No Bridesmaid aka Jiemei

[firsttimebride]

Hi, I am planning for my wedding in December this year but I discovered that I really do not have any "Jiemei". I just wish to ask if is there anyone who does not have jiemei for their wedding?

 

[ayc]

I'm not having any, my sister will be my maid-of-honour.

 

[constance_alan]

me too. i use my sis and her one good friends tt all .

 

[misstiny]

My fren use her sis as her "jie mei" as well.

 

[rabber]

My sister use me and my cousin.

Well, it doesn't matter I think. Some people have a bunch of friends and they aren't even that close to some of them. Worse still, they bitch about some in the group. It's like for show to me. What's the point?

 

[constance_alan]

My sister use me and my cousin.

Well, it doesn't matter I think. Some people have a bunch of friends and they aren't even that close to some of them. Worse still, they bitch about some in the group. It's like for show to me. What's the point?

i agree with u . some u invite to be ur sister,another u did not invite they will juz gossip. the less the merrier .

 

[fengfeng]

It is fine. My friend use her brother as her "Jie mei". It is more important to feel comfortable and good on your day instead of worrying about others.

 

[espenine]

I never liked the idea of 'jiemei'. A bunch of girls together can be really bitchy! LOL

 

[rabber]

Hahaa.. I agree. I have 3 people only, my cousin and 2 friends. All in different countries currently and 2 are flying back. 1 in SG.