Dear podders.
Wonder has any of you all be it guy/gal podder ever did up a DOS during seperation period but when it comes to actual distribution of the flat. the alimony or what its to let the court decide or fight it out.
Scenario is like this, now my gonna be ex wife soon move out of the matrimonial flat, partly cause i cant stand her le, in e end my mum n her man moved in then she demanded every mth of a certain amount as for giving up her plc or rent of space to my mum n her man. its quite a amount as everything in the house is still fully i paid for except her cpf that is contributing no real hard cash contributed.
During the DOS cause maybe im partly at fault agree everything even from the hse start till furniture, till our ROM ceremony till engage studdio all this are all paid by me. i am not in a right mind to argue therefore i agree everything give her.. even the house when divorce im giving my share of 50% up to her therefore then she wun be getting anymore alimony. but we married for less than a year and all this while is i been paying.
i wonder can i revoke the DOS agreement when the actual divorce hearing. is it based fully by judge or stil have personal agreement.?
has anyone went thru such before..? can give any advise.. maybe a part of me felt she is enjoying herself happily. and im only buying my time at my current plc once divorce up and i had no plc le whats gonna be me thats what im worried.
Wonder has any of you all be it guy/gal podder ever did up a DOS during seperation period but when it comes to actual distribution of the flat. the alimony or what its to let the court decide or fight it out.
Scenario is like this, now my gonna be ex wife soon move out of the matrimonial flat, partly cause i cant stand her le, in e end my mum n her man moved in then she demanded every mth of a certain amount as for giving up her plc or rent of space to my mum n her man. its quite a amount as everything in the house is still fully i paid for except her cpf that is contributing no real hard cash contributed.
During the DOS cause maybe im partly at fault agree everything even from the hse start till furniture, till our ROM ceremony till engage studdio all this are all paid by me. i am not in a right mind to argue therefore i agree everything give her.. even the house when divorce im giving my share of 50% up to her therefore then she wun be getting anymore alimony. but we married for less than a year and all this while is i been paying.
i wonder can i revoke the DOS agreement when the actual divorce hearing. is it based fully by judge or stil have personal agreement.?
has anyone went thru such before..? can give any advise.. maybe a part of me felt she is enjoying herself happily. and im only buying my time at my current plc once divorce up and i had no plc le whats gonna be me thats what im worried.