Should I just step out?

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introuble

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I got to know a girl from friend, after a few weeks we started contact each other more frequently. I thought I can start a good relationship with her. But just a few months ago, her ex-bf who hurt her so much b4 divorce with his wife and come back to her. She told me he kneel down, hurt himself and beg her to forgive him.

He told her he is homeless now and beg her to let him temporary stay in her house. She and her family feel so poor to him and let him stay. But since then...I very hard to contact her....She told me he steal her hp and stop me from calling her or SMS her. He even follow her wherever she go. He will get angry and anyhow throw things in her house if they want to ask him go or stop him from doing something, like keep her phone...keep her laptop...anyhow use her phone to call and SMS...all the ridiculous and shameless things !! then they just let him do whatever he want to do....is it a gd reason???

She already told me about her past with the guy when we just knew each other. She said he cheated her money for other girl and even married with other girl. The worst part, he inform her about his marriage just 1 week b4 his wedding !!He nvr return her a single cents, she even suicide and went into hospital but he didn't care at all !!...What a bastard !!

Just few days ago she gave me a call and asked me do not give up and be strong. And said will call me soon but wait until now still no call from her, I tried to call her but all calls are "busy" and even nvr reply my SMS. But yet she told me she hate him so much and will nvr give him another chance....

I really confusing now....am I become 3rd party now? and Should I just step out? or waiting?

This is only my first time fell in love to a girl then encountered this kind of things...what a luck !!!
 


forget her and stay away from her...

u Will Never understand the logic of her ways and many things she do - u will not understand... u will only get frustrate n hurt yourself.

i hope u will do what i tell u, cos there's no end to frustration from pple from that world.
 
Introuble: only she knows what she is doing. Not to say that she is lying or not telling the truth, but what is the truth and what isn't? How old is the gal btw? If she can't handle her own life, who can?
 
Get out and look for other gf..there are so many good one out there..forget her completely and one day you will find yourself how stupid you are now..
 
ok...I see...thanks for all your advises
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appreciate it
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I hope I will not lose faith in relationship too....but now...I think I need time to recover....

Scared of girls now...do all the girls like bad guys? I not mean I am very good but I can treat the one I love good and will not hurt her. I will try my best to make her happy, although I know I am boring and not good in talking but I tried to improve for her.....I even helped her share her burden to help her clear her debt...because I really feel so sad to see her so tiring....she got a full time job but also work part time as a trainer at night class.

I dun have any close female's friends except those in work. So I actually very serious in this relationship with her but seem like she is not now....

Anyway, this forum is a good place for me to nagging all about this and can hear your replies...Thanks
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Now back to single....
 
Glad that you have decided to step out of this relationship. Dun mess up your life with such complicated person since you are that type that is serious in relationship.

Good luck to you and hope you find a worthy person of your love.
 
its natural that one loses confidence when down. The 1st part of recovery is to start believing and be optimistic about yourself and relationships again.
 
Thanks so much all of you !! really appreciate it
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I will take some time to recover.....and I think I really put in too much effort in this relationship.....next time do not dare anymore...
 
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