I have a gf, N for 5 years and plan to marry next year. She love me deeply and willing to sacrify alot for me. She is working in nearby state and we only see each other every fothnightly since this 2 years. Ive 2 ex-gf before her, and the reason of breakup is due to different character. All this while, i never ever think of betray anyone of them.
Problem start when i change my job last year end, i get to know this gal, B. She is 5 years my junior, and we get along well. She also has a bf of 5 years. We get to know that we both already had our long lasting partner and I also told her ill be getting married next year. Then we start to chat on all the topic especially regarding heart matter. Things start to grow as we continue communicate in this way. We see each other almost everyday.
Thing when hot up during the chinese new year break as B when back to home town for a week and her bf not with her. We would msg each other very frequenly for the first few days, and later start talk on the phone at night for few hours. Until the last day before she back to work, we both confess to each other that actually we both in love with each other.
But I just got to know actually she is live in with her bf for a year d. We both actually in delima. But we both just cant control our love for each other, and we become a couple without the knowledge of our existing partners. After 2 week we both already have intimate relation. We would go for short trip when her bf when outstation. We manage to hide it until last month her bf found out about our relationship and she told him the truth except our intinate relation. She was force to resign and i know i need to accept. Coz she cant leave him, she feel she owe him alot, and her bf treat her very good all this 5 years. She really depress after the incident, and for her good, i decide to let her go. Her last day supposed to be tomorrow, but last 3 day, her bf call me up and ask me not to contact her anymore in future. To me this the last chance for me to chance the situation. So i told him everything regarding us, and the fact is she love me the most.
She really feel so bad as she really betray him, and the day itself they decide to breakup. Thing got worst as all this thing went to B's parent ear, and yesterday they came from far to bring B back to hometown. Actually i know is good for her to have some time and space to relieve herself, so i support her decision.
Actually the problem if me, i really dunno who to choose. 1 is she really love me all the way for 5 years until now, and another one is someone i really love. Can anyone give any suggession?
Problem start when i change my job last year end, i get to know this gal, B. She is 5 years my junior, and we get along well. She also has a bf of 5 years. We get to know that we both already had our long lasting partner and I also told her ill be getting married next year. Then we start to chat on all the topic especially regarding heart matter. Things start to grow as we continue communicate in this way. We see each other almost everyday.
Thing when hot up during the chinese new year break as B when back to home town for a week and her bf not with her. We would msg each other very frequenly for the first few days, and later start talk on the phone at night for few hours. Until the last day before she back to work, we both confess to each other that actually we both in love with each other.
But I just got to know actually she is live in with her bf for a year d. We both actually in delima. But we both just cant control our love for each other, and we become a couple without the knowledge of our existing partners. After 2 week we both already have intimate relation. We would go for short trip when her bf when outstation. We manage to hide it until last month her bf found out about our relationship and she told him the truth except our intinate relation. She was force to resign and i know i need to accept. Coz she cant leave him, she feel she owe him alot, and her bf treat her very good all this 5 years. She really depress after the incident, and for her good, i decide to let her go. Her last day supposed to be tomorrow, but last 3 day, her bf call me up and ask me not to contact her anymore in future. To me this the last chance for me to chance the situation. So i told him everything regarding us, and the fact is she love me the most.
She really feel so bad as she really betray him, and the day itself they decide to breakup. Thing got worst as all this thing went to B's parent ear, and yesterday they came from far to bring B back to hometown. Actually i know is good for her to have some time and space to relieve herself, so i support her decision.
Actually the problem if me, i really dunno who to choose. 1 is she really love me all the way for 5 years until now, and another one is someone i really love. Can anyone give any suggession?
