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nancytls

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Mine sis-inlaw and hubby are moving in to mine house to stay until 2013 while waiting for their new house. They will be paying for the power bill and those house expenses.
Before that, both mine inlaws are staying in the house only. They take care of mine kids and mine sil kid.
THis house is legally under the name of me & mien hubby. But technically. we are staying in the other house.
in mine heart, i felt that why should i let mine sis inlaw staying there.. they are no paying for the rental jus the power bill.

Mine sil is treating mine kids v well. THey help to take care of tgeh kids and the hubby also let them play those game station .ipad.

please advise , am i too narrow minded. In mine heart, i felt v uncomfortable for them to stay into mine house and they are occupying the MBR.

they are some incidence happen before that , i hv been isolate them , And seldom gg back to this house.. i guess so far for this year, only CNY time.

Actually since i have shifted out from the house .. i have not being gg back even though mine inlaw is takign care of the kids. mine hubby will fetch then hm at nite.

Please advise.. i so lost and feel depression...
 
hi sad.... technically y r u staying in other hse? are u paying rental for the other hse? Y is ur sil staying at ur place?
My mom used to stay with her mil while her sil (my aunt) was staying with her hubby at my parents' brand new hse... yet there was no bad blood btw them... eventually they moved out. now my bro is now staying at their hse and they are help to look after my bro... u dun know when u will need their help too...

hence if ur sil and ur hubby is very close, and she dun abuse this relationship, perhaps u can sound out ur hubby how long will they be staying at ur place... do go home regularly to clean up the hse to establish ur ownership... as there are cases whereby squaters were able to gain ownership to a place as they stayed at the location for a certain period of time and the owners did not establish any ownership of the place.
 
Hey Ariesta,
I staying in a private apartment owned by us and parent inlaw. And mine inlaw is staying in mine HDB (legally under me & mine hubby name). Actually they also fork in some cash for our private.

Mine inlaw will fetch mine kids back to the house from sch everyday and mine hubby will go back to the house for dinner and pick the kids every nite.

Mine parent inlaw is there to tidy our house and it is v clean and neat. I do not need to go back to tidy the house. Most of the furnitures are still intent.

ya,mine hubby and her sis are close. They did ask mine hubby permission to stay our house before they sold theirs. They will stay until their EC is ready (TOP).
Actually i also v angr with mine hubby that he did not ask mine permission before thtat. but to be truth. we have 2 empty rooms in mine house and mine inlaw are alone at nite. It will be gd for miune SIL to shift in with them .

AM I TOO NARROW MINDER. PLEASE SCOLD ME TO WAKE ME UP.
 
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