Hi leafmemories
,
I don't think that any of the brides from the CL thread were trying to be mean. If you remember correctly, you were the one who called us "biased" first, that's what got us upset
. As brides, we just want to have the best experiences thro' out our wedding, just like you. And like you, we are not in singaporebrides to flame or hurt anybody. We just want justice. Which bride doesn't want to enjoy her wedding preps and actual day? There was a bride who had complained personally to CL and ended up rebutted. This forum provides victimised brides an outlet to release their frustrations. That's why I complained about him here.
I understand that you are speaking from your good experience with him. Please understand that we are also speaking from our disappointing experiences with him. We also respect your opinion, just like you subsequently have. I believe in this forum, real brides want to make friends, not enemies. If you read my postings carefully, you'll realise I'm not directing them at you or making a personal attack on you. I didn't label you and any questions I've asked are merely rhetorical, not arrowed at you.
I can now fully understand how you feel about our responses since you mentioned you were "shocked" and didn't mean to antagonise anyone. I just hope that you could understand that the word "biased" is a very offensive term so naturally we took it kinda personally. Other than that, I could tell that you were very excited about your pleasant experience with him and were eager to share it with everybody.
I don't want to make another bride upset or affected, really. We are here to support each other. I'm sorry that you were "freaked out" by us. I didn't know you were so affected by the postings.
And please don't think I'm haunting or stalking you. I just chanced upon the thread.