Me and my husband have been married for 2 year plus.
Recently i found out something about my hubby, apparently about 1 year plus ago, he actually went out to a pub with this friend and did some kissing and hugging with a woman working there, when i learnt about this, i was shocked.
I never imagine my husband to be this kind of person, he had always told me he will never do such things with a woman outside.
My r/s with my husband is always not good, he likes to tell lies to me, he insist that these are white lies and it cause no harm to me, but i just hate his lies, come to a point that whatever come out from his mouth i dont trust him anymore.
And he lay hands on me before, we had a fight and he end of hitting me on the face till bruise, it started bec i pointed at him, and he said it was bec i touch him first. Anyway we had a major fight previously but bec of my daughter i forgave him and we end up together again.
I can forgive his lies, he hit me, but i cannot tolerate him touching another woman, and a few occasions he told our common friend that if i called him, just say he is with him. And previously i found a hotel stay on his credit card statement but he said its for his friend, i do not know did he had an affiar in the hotel, i cannot verify that.
But i no longer trust him, i confronted him and he keep insisitng he did not hv hanky panky with outside woman.
Im thinking of divorce him, i can no longer trust him and he betray me.
Recently i found out something about my hubby, apparently about 1 year plus ago, he actually went out to a pub with this friend and did some kissing and hugging with a woman working there, when i learnt about this, i was shocked.
I never imagine my husband to be this kind of person, he had always told me he will never do such things with a woman outside.
My r/s with my husband is always not good, he likes to tell lies to me, he insist that these are white lies and it cause no harm to me, but i just hate his lies, come to a point that whatever come out from his mouth i dont trust him anymore.
And he lay hands on me before, we had a fight and he end of hitting me on the face till bruise, it started bec i pointed at him, and he said it was bec i touch him first. Anyway we had a major fight previously but bec of my daughter i forgave him and we end up together again.
I can forgive his lies, he hit me, but i cannot tolerate him touching another woman, and a few occasions he told our common friend that if i called him, just say he is with him. And previously i found a hotel stay on his credit card statement but he said its for his friend, i do not know did he had an affiar in the hotel, i cannot verify that.
But i no longer trust him, i confronted him and he keep insisitng he did not hv hanky panky with outside woman.
Im thinking of divorce him, i can no longer trust him and he betray me.
