Feeling Lost over his reactions

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pinkfairy08

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Dear all,

Recently I know this guy who is a mutual friend of mine. we hit off quite well and has went out few times for dinner for a 3 mths span.

However, on the last meet-up he confess that he likes me alot and can't do w/o me. although we only hold hands but there is no official status as in he treat me likes a gf. I tries asking whether does he like me if not we can be friend and move on.

Sometimes I realise he did not even take the initiative to call or message me to show me concern or ask me how am I doing. I tried to voice out my thoughts to him and tell him how I felt.

And lastnight he dropped the bombshell and say why don't I treat him as friend first as if in relationship more expectations between both of us. I am disgusted as he did mention that he always think of me and will change to be more open in his feelings towards me. I am so disappointed with his behaviour. I truly believe he does not really likes me.

Wonder should I still continue to go out with him as friend and where can it takes us to since he is not making the efforts? sincere advice needed
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He is not serious .. He is still choosing and looking for better 1 ..

Just take natural tke it course ...

But, just dont put too much effort in this kind of relationship.

If a man really interested in a woman wnt behave like tes..

The man u like is very young or what ..
 
He's not sincere. He might like you alittle just like one of the spare tyres but you are certainly not the true girl that he actually like. You can continue yr friendship with him but be firm and clear No hold hands, no kisses and don't allow him to trick you into his traps again
 
hehe, women are really clueless...

actually they are holding hands... few other things will come, just need to give it time.

unfortunately women have a tendency like kids to try to unwrap the christmas presents before christmas day.
 
And u wonder why guys have commitment phobia...

it's like watching a serial with 5 actors and 5 actresses... at the end of the serial, Each Actor gets to be with 1 gIrl... of cos in-between u have 'cross-liking' and little love triangles...

in the real world, there are MANY triangles u have to deal with... him-career-u, then him-family-u, then him-Other Gals-u, him-hobbies-u.

if your world is only u-home-work... then obviously u'll always be clueless with the abv-average breed of guys. thus u should just stick to guys of similar faceted living.

Of cos, i am just throwing u things to think abt... pls dun be like some stupid females in this forum who ask for advice, then go into the 'u dun know my problems, u dun know me' mode... ie this dumbo http://www.singaporebrides.com/forumboard/messages/5/1854057.html?1329921172
 
anyway relationship also hard to explain.. all depend to the person itself how to manage..

U can advise the best solution but end of the day
will the person listen or enhance the problem..

To a man, if they like a woman whatever thing the woman requested they felt is worth doing ..

IF they dont like a woman as a spare, you will hard see them and they do thing are usually very very strange..
 
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