Is it possible for someone to manufacture real feelings in you ?
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green_tranquility
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It's possible. Why not? Love cannot be defined in black and white.
green_tranquility
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Hehe I'm talking about the intial dating stage. The love is maybe 1 sided love or 2 sided love. This guessing game is part of the thrills from dating right?
Of course, a successful relationship needs 2 hands to clap.
Of course, a successful relationship needs 2 hands to clap.
well , I don't know. From my experience I have never fallen in love from dating.I have only ever had bf/gf relationships from dating.
I've only ever felt it in love at 1st sight / soulmate situations.
So I guess the Q should be can a non soulmate manufacture the soulmate feeling in you?
I've only ever felt it in love at 1st sight / soulmate situations.
So I guess the Q should be can a non soulmate manufacture the soulmate feeling in you?
green_tranquility
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From my experience, it's possible. 3 of my past good friends had feelings for me, though I didn't have any feelings for them. Their reasons are: I can communicate well with them, understand them well, I'm caring.
We are still good friends now.
Love at 1st sight never occur to me though I watch a lot of korea dramas lol.
We are still good friends now.
Love at 1st sight never occur to me though I watch a lot of korea dramas lol.
miloice
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of cos its possible.
Sparks from the initial attraction doesn't lasts. A relationship needs more than just that kind of attraction.
When love can develop from friendship even without the love at 1st sight initial attraction. And it is not manufactured. It grows naturally.
Sparks from the initial attraction doesn't lasts. A relationship needs more than just that kind of attraction.
When love can develop from friendship even without the love at 1st sight initial attraction. And it is not manufactured. It grows naturally.
sad gal,
Yeah,I tend to agree. But do you reckon it is possible for 1 side to like the other at 1st but the other does not feel the same, but a bit later he/she does?
milo,
Well I don't know about love growing from friendship - never experienced it, but I've never had romantic feelings for female friends even after a long time. I don't feel that is the same thing, I doubt if it has the intensity and the soul to soul feeling about it. I don't think it is possible to grow romantic love with anyone 1 person , it has to happen spontaneously.
sm,
The purpose is to find out if possible whether or not 1 side can deliberately make another fall for them for less than moral purposes.
Yeah,I tend to agree. But do you reckon it is possible for 1 side to like the other at 1st but the other does not feel the same, but a bit later he/she does?
milo,
Well I don't know about love growing from friendship - never experienced it, but I've never had romantic feelings for female friends even after a long time. I don't feel that is the same thing, I doubt if it has the intensity and the soul to soul feeling about it. I don't think it is possible to grow romantic love with anyone 1 person , it has to happen spontaneously.
sm,
The purpose is to find out if possible whether or not 1 side can deliberately make another fall for them for less than moral purposes.
miloice
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while it didn't happen for yourself, it doesn't mean it doesn't happen. Look beyond your own context and domain. Main things are possible.
My previous relationship was with someone that started only as lunch kiaki. She wasn't the chio type of gal and there wasn't any love at 1st sight at all. It was her contrasting personality that attracted me. The attraction happens beyond the initial friendship.
My previous relationship was with someone that started only as lunch kiaki. She wasn't the chio type of gal and there wasn't any love at 1st sight at all. It was her contrasting personality that attracted me. The attraction happens beyond the initial friendship.
milo ,
I did say ' never experienced it '.
How do you get from that to ' while it didn't happen for yourself, it doesn't mean it doesn't happen. Look beyond your own context and domain. Main things are possible.'
Never did say it was impossible and to state otherwise is a statement of the obvious.
I did say ' never experienced it '.
How do you get from that to ' while it didn't happen for yourself, it doesn't mean it doesn't happen. Look beyond your own context and domain. Main things are possible.'
Never did say it was impossible and to state otherwise is a statement of the obvious.
miloice
Well-Known Member
Then, what is your question about?!?
u r confusing me.
u asked if its possible and say it didn't happen for you. I'm telling its possible and you said its obvious. WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT?? huh???
u asked : "How do you get from that to ' while it didn't happen for yourself, it doesn't mean it doesn't happen. Look beyond your own context and domain. Main things are possible.'"
My answer : I got it from something called common sense and logical reasoning. Maybe its not so common. my bad then.. even the kind of language and choice of words puzzles me quite a bit. Manufacturing Feelings??
u r confusing me.
u asked if its possible and say it didn't happen for you. I'm telling its possible and you said its obvious. WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT?? huh???
u asked : "How do you get from that to ' while it didn't happen for yourself, it doesn't mean it doesn't happen. Look beyond your own context and domain. Main things are possible.'"
My answer : I got it from something called common sense and logical reasoning. Maybe its not so common. my bad then.. even the kind of language and choice of words puzzles me quite a bit. Manufacturing Feelings??
If it is possible then what?
If not possible then what?
You asked a question and some people answer you that it is possible, then you dismissed that you "never experienced" it and doubt its possibility.
And if you never say it was impossible - ie you believe it is possible? So?
Possible or impossible - there is no standard answers.. What are you trying to achieve?
If not possible then what?
You asked a question and some people answer you that it is possible, then you dismissed that you "never experienced" it and doubt its possibility.
And if you never say it was impossible - ie you believe it is possible? So?
Possible or impossible - there is no standard answers.. What are you trying to achieve?
miloice
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what's going on????
1st, we had new posters accusing 'regulars' of bullying etc.
And now... new claims that somehow I have some admin rights to delete mesg and ban people.
What's next? Claims that I have super natural powers to enter your dreams or something?
Is this another stun by past troublemakers?
For me, the only recent joker that would believe that I've some admin rights is Mr Conrad Tham. I merely reported him to Chin Leng on his preying behavior in the forum. The appropriate action were taken by the admin and completely beyond my control.
If messages were removed because of violation of the rules, he would have been banned too and not possible to come this such groundless allegation here using the same nick. Go figure that out.
Another lame attempt. Move on lah SunBean. Stop coming back to try to flame or get back on people that spoil your lousy stupid plan to prey on ladies online.
1st, we had new posters accusing 'regulars' of bullying etc.
And now... new claims that somehow I have some admin rights to delete mesg and ban people.
What's next? Claims that I have super natural powers to enter your dreams or something?
Is this another stun by past troublemakers?
For me, the only recent joker that would believe that I've some admin rights is Mr Conrad Tham. I merely reported him to Chin Leng on his preying behavior in the forum. The appropriate action were taken by the admin and completely beyond my control.
If messages were removed because of violation of the rules, he would have been banned too and not possible to come this such groundless allegation here using the same nick. Go figure that out.
Another lame attempt. Move on lah SunBean. Stop coming back to try to flame or get back on people that spoil your lousy stupid plan to prey on ladies online.
shatterheart
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hi Mr milo why get agitate from someone in this virtual world... no point explaining to such 'creature'
" What's wrong with correcting some typo spelling errors? its really low "
yeah right. That's code for censoring what you claim offends your delicate ego, whilst you of course attempt [ emphasis on attempt ] to bully others.
" Please quote what u claimed I censored. Else, take back your groundless claims."
Where are you brains located ? in the rear end ?
How am I supposed to quote what I claimed you censored ? Use super natural powers ?
And is this fool saying anyone who post to a female on this forum is " preying on ladies ". In that case the whole forum would be " guilty " including the fool himself .
Who is Conrad ?
Totally ridiculous.
Not only do you have anger issues but it seems you are IQ challenged too.
And yes it is Stunts not " stuns " . Guess how has a typo problem now ?
yeah right. That's code for censoring what you claim offends your delicate ego, whilst you of course attempt [ emphasis on attempt ] to bully others.
" Please quote what u claimed I censored. Else, take back your groundless claims."
Where are you brains located ? in the rear end ?
How am I supposed to quote what I claimed you censored ? Use super natural powers ?
And is this fool saying anyone who post to a female on this forum is " preying on ladies ". In that case the whole forum would be " guilty " including the fool himself .
Who is Conrad ?
Totally ridiculous.
Not only do you have anger issues but it seems you are IQ challenged too.
And yes it is Stunts not " stuns " . Guess how has a typo problem now ?
miloice
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More idiotic quotes : "And is this fool saying anyone who post to a female on this forum is " preying on ladies ". In that case the whole forum would be " guilty " including the fool himself ."
Once again proving what an idiot u r. I was mentioning about the only recent occasion when someone's thread was removed and account suspended. READ and don't expose your moronic logic further.
Please prove your claim that I somehow deleted messages. No one except the moderators have rights to delete the messages. And everyone can only edit only their own messages within 20 mins. Get it MORON?
u can go on with all the crap but its all technically NOT possible. We don't have the rights to do what you claimed. yes, its me with the typos and me correcting my own typos. SO??? This is so damn weird. Are you crazy, stupid or both? If I take your words seriously, then u must be a major screw loose. Else, u r damn bo liao.
Go ahead and clarify this with the admins and discover what a boohoo u have made for yourself. Loser.
Once again proving what an idiot u r. I was mentioning about the only recent occasion when someone's thread was removed and account suspended. READ and don't expose your moronic logic further.
Please prove your claim that I somehow deleted messages. No one except the moderators have rights to delete the messages. And everyone can only edit only their own messages within 20 mins. Get it MORON?
u can go on with all the crap but its all technically NOT possible. We don't have the rights to do what you claimed. yes, its me with the typos and me correcting my own typos. SO??? This is so damn weird. Are you crazy, stupid or both? If I take your words seriously, then u must be a major screw loose. Else, u r damn bo liao.
Go ahead and clarify this with the admins and discover what a boohoo u have made for yourself. Loser.
green_tranquility
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Milo,
Just ignore him. Enjoy your holiday ok.
Noone knows what he's talking about. He needs to go for English language course lol.
Just ignore him. Enjoy your holiday ok.
Noone knows what he's talking about. He needs to go for English language course lol.
green_tranquility
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Milo,
Same to u!
It's so hot today outside. I rather stay at home to hide from the heat.
Same to u!
green_tranquility
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Milo,
Bangkok again? Your company seems to have a lot of overseas operations.
Bangkok again? Your company seems to have a lot of overseas operations.
miloice
Well-Known Member
no, to europe.
thankfully not bangkok this time. The last time, my boss went instead and it was during the riot.
Airport closed and he took bus all the way from Southern Thailand back to Sgp to fly back to Europe. Its a global biz so naturally biz trips are required. But, we have been given the objective to cut biz travel expenses by 15% this quarter due to current economic climate.
thankfully not bangkok this time. The last time, my boss went instead and it was during the riot.
Airport closed and he took bus all the way from Southern Thailand back to Sgp to fly back to Europe. Its a global biz so naturally biz trips are required. But, we have been given the objective to cut biz travel expenses by 15% this quarter due to current economic climate.
why is this many times rejected fool posting here if he is not bothered by me ?
And why can't he and his silly fans stick to the topic ?
Why not those that are really interested in the topic stay and the rest leave or jerk off to wantan or whatever they do when not being dumped , or shall I start another thread ?
And why can't he and his silly fans stick to the topic ?
Why not those that are really interested in the topic stay and the rest leave or jerk off to wantan or whatever they do when not being dumped , or shall I start another thread ?
saggitarian
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hmm .. i think u shld start another thread .. so you can have that thread all by yourself ..
urm .. lets start with the first question ..
"Is it possible for someone who has not fallen in love with you to make you genuinely fall in love with them."
of cos ... otherwise how come ppl will bother to chase individuals ... to dress to impress individuals ... basically ur sentence so long but u r saying ... i do not like u .. but i am attractive enought to make u like me .. which ans the question itself ...
lets go to the second question ..
"sm,
The purpose is to find out if possible whether or not 1 side can deliberately make another fall for them for less than moral purposes"
if u r only thinking about possible or not possible .. of cos it is possible .. or else .. how fhm models make readers fall for them less than moral purposes .... this is jus one simple example i quoting ..
urm .. lets start with the first question ..
"Is it possible for someone who has not fallen in love with you to make you genuinely fall in love with them."
of cos ... otherwise how come ppl will bother to chase individuals ... to dress to impress individuals ... basically ur sentence so long but u r saying ... i do not like u .. but i am attractive enought to make u like me .. which ans the question itself ...
lets go to the second question ..
"sm,
The purpose is to find out if possible whether or not 1 side can deliberately make another fall for them for less than moral purposes"
if u r only thinking about possible or not possible .. of cos it is possible .. or else .. how fhm models make readers fall for them less than moral purposes .... this is jus one simple example i quoting ..
saggitarian
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...
even mastercard also dun dare to use anything ..
"There are some things money can't buy. For everything else there's Mastercard"
even mastercard also dun dare to use anything ..
"There are some things money can't buy. For everything else there's Mastercard"
susanna_low
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For me, I believe true love start with friendship when both parties will take time to understand and care for each other.
Love at 1st sight to me is crap, should be lust at 1st sight instead, especially true for those men who can't wait to jump into bed
Love at 1st sight to me is crap, should be lust at 1st sight instead, especially true for those men who can't wait to jump into bed
adrian7818
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Manufacture real feeling??? This term sound kinda of weird for me, maybe the correct word is "nurture"??
Both my wife and I didn't fall in love with each other in the first place. We started because both of us wanted to know how does it feel like to be in a relationship....(we only found this out 1 yr later). But as years goes by, we started to blend into each other's life.
Maybe it's because the way we started, we both know that love is not the main thing in a relationship, it's the patience and understanding from each other that makes it lasts.....
Both my wife and I didn't fall in love with each other in the first place. We started because both of us wanted to know how does it feel like to be in a relationship....(we only found this out 1 yr later). But as years goes by, we started to blend into each other's life.
Maybe it's because the way we started, we both know that love is not the main thing in a relationship, it's the patience and understanding from each other that makes it lasts.....
I do believe in ri jiu sheng qing. But it do not apply to all. I suppose in order to nurture (sheng) that feeling of love, both have to have chemistry and opportunity for it to happen.
Nothing is impossible, but it dun mean that it will happen to everyone that wishes it to happen. There is even a possibility of falling in and out of love with the same person more than one time, but nothing can be forced.
Nothing is impossible, but it dun mean that it will happen to everyone that wishes it to happen. There is even a possibility of falling in and out of love with the same person more than one time, but nothing can be forced.
powderful07
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Started a stupid thread with stupid question...
People talked to him nicely...he can't understand and then behaves like a jerk...
What a twat.
People talked to him nicely...he can't understand and then behaves like a jerk...
What a twat.
qwerty,
no lah, then what you and I are describing are very different things.
" falling for them " in this case to me means , falling love very little to do with lust. Trust me I've been in lust many times and it is no way the same. If i am really in love with a woman , I will never ever cheat on her not if you put 100 Miss Universes in front of me never cheapo FHM models.
But it is 1 of these things if you haven't tried it then very difficult to explain it. It's like explaining the Durian to someone to never ate it before.
susanna low,
Sorry you feel so cynical/bitter about it . I definitely say it is not crap and not really to with jumping into bed
heartpain,
are you saying true love needs to be further proved by making of sacrifices to each other.
†PoWd3rFuL☆ (powderful07),
my my how touchy you are , what's the matter just got dumped by another girl ? Ha ha .
no lah, then what you and I are describing are very different things.
" falling for them " in this case to me means , falling love very little to do with lust. Trust me I've been in lust many times and it is no way the same. If i am really in love with a woman , I will never ever cheat on her not if you put 100 Miss Universes in front of me never cheapo FHM models.
But it is 1 of these things if you haven't tried it then very difficult to explain it. It's like explaining the Durian to someone to never ate it before.
susanna low,
Sorry you feel so cynical/bitter about it . I definitely say it is not crap and not really to with jumping into bed
heartpain,
are you saying true love needs to be further proved by making of sacrifices to each other.
†PoWd3rFuL☆ (powderful07),
my my how touchy you are , what's the matter just got dumped by another girl ? Ha ha .
powderful07
New Member
Did anyone told you you're pretty lame in your retorts?
Must be a daily struggle with that borderline intellect of yours....plus bad English...
Must be a daily struggle with that borderline intellect of yours....plus bad English...