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ordinarygirl

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Does anyone hv a MCP boyfriend before? I hv one right now and he's driving me crazy. He always instruct me to do things and if I dint, he will say hurtful words to me. He also keep suspecting I lie to him. Even when I tell the truth, he also say he dun believe. I feel very stressed and want to break off. But how shld I do? He's the type who never admit that he's in the wrong and would turn and point fingers at me. I'm also worried that he may take revenge. Anyone can help?
 


Noone can change him unless he is willing to change himself. I doubt he'll listen to your advices since he never think he's in the wrong.

You have only 2 choices -
stay & bear with the nonsense
leave him
 
depending on hw much u love him.. does the love allow u to take it..

or, try to speak to him.. sometimes communication does play a part. ask him to let u finish wit wat u hve to say.

most imptly focus on hw u feel and not pin-point everythg on him. do it discreetly.

ask him y he suspects u and hw to let him trust u.

hope tis helps
 
I beg to differ...
"depending on hw much u love him.. does the love allow u to take it.."

Loving someone doesn't mean having to take their nonsense. A relationship is 2 ways, we give and take. If its one way, no amount of love will sustain it. We will run out of passion and energy to go on enduring before it is not a fulfilling but draining relationship.
 
it depends i guess. of cos diff ppl hve diff views and opinions. it all depends on the party involved wat he/she choose to do..
 
I think it's difficult to put up with someone like that forever. Perhaps u can in the beginning. But let's say things get serious and u decide to settle down. Can u put up with it 24/7?
 
I left him after 3 years dating and we even save money for marriage but glad that i made the right choice. I am now happily married, my hubby is so much better than him.
 
I left my ex of 7yrs also with this same problem.That time he also threaten to revenge and ask me to be careful. He still blames me for everything for being heartless enuff to forget abt the long relationship. And i really dun wan to regret only after marriage. Glad i made the right decision, and now im also happily married. Do wat u think its best for urself. Becuz no one will know wats best for u and wat u need most.
 
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