When Love becomes Hate

ichangeforyou

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When Love becomes Hate.

Explanations becomes excuses.
Sincerity becomes redemption.
Strength becomes weaknesses.

All I ask is for a normal conversation with her. No matter how minute the chance of reconciling again. I will try my hardest as I love her for who she was, who she is and who she will be....

If only...
 
"All I ask is for a normal conversation with her"

"All I ask for" - This phrase is a common faultily (in taking ownership of issues) in many singaporebrides threads.

If we *expect* others to meet our expectations , and the results do not meet our expectations , we suffer.

Rather than suffer due to external party (which is more difficult to change), why not seek within ourselves, and change those expectations (that bring us suffering) within us?

Easier say than done , but it is definitely a more assure means than "dependence" on others changing to meet "our" expectation. Not taking ownership to manage oneself's expectation and lack of communication brings woe to many relationships.
 

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