fine....
On the other hand, if the man is having another woman outside and have sex with her already before he come home... Then he will not be interested in having sex again...
But having said all these, this doesn't apply to all and is just my opinion....

 

[uglydude]

Finally it hard to understand or agree that man won't want sex means that you are most likely a woman pretending to be a man....not everyone is as tiko as u think....i got tons of friends who finds life perfectly fine without sex....

 

[sadman2009]

To uglydude,

I think you need to understand, a man who likes to have sex with his wife doesn't mean he is tiko.
Of course life without sex is fine as there are many other things in life for us to enjoy and appreciate.
But I would say sexual life in a marriage is an important part and enjoyment of life.

 

[miloice]

Men are generally programmed biologically to procreate. However, you have those minorities that fall into the extremes on both sides. Many guys that claims to have low or no sex drive are just craving for variety. There are real cases, but these are really the minority. Check out this documentary in youtube "The Science of Lust (Full Documentary)"... pretty interesting clip.

 

[hitori]

Hmm.. For my ex partner, we already have a child and were staying together and sometimes, I wanna have sex but hold back myself "out of respect" for her. Because I love her, and do not wana treat her as a sexual object. If we were Married, It will be different. My brother thought the same Way towards his ex wife too. We try to show our affection in other ways eventhough we have quite high drive. But now our partners have left us, sO we could have been wrong in our approach.
Just wish to give you a different perspective, Mayb that what your partner is thinking too?

 

[Tan cutie]

hmm.......... may i suggest u spice up the way of sex. Like arouse him more. lolx.