ExtremeEmo
New Member
Hi all,
I just need a space to vent my inner rage for what had happened to me. Need advise urgently as I'm not thinking straight.
My wife and I are both 30 years old and we have known each other for 11 years. I just found out the baby is not mine as the baby doctor tell us the baby blood type after delivery. I am totally devastated and unable to believe the women I love and care for all these years actually betrayed my trust and worst bear a child whom is not mine. She told me she is extremely remorseful and beg for my forgiveness. I ask for her reason of betrayal and she told me her curiosity of trying with another guy gets the better of her and she did it with him not once but 4 times within 2 months during my reservist and after that too. I cherish the fact we faces up and down throughout all these years but I felt tat my heart cannot bear it anymore. I am on the verge of breaking down and going all psycho. There is no scenario I have not thought of getting revenge. Someone out there please show me the light out of this
My situation now is our BTO is coming this year end.
We are married for 4 years .
Divorce or .....
I just need a space to vent my inner rage for what had happened to me. Need advise urgently as I'm not thinking straight.
My wife and I are both 30 years old and we have known each other for 11 years. I just found out the baby is not mine as the baby doctor tell us the baby blood type after delivery. I am totally devastated and unable to believe the women I love and care for all these years actually betrayed my trust and worst bear a child whom is not mine. She told me she is extremely remorseful and beg for my forgiveness. I ask for her reason of betrayal and she told me her curiosity of trying with another guy gets the better of her and she did it with him not once but 4 times within 2 months during my reservist and after that too. I cherish the fact we faces up and down throughout all these years but I felt tat my heart cannot bear it anymore. I am on the verge of breaking down and going all psycho. There is no scenario I have not thought of getting revenge. Someone out there please show me the light out of this
My situation now is our BTO is coming this year end.
We are married for 4 years .
Divorce or .....